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You Benchang's love mailbox
You Benchang's love story seems to have started with a sack of love letters. At that time, the Internet and mobile phones were not yet widespread, and the way to express emotions was mostly simple and straightforward – letters. He is desperate to pursue the love of his heart, like a determined warrior, writing affection with pen and ink, every word is fine.
Each letter carries his deep affection for his future wife and a beautiful vision for his future life. In that era, this kind of steadfast and patient pursuit was particularly moving, and perhaps it was this persistence that forged a strong love in the years that followed.
Netizens were also amazed by this, and some people joked: "Modern people don't even want to wait for their WeChat avatar to turn green, let alone write a sack of love letters like an old man!"
A textbook of love
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In Yau's view, marriage is a small community that needs to face various challenges and difficulties together. When his wife needed him due to illness, he did not hesitate at all, and chose to retire early, put down his career, and be by his wife's side. What he did was not a sacrifice, but a commitment to the community.
They have experienced the ups and downs of life together, and along the way, supporting each other has become their strength to move forward steadily. Netizens have a lot of discussions about this, and some people joked: "It seems that the secret of Old Man You's 'not making a sound' is to do good things silently, I have to learn it quickly!" This state of mutual support is like a classic case in love textbooks, which is worth cherishing.
Silence is golden
One of the important creeds in You Lao's life is "let the other party say the last sentence, and you don't make a sound", which played a key role in his married life. The tolerance and understanding contained in this silence shows that he not only values verbal communication, but also values communication in silence.
In the modern era of social media, it seems to be a habit to "ring" casually, but in You Lao's view, silence is an art in communication. Netizens were also very touched by this, and some comments joked: "If the one in my family can also 'not sound' once, I may suspect that he has been replaced." The humorous netizen comments reflect the anxiety and helplessness of modern people in communication.
The consensus of love
In his perspective, the difference between husband and wife is not an obstacle, but a resource that can be correctly understood and used. They have found their way forward together in their respective personalities, and this wisdom of harmonious coexistence may be one of the secrets of their happy marriage.
In the online community, such a relationship concept has also aroused heated discussions, with some netizens jokingly saying: "'Harmony but difference' sounds easy, but it is difficult to do, especially in the major event of choosing a movie." ”
Love is in the depths
When You Benchang mentions his married life in public, he can always feel his deep love for his wife. He was able to give his wife tender support and firm companionship in all kinds of affairs, big and small.
Their love story seems to be a heart-warming poem, which makes people believe that there is such beauty and perseverance in the difficult journey of life. In the comment area on the Internet, some netizens joked: "After reading You Lao's love story, I decided to recite a love poem to my other half when I went home tonight, hoping not to be laughed out of the door." ”
Summary:
In You Benchang's love world, it seems that all modern concepts of love seem pale and powerless. His stories and perspectives make one wonder if love in modern society has become too shallow and fast.
Have we forgotten that those feelings that can stand the test of time are the most precious. Netizens, what do you think? Do you also think that modern love can no longer be compared with You Lao? Speak freely in the comment area, let's see what everyone's view of love is.