Text/Mo Ran
It is said that it is easy to fall in love and difficult to stay together. There are some trials that two people need to go through if they want to get to the end, but most people may end up without a problem.
It is difficult to let go of a person who has truly loved, and it takes some energy at this time.
Many times, for the person who has really loved, it is often very paranoid, not that you can let go of it, everything needs to have a process.
If you want to really let go of a person, it's not that difficult, and you can slowly let go of these points.
Accept reality and let go of unwillingness
Many people, the reason why they can't let go of a person is more because of their own obsession.
If the obsession is too deep, it is difficult to let go, and only by facing the reality head-on can people solve the problem.
If you keep holding on to the past, you will never be able to come out if you can't face the reality.
Only by accepting reality and not being loved can we start again.
The process of letting go of a person is painful, but only by facing it calmly, there is nothing that cannot be overcome.
Most of the time, we can't let go not because of one person, but because we can't let go of ourselves who have worked hard.
But since everyone has chosen to give up on you, there is nothing to be nostalgic for, and the relationship needs to go both ways.
Only by learning to accept reality and letting go of unwillingness can people live better.
For the person who doesn't have you in his heart, the best way is to stop being obsessed, leave decisively, and return to his own life.
Shift your goals and focus on yourself
When people are in love, it is easy to lose themselves and put the focus of their lives on each other.
For a person who has no ego, naturally nothing good will come of it. Only when people learn to focus on themselves can they be happy.
Although it is painful to be separated, one still has to live for oneself. At any time, don't lose yourself because of a person's love.
It's hard to let go, but you still have to learn to live well and do your own thing.
When a person is living seriously, he will slowly let go, and no one is worth consuming himself.
Life is not only about love, but also about having yourself. Don't deny yourself because of a person's lack of love, you deserve a better life.
If you want to let go of a person completely, you naturally have to focus on yourself, and once you are idle, you are prone to cranky thoughts.
When you are living a good life, you naturally have no time to think about others.
Don't exclude new people, go with the flow
Some people, in the face of a failed relationship, are easy to find reasons in themselves, so they trap themselves.
Actually, it's not your fault that a person leaves, it's just that it's not suitable between you.
Only when people learn to say goodbye to the wrong person will they meet the right person.
In the days of separation, you can start a new life, you can meet new people, and only by trying to get in touch with other people can you know who is really the right person.
Don't reject new feelings, sometimes knowing more people means more choices.
You know, many things are predestined, separation is painful, but it is also a relationship that allows you to escape from the wrong, and when you meet the right person, you might as well open your heart.
Only when people come into contact with more people can they know what they want.
Knowing new people doesn't mean anything, having one more friend and one more way, whether you can become a lover or not, is a way to heal yourself.
Summary:
A person can only mature better if he or she goes through some pain.
There is nothing wrong with meeting the wrong person, it is just an experience of life.
At no time should you close yourself off because of a wrong person.
Love is the norm of life, and only by daring to accept reality can we live better.
When you learn to let go, you will have a better life.