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Men are always bolder and more straightforward than women in the face of feelings.
He still loves you, or even if he doesn't love you but hasn't left the house yet, he will maintain a minimum of self-consistency - what was before, it is not much worse now:
Love you, maybe there will be no more depth, but it will definitely be in a constant temperature state!
I don't love you, but because there is no way back, I can only continue to give you the most familiar words and deeds in order to maintain the status quo!
Once a man has a "abnormal" behavior that ignores his wife's feelings, thoughts, and suggestions, don't suspect:
He probably doesn't love you anymore, and he's still looking for a home!
A man, only when he has found his next home: will he ignore his wife and do these few things!
1: Pay extra attention to your image and be radiant
If a man has found a home and doesn't want to divorce, he will definitely hide himself!
However, once you find a good home, it doesn't matter if you divorce, you will be blatantly doing your own thing, it will be obvious!
So much so, in order to cater to the development of extramarital relations, in terms of personal image, great attention will be paid to it!
Compared with the past, men who are looking for a good family will judge like two people, and replace the strength of being depressed or broken or hideous with a radiant look!
As for the wife in front of him, he doesn't care about it at all, and he will only go in and out of the house in a state where happy events are approaching!
In the face of such a phenomenon, do not put your hatred on a third party, thinking that your marriage will be unstable after the third party gets involved.
In fact, your man doesn't love you for a long time, but he did things with you before he found a good home!
Nowadays, the man has found a good family, whether you accept it or not, whether you can bear it or not, as long as the third party meets the conditions for the union of men, the marriage is not guaranteed has become a fact!
It's just that between a man and a third party, before the union is really developed into a certainty, he will only go all out with enthusiasm to play a person who is tolerant of himself!
2: Often do not go home at night, and occasionally go home and avoid intimate behavior
When a man has found a home and deeply perceives that the current marriage has no practical value for him, then he will often stay out for the night, and even if he occasionally goes home, he will refuse his wife's intimacy!
Although, it is a bit biased to define whether a marriage is betrayed by virtue of a "sexuality", but a man often does not return home, and occasionally returns home and refuses to exercise his husband's obligations......
Don't doubt it, he's already blatantly signaling to the original partner:
I'm going to divorce you! Because you're useless to me! So, I'm not afraid of how you define me from the word "sex"!
In other words, it would be better if you found out the truth as soon as possible, as long as you file for divorce, I will take advantage of the situation to make the divorce a fact!
3: The responsibility for the family and the patience for the wife have become rare or not seen at all
Whether a person has changed his mind and wants to turn away can actually be seen from his sharing with you and his patience with you!
Looking at the reality, you will find that no matter how good the relationship is, the two will have trivial problems in firewood, rice, oil and salt.
However, quarrels, disagreements, and contradictions never affect each other's mutual distress, thoughtfulness, and sharing!
Only when the relationship has deteriorated to the point of irreversibility, will indifference, ignorance, and hostility be invited into the door!
It's just that when the next house has not yet appeared, some men will symbolically pretend because there is no better choice at the moment!
In this state of getting along, once a suitable family appears, the man will immediately show that he is not afraid of losing to the extreme!
Especially when faced with family responsibilities, men will do enough to have a caring attitude!
In the face of his wife, he was either cold and violent, or he roared patiently......
For such a man, no matter how good a wife is, he will not be seen, and no matter how much he pays, he will not be grateful! Perhaps, take the initiative to let go, in order to leave the last dignity for himself!
Advice to women:
Don't have expectations for a man who has changed his mind, and don't have illusions about a person who ignores you when he has a family!
Men are advised to:
If you don't love it, you can let it go, or you can choose to file for divorce, don't use the way of finding a home in advance to stimulate a woman! Maybe she is doing very badly, but it is not a reason for you to betray her!
Negative emotions are common to all, and when you are willing to put them aside, you can not be bound by them. Ultimately, it's up to you to do that!
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Topic discussion: In the face of a man's betrayal, under what circumstances do you think you should make every effort to save the marriage relationship?