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My name is Li Yuxin, I am 25 years old and I am a freelancer. Alone in a small house in an urban village.
"Hey, it's time to go to the supermarket today and buy something to eat. I muttered to myself and got up and put on my coat.
I have a beautiful face, long hair like a waterfall, big eyes, and a slender body. Walking on the road, it is inevitable to attract some attention.
"Xiao Xin, how is your single life lately?" My mom's video call came.
"It's okay, it's just a little boring. "I coped perfunctorily.
Actually, I've been in a terrible state at work lately, and I've been feeling depressed. My friends around me have all started a family, but I am still single.
"If you have a crush on someone, introduce him to your mother. "Mom, as usual, worries about my life's work.
"If you know, you can rest assured. "I was powerless to cope, but I was secretly slandering myself.
When I was about to get to the supermarket, I was attracted by a figure. I saw a young man standing at the door of the supermarket, holding a large bundle of flowers in his hand, as if waiting for someone.
He's not tall, but his facial features are neat and straight, and he looks like the type I like.
At that moment, he seemed to notice my gaze and looked over to me. I was a little embarrassed by his bright eyes, and quickly lowered my head and hurried into the supermarket.
After shopping, I pushed the shopping cart and was about to leave, when I found the man still standing. I couldn't help but look at him a few more times.
Just as I was passing by him, he suddenly spoke: "Beauty, may I treat you to a cup of coffee?"
I was shocked by his initiative and was a little overwhelmed. But looking at his delicate face, I couldn't help but be moved.
"Okay, but you have to tell me first, what's your name?" I asked rhetorically, pretending to be calm.
"My name is Zhao Ming and I am a freelance photographer. He smiled slightly, revealing a mouthful of white teeth.
Looking at his sunny smile, I couldn't help but be attracted to his sunshine and masculinity. He reveals a positive energy, which makes people feel like a spring breeze.
"Who is that bouquet for?" I asked casually.
"Isn't this for you?" He said with a natural expression, and casually shoved the bouquet into my hand.
I was amazed by his boldness and straightforwardness, and I was both surprised and delighted. As an independent and free modern woman, I have always been very confident in myself. But in the face of a sunny boy like Zhao Ming, I still couldn't help but be moved.
"You're a funny person, aren't you? I looked at him with a smile, a hint of banter in my tone.
"But I'm not so easy to be coaxed by you. "I pretended to be haughty, secretly rejoicing in his initiative to pursue me.
"What do you do, and why did you choose to be a freelance photographer?" I took the initiative to start the conversation.
"I love freedom and I love capturing the world with my camera. Zhao Ming said, his eyes were firm and persistent.
I was touched by his enthusiasm and could see that he was a very idealistic and pursuing person. We talked a lot like this, and found out that we actually had a lot of hobbies in common.
"You're a very interesting girl, and I hope to get to know you better. Before leaving, Zhao Ming said sincerely.
"Okay, but you have to work harder. I said with a smile and provocatively, but I was secretly happy in my heart.
Since that encounter, Zhao Ming has been like a sticky big golden retriever, surrounded by me all the time. He would send me a lot of funny texts and photos every day, sharing bits and pieces of his life.
Once, he suddenly sent me a selfie with an innocent and pitiful look on his face, with the caption: "I was bullied by a dog, come and save me." "
Looking at this photo, I was amused by his cuteness and humor. As an independent and free modern woman, I have rarely been actively pursued by a boy like this. I couldn't help but be impressed by his enthusiasm and attracted by his sunny personality.
So, I decided to play my "killer feature". I faced the mirror, posed as the sexiest and sultry, took a photo of myself, and sent it to Zhao Ming.
"If you are coquettish like this, I will eat you. I said so.
It didn't take long for Zhao Ming to call. Hearing my sultry voice, he was clearly hit to the point by my "killer feature", and he was a little incoherent.
"Yuxin, are you trying to seduce me? You're so sexy, you just want my life!" There was a masculine wildness and enthusiasm in his voice.
"How's it going, are you still satisfied with my 'killer feature'?" I pretended to be in a sentimental tone, and asked knowingly.
"I'm so satisfied, I can't resist it! I want to see you right now and take you into my arms!" Zhao Ming's voice was full of passionate possessiveness and male hormones.
In this way, under the offensive of my "killer weapon", Zhao Ming finally accepted me completely and fell into physical and mental depression.
Just when I thought everything was going well, Zhao Ming suddenly began to distance himself from me.
Once, I asked him out for dinner, but he kept putting it off under the pretext that he had an important job to do. I was angry, but he didn't explain anything.
"What the hell is going on? Didn't you still pursue me passionately?" I couldn't figure it out.
Later, I stumbled across his social media and found out that he was very close to a sweet-looking girl. Looking at their sweet group photo, my heart suddenly felt like a basin of cold water was poured on it.
"I see, he used to just use me as a temporary pastime. "I'm so disappointed.
As an independent and free modern woman, I have always been very confident in myself. But in the face of this sudden change, I still can't help but cry.
"How could he hurt my feelings like that? weren't we so close to each other before?" Recalling the bits and pieces of getting along with Zhao Ming, I am full of sadness.
I began to wonder if I was too explicit enough to make Zhao Ming lose interest in me. I began to reflect on myself, whether I did something good enough to be abandoned by him like this. My heart was in great pain, and I fell into deep self-doubt.
Just when my spirit was at its lowest, Zhao Ming took the initiative to come to the door.
"Yuxin, can we have a good talk?" He said sincerely.
Looking at the face in front of me that once made me fascinated, my heart was full of mixed tastes, indescribable complex tastes.
"What qualifications do you have to come to me? aren't you tired of me?" I replied coldly, my tone full of accusations.
We're at a stalemate, and you're arguing back and forth. I found that the relationship between men and women is such a never-ending game, full of challenges and tests.
Looking at his sincere appearance, my heart was finally moved by his sincerity. I know that this relationship is destined to be a long test, and it will take both parties to have enough courage and perseverance to go through it.
"All right, but you have to make sure that you don't hurt me again from now on, or we'll end there. I said it categorically.
In this way, after some entanglement, our relationship has gone through a life and death test and has become stronger and precious.
Since then, Zhao Ming has been like a living person, taking care of me meticulously and caring for me. He was always patient and tolerant of all my shortcomings and faults.
Sometimes I would suddenly say something harsh, but he would always smile and make me happy. Sometimes I would suddenly be vexatious, but he was always able to accommodate me unconditionally.
In this way, the contradictions and estrangements between us have been slowly resolved. Zhao Ming exchanged his sincerity for all my trust, and there was no longer any suspicion and estrangement between us.
Looking back on the whole process, I realized that love is a long practice. It requires both sides to have enough courage and perseverance to go through the trials together.
As independent and free modern women, we are easily attracted by men's passions and pursuits. But if you want to maintain a relationship, you also need both parties to have enough wisdom and determination.
I am very glad that I finally achieved a positive result with Zhao Ming. It is precisely because of that tortuous experience that our relationship is so strong and precious. This relationship will become the most precious wealth of our life, and it is worth our best to protect and cherish.
"Yuxin, I have something important to tell you. One day, Zhao Ming said to me solemnly.
Looking at his serious expression, I couldn't help but be a little worried, for fear that he would let me suffer a "stuffy loss" again. But after the previous training, I also became stronger.
"You say, I can handle anything. "I try to make myself look relaxed and generous.
As he spoke, he knelt down on one knee on the spot, took out a diamond ring from behind him, and reverently proposed to me.
Looking at this unexpected scene in front of me, my heart was suddenly full of contradictions.
"It doesn't matter, as long as I have you by my side, I'm the happiest person. Zhao Ming said firmly, "I am willing to pay anything for you." "
Hearing this, my heart was immediately moved by his sincerity and determination, and tears involuntarily burst out of my eyes.
"Well, I promise you. After much struggle, I finally decided, "But you also have to promise that no matter what happens in the future, you will be affectionate to me." "
"I promise! Zhao Ming was ecstatic and hugged me tightly.
From that moment on, I made up my mind to be a virtuous wife, accompany Zhao Ming, pursue my ideals with him, and walk hand in hand to the pinnacle of life.
I know that this road is destined to be full of thorns, but as long as we work together with one heart and one mind, we will definitely be able to overcome every difficulty.
In this way, after some twists and turns, I finally realized the true meaning of love.
Love is not simply possession, but a mutual understanding, tolerance and support. It requires both parties to have enough courage and wisdom to sincerely cherish each other and fulfill each other's ideals.
Only in this way can love burn more and more in the baptism of the years and become the most valuable wealth of a pair of lovers.
As an independent and free modern woman, I am very fortunate to have met such a different man as Zhao Ming. It is precisely because of his broad mind and firm pursuit that I can put down my body and love him and support him wholeheartedly.
I firmly believe that as long as our feelings are pure and persistent enough, we will be able to overcome all difficulties and obstacles and walk hand in hand to the other side of life.