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Mr. You Benchang, a highly respected veteran artist in the Chinese performing arts industry, is deeply loved by the audience for his deeply rooted artistic image and noble personality. Now 90 years old, Mr. You Benchang shared his views on love and married life in front of the public, and his words of wisdom are like pearls tempered by the years, shining with warm and unique light.
The marriage process of Mr. You Benchang and his wife can be called a vivid love textbook. Their married life was not all smooth sailing, but they experienced many twists and turns and challenges in life together. When his wife suddenly fell seriously ill, Mr. You Benchang resolutely made the decision to end his artistic career early, turned down all performance invitations, and devoted himself to taking care of his wife on the sickbed. This action fully reflects his sense of responsibility for marriage and deep affection for his partner, and also shows the world the power of love and the true meaning of marriage - in the face of difficulties, the real sacrifice is not a one-sided effort, but both parties face and bear together, and protect each other with the deepest love.
Mr. You Benchang firmly believes that in the relationship between husband and wife, there is no sacrifice in the absolute sense, and every effort is based on loyalty and perseverance to family and love. He advocated that husbands and wives should learn to "be harmonious and different", that is, to seek harmonious coexistence on the basis of respecting individual differences, and to face the stumbles in life, not-for-tat, but to support each other and resolve conflicts together, which is the key to maintaining long-term happiness in marriage.
In particular, it is worth mentioning that Mr. You Benchang revealed a seemingly small but profound philosophical secret of marital happiness - "let the other party say the last sentence, and you don't make a sound". This sentence is not only a reflection of communication skills, but also a sign of respect and care for others. In the process of communication, maintaining a listening posture and being willing to leave the opportunity to express themselves to each other not only shows personal cultivation and mind, but also can effectively promote emotional communication and understanding between husband and wife, making the small community of the family closer and more harmonious.
With his rich marriage experience and deep life insights, 90-year-old teacher You Benchang has conveyed to us a view of love and marriage full of wisdom and warmth. He tells us with practical actions that true love does not need to be embellished with flowery rhetoric, but is manifested in subtleties, whether it is the responsibility of weathering the storm together, or the humility of daily conversations, it is an indispensable part of building a happy marriage. Such a view of love and marriage is not only worthy of every couple's deep thought and reference, but also a precious spiritual wealth that the public should cherish and inherit.
You Benchang, a famous Chinese performing artist, was born in Taizhou, Jiangsu Province in 1933, and his main achievements are concentrated in the field of film and television, especially the role of Jigong he played in the TV series "Jigong" is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, leaving a deep impression on several generations of audiences, and is known as "Living Jigong". With his excellent acting skills and unique character shaping ability, You Benchang has won the love of the audience and high praise from the industry.
With his own artistic pursuit and life practice, Mr. You Benchang has set a good example for the younger generation, and his story and concept undoubtedly provide an important reference and inspiration for the concept of marriage and love and family in Chinese society.