I've seen a sentence like this:
"To be like a cactus, you can not prick people, but you must have thorns on your body. ”
Indeed, the more people with thorns on their bodies dare not bully you, the more they respect you.
Just like in "Tai Bai Xing is a little annoying", Guanyin Bodhisattva thought that Tai Bai Xing Li Chang Geng was a soft persimmon at first.
Therefore, at the beginning of the Xitian scripture learning project, many things were cut first and then played, as if Li Changgeng was treated as a subordinate.
After Li Changgeng put Guanyin Bodhisattva together, she knew that Li Changgeng was not a person to be messed with, and she respected him more later.
Sometimes others see that you don't have thorns on your body, and they do whatever they want, because they know that you don't dare to resist.
There are a little thorns on the body, but it is a kind of protective color for us.
No thorns, trouble will always come to you
There is a line in "The Big Bang Theory":
"If you're too kind, the world will gnaw you to the ground. ”
Sometimes taking a step back does not bring you the sky, but rather trouble.
Huang Fengwei was dissatisfied with being replaced by Zhu Bajie for the quota of Tang Seng's apprentices, and actually injured Sun Wukong and captured Tang Seng.
Guanyin Bodhisattva saw that there was an accident on the way to learn the scriptures, and quickly chased after him.
But when she saw what was in the cave, she was dumbfounded.
The Yellow Wind Monster was chatting happily with Tang Seng, and he didn't look embarrassed at all.
It turned out that the Yellow Wind Monster knew Tang Seng and acted in a scene where he was arrested, but he actually wanted to change the Bodhisattva.
Because Tang Seng was dissatisfied with Guanyin Bodhisattva stuffing Zhu Bajie into him as an apprentice, and replaced him with the quota of his good brother Huang Fengwei.
If there is an accident on the way to learn the scriptures from Tang Seng, then Guanyin Bodhisattva, as the person in charge, will definitely be held accountable.
If the person in charge changes, then the apprentice's affairs will still have a turnaround.
Guanyin Bodhisattva guessed this situation and said to Li Changgeng:
Otherwise, I might as well resign on my own initiative than to be ousted.
Guanyin Bodhisattva has never been sad about Tang Seng since the launch of the Western Heaven Sutra Learning Project.
Before he set off, he even prepared a lot of useful things.
She really couldn't figure out why Tang Seng did this.
In fact, Tang Seng also listened to the words of other immortals, so he dared to embarrass Guanyin Bodhisattva and drive her off the stage.
Guanyin Bodhisattva also complained when chatting with Li Changgeng:
It's too difficult for me, this project is not easy to do, and it's annoying.
She was afraid that she didn't know what the trouble would be next time, she was too tired, so she might as well quit herself.
Li Changgeng said to Guanyin Bodhisattva:
You have to be tough, leak thorns, and let others know that you are not easy to mess with, so that they don't dare to come to trouble.
The more you dare not resist, the more excited others will be, and the more they will like to look for trouble.
When you learn to resist, the farther away trouble will be.
Instead of swallowing your anger and letting others bully, it is better to take the initiative to fight back and protect yourself.
Thorny, is a protective color
In fact, it's not bad to be a hedgehog, when others see you full of thorns, they know that you are not easy to mess with.
Sometimes leaking out of our thorns is actually a kind of protection in disguise.
Li Changgeng needed to assist in the project of learning scriptures from the West Heaven, but Guanyin did not tell him when the project began.
Obviously said that he would create a catastrophe, so he reluctantly helped, but he didn't expect to create eighty-one difficulties in the end.
Although Li Changgeng was dissatisfied, he did not resist.
I thought there would be no more accidents, but the Bodhisattva told him:
Tang Seng accepted Sun Wukong as an apprentice, and he also made the third prince of the Dragon King a mount.
Because there are more people, his catastrophe plan needs to be re-planned.
After a series of events, Li Changgeng thought to himself:
The things arranged by Guanyin Bodhisattva are ostensibly tribulations, but in fact they are sending benefits.
Just grab the merit, and hide it so that you don't let yourself know.
Li Changgeng felt that he was very passive.
Later, he designed Zhu Bajie to become the second apprentice of Tang Seng, and the Bodhisattva's attitude towards him changed.
At first, he only said that the wild boar spirit came to act, and the Bodhisattva agreed after reading the plan without any problems.
Unexpectedly, after seeing Tang Seng, the wild boar spirit actually knelt down to worship Tang Seng as a teacher, and said that it was a disciple arranged by Guanyin Bodhisattva to learn scriptures.
Tang Seng hurriedly asked Guanyin Bodhisattva if there was such a thing, and Guanyin knew that there was a big problem with the project.
Guanyin Bodhisattva asked Li Changgeng what was going on:
Did he teach, and did he already know that he was the Generalissimo of the canopy.
Li Changgeng said aggrievedly:
You've also seen the plan, and if there is no problem to do it, it may be that the wild boar spirit is making its own assertions.
Li Changgeng suggested that it would be good for Tang Seng to refuse directly.
Guanyin Bodhisattva felt that he dared to say that he was arranged by the Bodhisattva, and he didn't know what words would be made up later.
Besides, there are other immortals watching, what if they sue me.
In desperation, Guanyin Bodhisattva could only let Tang Seng collect the boar essence.
In fact, all this is operated by Li Changgeng behind the scenes.
All this he did was also supported by the Jade Emperor, otherwise he would not have done it.
After this accident, the Bodhisattva did not dare to act at will, for fear of causing some trouble, so he discussed everything with Li Changgeng.
Li Changgeng also used this plan to tell Guanyin Bodhisattva:
Don't pinch him like a soft persimmon, he's not easy to bully.
Thorny and non-thorny are sometimes treated differently.
With thorns on his body, the more he is respected by others.
We can get thorns, but we don't prick people.
But when we are pricked by others, we also have the weapon to fight back, not just to endure it.
Learn to have thorns and sharpness
A very realistic sentence:
"It's all thorns, and others will take care of your feelings."
It's not a bad thing to have thorns all over your body.
Li Changgeng was called to the Third Palace and asked a few times.
Once, because the gibbon monkey accused Sun Wukong of taking his identity, and told the secret behind the havoc in the Heavenly Palace, and then ran away.
Since the gibbon monkey had previously looked for Li Changgeng, the heavenly court was afraid that the gibbon monkey would tell Li Changgeng the secret of making trouble in the heavenly palace.
He was then called for questioning.
After telling the other party that he didn't know, the other party was still aggressive.
Li Changgeng is neither humble nor arrogant, insisting that he does not know.
Originally, the other party wanted to make trouble for Li Changgeng, but it was easily resolved by Li Changgeng.
The other party's aggressive appearance from the beginning has become more and more gentle.
A large part of the reason is the character shown by Li Changgeng, he is not an immortal who is bullied.
Sometimes, if you are tough, others will not dare to bully us casually.
Even if the other party is angry in his heart, he can only hold back.
It's like Manjushri Bodhisattva wanted the green lion to replace Tang Seng's three apprentices, and acted in a real and false king drama.
But in fact, the real king is fake, and the fake king is real, trying to deceive everyone by this.
When Guanyin Bodhisattva learned the truth, he did not choose to endure it, but directly told Sun Wukong to beat the king of the green lion to death.
Sun Wukong beat him back to his original form.
Seeing this, Manjushri hurriedly ran out and said a few words about the scene, wanting to get the mount back.
Guanyin Bodhisattva questioned Manjushri Bodhisattva at this time, the green lion stole the throne for three years, defiled the palace, and sent it back to Lingshan.
Seeing this, Manjushri could only punish the green lion.
Guanyin Bodhisattva's toughness this time made Manjushri dare to be angry and dare not speak.
In the past, maybe the green lions would not be punished.
But it is precisely because you let others see that you are not a bully that you will be treated fairly.
Whether it is Li Changgeng or Guanyin Bodhisattva, they all have a little thorn on their bodies.
These thorns do not prick people at will, but they will leak out for others to see, let others know, and do not touch yourself at will.
The thorn on the body is to protect oneself, and it is also a weapon to stab at the person who bullies oneself.
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Saying goes:
"People are good at being bullied, and horses are good at being ridden."
When you encounter injustice, if you endure it again and again, others will only bully you even more.
It's not that you won't be kind, but your kindness should be sharp.
In life, although we don't know what troubles will be, there are things we can do to avoid some unnecessary troubles.
With thorns on his body, he shows his bottom line, and others will not touch it at will.
Just like Yu Hua said:
"When we are cruel to the world, the world suddenly becomes gentle. ”
Sometimes the attitude of others towards you depends on whether you are strong or weak.
Go back, leak your thorns, and be a person who doesn't look like to mess with.