#人的一辈子非要拼命工作赚钱么? #
As the saying goes, knowing the destiny of heaven at fifty is to accept one's fate, and at this age, there is already an arrangement of fate, and at most it is a struggle.
Yes, people in their fifties have experienced a lot of things, and they should also look away. It's not much, but at least it can make your family live a better life. Although he didn't make great achievements, he still had some confidence in front of everyone. That's enough.
Compared with people in their thirties, his sharpness is much weaker. I remember that when I was on an airplane, I read a magazine on the plane, and one of the words left a deep impression on me: A person's life is like a process of flying, when he is young, he is like an airplane about to take off, and he must strive to move forward, otherwise he will not be able to fly; when he reaches middle age, just like flying at a high altitude, he must maintain a certain altitude and speed to avoid falling; when he is old, he is like taking an airplane, and if he wants to land safely, he must be stable. When you think of people in middle age, they are like a high-flying airplane, which still has to maintain an altitude, but has lost the power to rush forward; now is the time to go down, you must be steady.
A middle-aged person doesn't have much reason to be lazy. There are elderly people in the family, a wife, and many people are waiting for him, even if he is not short of money, he needs a person to rely on. It's about the pillars.
After many people reach middle age, they will feel that they are less motivated, less enthusiastic about spending money, and more of a detachment. It's the same with him, in this case a lot of ideas are stifled, or stifled. "The old man is young and vigorous?" I want to see how arrogant you can be.
Sometimes, he will become lazy, will become free, will become confused, this is normal, after all, people have reached middle age, who has not been confused? But after the confusion, he didn't say anything, continued to work, continued to make money.
Even if he had enough money, he would continue to work. For middle-aged people, the purpose of struggle is not just to make money, but to realize their own value: for their families, for society, and for society. When there is no use value, there may be no meaning in survival.
Whether it's hard work or work, to put it mildly, it's all about making money. However, money has a double meaning, one is that money fits, it is the guarantee of the exchange of commodities and the quality of life in the period of commodity economy, and the other is that it is a symbol of values, which shows that individuals can still contribute to society through their own labor and wisdom, and in exchange for their own needs, it is a kind of value embodiment and embodiment.
Earning some money is just to make your family feel safe. Many of their peers say that they spend very little, only occasionally and do not spend much. In this case, making money is more important for the family, a kind of security. To put it simply, money can be without, but it must be there. Rather than not having enough money when you need it.
Hard work, first and foremost, is to bring value to the community, which is called "contribution", and then use it in exchange for what you want, so that you can have a higher life experience and a higher quality of life.
When you're forty or fifty years old, you don't want to work anymore, so you just lie down, although it looks helpless, but you can be regarded as giving up a way out. The meaning of life will become even more elusive. Why do some old people still feel that life is boring in their old age? That is, you are useless to others and to society. Thus, a decline in meaning means that one is contributing less and less to the world, rather than one contributing less and less to the world.
That's why I work harder the older I get. No matter how old a person is, something has to be done. It cannot prolong a person's lifespan, but it can increase one's contribution to the world, expand one's social sphere, and enhance the meaning and value of one's life.