Maybe it's because it's more popular to post "women's books", or because women's sense of independence is making great strides, and the whole society is keen to convey to the public how new women should be, so the title is also directly a few big words - "50 Basics of New Women".
After reading it, it was unexpected, there are almost no chapters in it that promote how women are independent, how to balance family and career, how to jump out of the inherent situation, and those common female problems in parents, the author does not talk about them.
She focuses more on writing about self-growth, interpersonal relationships, workplace development, and the basics of dealing with people, not so much for women, but for all mankind, especially middle-aged people.
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Just like her positioning of this book: "A middle-aged person's mental journey of fighting and reconciling with himself and the times." Very broken, but it's real. ”
✔️ Trek through mountains and rivers to find your own heart
✔️ Refuse to consume and build the walls of the border
✔️ Build the kernel and learn to talk to yourself
✔️ Only when there is room for the heart can we live brightly
✔️ Loving and being loved are all about growing up
✔️ What makes people grow is the softness of the heart
✔️ Hermaphrodites, waves can stand and steady
50 articles on 7 topics, taking into account all aspects, it is a bit vulgar to say, but it is really a hand-in-hand teaching you to establish a stable core and be a comfortable person.
Impressedly, she and her son went to see osmanthus. The son said to her: "I wanted to play you with flower branches and give you a rain of osmanthus flowers." Think about it or forget it, let the osmanthus stay on the tree for a few more days. ”
Even when she responded to her son's response that the osmanthus would still fall in a few days if it rained anyway, she replied: "Let it rain if it rains, anyway, I will return the osmanthus to the tree." ”
As the sentence in the book: "I hope that my readers can understand a truth in my life experience, that the establishment and stability of the spiritual core of an ordinary person does not come from the hardening of the heart, but the softness of the heart." "Her son's words and deeds are the best proof of his parents' words and deeds.
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There is no lack of her bold remarks, talking about Women's Day, she put forward a unique view of respecting women, equality between men and women is never manifested in blind touting, not in the "goddess" and "fairy" such titles.
It should be embodied in genuine respect, and instead of pulling a banner to thank women for their efforts, pull a banner to point out the key:
✔️ We call on the whole society to give men and women equal pay for equal work, and resist discrimination against women in the workplace, especially women of childbearing age
✔️ Resolutely resist domestic violence and call on society to pay attention to vulnerable women
✔️ We resolutely support women's freedom to be single and to marry, and oppose the cooling-off period for divorce
She said: "There is a difference between the effect and power of women holding up signs in the streets and men pulling banners to stand up. "I think getting men to stand up is something that will take a lot of effort to achieve in the coming years.
At that time, all humanity will be softened by this.
"50 Basics of a New Woman: How to Have a Stable Core and Be a Comfortable Person"
: Peach Blossom Lake Li Bai
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