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My name is Li Lei, an ordinary office worker. His wife, Zhang Lin, has a straightforward personality and is the eldest in the family. Mother-in-law Zhang Shuzhen, a typical old-school mother, is stubborn and nagging.
Zhang Lin and I worked in other places, had successful careers, and lived a decent life. But the mother-in-law was guarding her hometown alone, her health was deteriorating, and she was lonely and lonely. Every time she videos, her expression is gloomy, which makes Zhang Lin and me feel distressed. In order to make my mother-in-law happy, we decided to visit her in our hometown on National Day.
"Lei Lei, my mother is sick, we must go back to our hometown to see her on National Day. Zhang Lin rummaged through the cabinets and carefully prepared various health products and nutritional products as gifts.
"Don't worry, I've got you covered. "I helped pack my suitcases and looked forward to the long-lost taste of home.
However, the high-speed train was delayed by two hours, and Zhang Lin was anxious and gloomy. "What if my mother is in a hurry?"
I hurriedly comforted her: "Don't worry, we still have time to accompany my mother-in-law." Think about the previous National Day, how meaningful those laughter and laughter were. "
But when we arrived at the door, my mother-in-law's reaction was beyond our expectations. She was cold and even impatient with our arrival. Zhang Lin cried and asked her mother-in-law why she was so indifferent and ruthless.
"Mom, look at how hard we work, we came back from out of town to see you, why are you so cold?" Zhang Lin's eyes were full of tears, and her voice was almost choked.
The mother-in-law was full of stubbornness, and said confidently: "I'm old, you young people should concentrate on work, there is no need to work so hard." "
Zhang Lin was enraged by her mother-in-law's words, and she accused her mother-in-law of selfishness and lack of consideration. "Mom, why do you talk like that? We came all the way back out of concern for you. You see, we have brought you so many supplements just to hope that you are well. But it's so hurtful that you're so cold to us!"
The mother-in-law was still stubborn and retorted: "You young people should concentrate on your work, don't worry about it all day." I'm old, what's the big deal, I'll just get by. "
Seeing that my wife and mother-in-law were tense, I hurriedly appeased Zhang Lin. "Linlin, mother-in-law, she is older and has a bigger temper, we can't blame her. Think about how lonely and lonely she lives at home alone, and she does this out of love for us. "
I'm actually conflicted inside. On the one hand, I understand that my mother-in-law's approach is out of concern for us, for fear that we will work; On the other hand, I can also feel my wife's disappointment and grievances.
Seeing our concern, my mother-in-law's ice began to melt slowly. She shed tears and told about the loneliness in her heart: "I am getting old, my health is getting worse, and it is difficult for you to come back to see me often when you are working in other places. I'm afraid you're going to work, so I'm acting colder. But I didn't expect you to care about me so much, I'm so selfish!"
As she spoke, her mother-in-law took the initiative to hug Zhang Lin, and tears flowed down her face. Zhang Lin was finally relieved, she hugged her mother-in-law and kissed her wrinkled cheeks.
Witnessing this scene, my heart was also deeply touched. After a while, Zhang Lin wiped away her tears, and her face regained her resolute expression. She held my hand tightly and said with a firm look in her eyes: "Lei Lei, I have already made up my mind." Either we take our mother-in-law to live with us, or we move back to our hometown and stay with my mother-in-law. I don't want my mother-in-law to be lonely and lonely like this anymore!"
"But Linlin, our work and life in the field are very good, do you really want to move back like this?" I was a little hesitant.
Zhang Lin was aggressive and resolute: "No matter what, I don't want to leave my mother-in-law anymore! You either agree to take your mother-in-law over, or move back to your hometown with me, you choose!"
I looked at my wife's resolute eyes, and then at my mother-in-law's haggard face, and my heart was uncertain. Taking my mother-in-law over can indeed solve the immediate need, but in the long run, it will bring a lot of inconvenience to our lives; Moving back to your hometown means giving up your current job and life, and the future is uncertain.
My mind was torn between a dilemma, and I couldn't make up my mind for a while.
At this moment, the mother-in-law spoke, and she said, "You young people should continue to develop in other places, I am old, and I will leave at any time." Why don't you let me move in with you, so that you can go to work and I won't be so lonely. "
As she spoke, my mother-in-law hugged us, tears welling up in her eyes again. Zhang Lin and I also burst into tears and hugged this great and lovely old man tightly.
My mother-in-law's decision gave us renewed hope for life. We immediately started to buy a new home for my mother-in-law in Hong Kong. After months of careful decoration, a warm and loving new home was finally completed.
The small bachelor apartment was renovated by us, and it was full of the warmth of home. In the living room, her mother-in-law's favorite purple clay pot and tea set are stocked, in the bedroom is her favorite old-fashioned wooden bed, and in the kitchen is stocked with her usual seasonings. Everything makes this new home full of family affection.
After my mother-in-law moved into a new home, our family of three spent more and more time together. Every day after work, we would walk together in three of us, either sitting at my mother-in-law's house or going out for a walk. Gradually, that long-lost family affection returned to our lives.
"Linlin, mother-in-law, I really thank you so much. If it weren't for your persistence, I would have been lonely for the rest of my life. The mother-in-law often shed tears and said to Zhang Lin sincerely.
Zhang Lin would comfort her mother-in-law: "Mom, just stay with us, what is there to thank for." Shouldn't we live together as a family?"
Looking at the happy scene of a family of three, my heart is extremely warm. Family affection is such a powerful force, it can melt all barriers and mustards, and re-establish the connection between people that blood is thicker than water.
In the past, I always put my career first and neglected the importance of getting along with my family. This experience made me realize that family affection is far more precious than money and career, and it is the fundamental bond that holds a family and a family together.
Mother-in-law also rediscovered the meaning and value of life in our tolerance and understanding. Her stubbornness and stubbornness all stem from her love and reluctance to us. And when we responded to her with patience and love, her heart was finally relieved.
I can see that my mother-in-law seems to have fewer wrinkles on her face in the company of us. Her eyes sparkled again, and a smile spread across her face. This relief and joy is what she has gained from our tolerance and understanding.
In this way, our family of three started a new life. On weekends and holidays, the three of us always get together to share the joy of reunion.
Sometimes I play chess and cards at home, and sometimes I go out on an outing. No matter what you do, laughter and laughter will fill every corner of the room. My mother-in-law's health is getting better and better under our careful care, and her face is full of sunny smiles again.
Looking at all this, my heart is filled with gratitude for my loved ones. They made me realize the value of family affection, and they also made me understand the importance of tolerance and understanding.
I hope that the warmth of family affection can always accompany us, so that our lives will always be full of sunshine. I also hope that through our family's experience, more people can attach importance to family affection, resolve differences with love, embrace each other's shortcomings with understanding, and tolerate the unsatisfactory in life with tolerance.
Only in this way will each of our lives be as warm as the sun and as gorgeous as flowers.
Since moving to us, my mother-in-law's life has changed completely. She is no longer the old man who is alone and lonely, but has reintegrated into the warm embrace of her family. Every day when I wake up, I can see Zhang Lin and I laughing and greeting, and I am extremely gratified.
"Lei Lei, Linlin, thank you so much. If it weren't for your persistence, I would have been lonely for the rest of my life. "My mother-in-law often said to us with red eyes and sincerity.
I stepped forward and hugged her and comforted, "Mother-in-law, you can stay with us, what is there to thank you." Shouldn't we live together as a family?"
Zhang Lin will often comfort her mother-in-law and let her completely let go of the mustard in her heart. "Mom, we used to be young and vigorous, and we always put our work first and ignored your feelings, and it was all our fault. Fortunately, in the end, we woke up and cherished you again. "
"From now on, you can live with us with peace of mind, and if you need anything, just ask. You're so old and you've suffered so much, it's time to have fun. Zhang Lin would take her mother-in-law's hand and say earnestly.
When the mother-in-law heard this, her eyes were full of tears of relief. She would nod her head and smile happily.
On weekends, the three of us would get together and have a great time. Sometimes I play chess and cards at home, sometimes I go out on an outing, and occasionally I go to a nearby restaurant for dinner.
No matter what you do, laughter and laughter will fill every corner of the room. My mother-in-law's health is getting better and better under our careful care, and her face is full of sunny smiles again.
Seeing all this, my heart is extremely warm. In the past, I always put my career first and neglected the importance of getting along with my family. This experience made me deeply realize that family affection is far more precious than money and career, and it is the fundamental bond that holds a family and a family together.
Sometimes, I think about life quietly by myself. We come into this world and we all leave eventually. In a short life, we should cherish the present, manage our lives well, and live meaningful and worthwhile lives.
And family is the most important meaning of our lives. Without the companionship and love of our families, we will be like orphans, adrift in this world. Therefore, we should cherish the relatives in front of us, resolve differences with love, embrace each other's shortcomings with understanding, and tolerate the unsatisfactory in life with tolerance.
Only in this way will each of our lives be as warm as the sun and as gorgeous as flowers. I hope that through our family experience, more people can value family affection and learn to treat those around them with love and tolerance.
Therefore, I sincerely hope that no family in the world will fall apart because of contradictions. I also sincerely wish that all of us can live a happy and healthy life in the warmth of family affection like our family.
After all, family affection is the most precious gift that God has given us. Only by cherishing it well will our life be full of meaning and our life will be colorful.