I think it's not easy for people to live in this life, but the most difficult thing is that when people get old, they feel that this disease is like carrying it in their pockets anytime and anywhere, either today's pain or tomorrow's disease.
In fact, the greatest happiness in a person's life is not being sick, but this seems to be an impossible thing.
Just like my husband suddenly had vertigo on Saturday night, he went to the hospital for an infusion at five o'clock in the middle of the night, and he got an injection for two days.
But yesterday morning, I suddenly got up and said that my thyroid nodule had enlarged, and then I took the car back to my hometown without stopping, and immediately went to the hospital for examination, and the doctor recommended that he be hospitalized for surgery.
As a result, the old gentleman didn't say a word, and was hospitalized.
I'm still at work and can't go back, so I just called me and told me that it has been done and that I can have surgery this Friday the day after tomorrow.
You just say that this speed is too fast, I think that people can only be happy if they don't get sick in this life.
As long as you are sick, it is really troublesome, like my husband's thyroid nodules, he has already had an operation, but this thing is a string of grunts, especially easy to recur, some small nodules that could not be seen and touched during the operation at that time grew back after a while.
There is no way, people are afraid of death, and my husband's mentality is even worse, and he is especially afraid of getting a malignant thyroid tumor, so he has to endure the pain and do it again.
Looking back and thinking about it, in fact, what is happiness in this life, isn't it happiness not to get sick and not to suffer?
However, if people eat whole grains, how can there be a reason not to get sick, just to say that we can guarantee a minor illness in this life, take some medicine, get some injections, and not go for a major operation, which is already a great luck.
I think my husband has suffered a lot of sins in his life, he had a bone tumor on his knee when he was a teenager, and at that time he thought it was malignant, but later he had surgery and it was benign.
Immediately after that, I had appendectomy surgery, thyroid nodule surgery, once I had an accident on a motorcycle, my arm was fractured and I had surgery, and I finished the steel plate under it, and then I went to get the steel plate, I felt that there was no good place for him up and down, and he was very afraid of death, and his mentality was not good.
Alas, is it that people with a bad mentality are more likely to get sick, anyway, I think he is really not a good person, he is in a hurry to have surgery, I didn't stop him, I am also afraid that once this thing becomes cancer in the future, it will not only scare him to death, but also torture our family to death, so just do it.
I think like my cousin he is very powerful, the mentality is very good, he was found last year intestinal tumor, after intestinal surgery, began to go to chemotherapy every 21 days, the side effects of chemotherapy drugs are quite large, the initial side effect is a big bag all over the body, the pain is so bad that he can't sleep, and then the side effect after changing the medicine is hair loss, and then people are nauseous and can't eat, do you say this person was born to suffer?
Fortunately, he is now under control, but he has already metastasized to the liver, and the doctor said that he would look at the indicators while undergoing chemotherapy, and if the indicators were normal, he would do a minimally invasive ablation operation of the liver.
I think that when this person is old, he is either curing or on the way to healing.
It's really not that the more we live, the more boring we feel, the more we live, the more boring we feel, you just say that this day is late, either this disease is that disease, press the gourd and scoop, who can have a good mood to live well?
I hope that my husband's thyroid nodule is benign after it is cut out, otherwise I estimate that the rest of his life will be enough for him to be sad, and people with a bad mentality will have no way to accept reality.
In fact, then again, maybe the disease is not in anyone's body, everyone will stand by the river and talk dry, and if they are really sick, they can't help themselves.
In fact, I feel very sorry for the psychological journey shared by some friends and friends after they have malignant tumors, which is something that normal people cannot understand, and only those who are in it can empathize.
It is estimated that they were helpless, scared, and panicked when they were sick at the beginning, and finally accepted it calmly, it must be helplessness in helplessness.
For example, some family members can be very sympathetic to the patient, and it is better to feel sorry for the patient.
But there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time, and they fly separately when disaster comes, which is vividly reflected in real life.
Over time, it is possible that the other spouse of the couple will also become cold and the children will become numb.
At this time, if you want to live strongly, you can only rely on the strong support ability in your heart.
Especially when you can't take care of yourself in the end, that is, no one may want you to live for too long except for yourself.
This is human nature, there is nothing that you can't think about, people in this life are you have to open up and see some things, you can feel that this is how life should be.
Generally speaking, what is happiness? I would like to say that the greatest happiness in a person's life is to die without illness or disaster.
This is the best destination in life, but not everyone can get what they want, we can only have a correct attitude to accept all the unknowns that may happen, isn't that so?