When it comes to falling in love, men should really give something and be generous to women.
After getting married, you have to be willing to be a little more willing and treat women as a whole.
If you are willing to do this, you will have a better relationship and a better marriage.
It's just that there is a degree in everything, and there is also a mutual relationship, among which, there will always be times when you may have just met a woman, and the other party keeps asking you for money.
Especially when you become boyfriend and girlfriend, the other party keeps finding all kinds of excuses to reach out to you and ask you to send red envelopes to transfer money to buy things.
And, only when you give her money, she will have a better attitude towards you, usually always on top, basically will not take the initiative to find you, don't care about you much, don't care about you at all, don't take you seriously.
When you meet such a woman, unless you are very happy, otherwise, if you feel very burdened, it is better to forget it.
If you haven't fallen in love yet, you have to ask for all kinds of money, and people are not very good.
I met a man who met a girl on a blind date, and the girl was lukewarm to him.
He thought that the girl looked good, so he thought about giving it a try, so he began to take the initiative to contact the girl and chat with her.
Next, from the next day, the girl asked him to transfer money openly and secretly, and asked him to help buy things, each time it was hundreds, and she looked very at ease.
The two of them have nothing to do with each other, he has already spent thousands of dollars on the girl, even so, the girl has not taken the initiative to find him once, when he asked the girl, the girl was just reluctant, holding the shelf.
In this regard, he felt very angry, felt that he seemed to be wronged, wanted to stop being unwilling, wanted to continue and felt that there was no hope, the whole person was in a dilemma, and he didn't know what to do.
In fact, the pursuit of a person, of course, will require some costs, but this cost does not have to be paid all at once, just let the other party ask for all kinds of things, the initial stage, just eat and watch movies, and do something together.
If you have the will, you can give some small gifts appropriately, but it should not be all at once asked for all kinds of money, and the other party's attitude is not cold, too serious about yourself, too little to take you seriously.
For such a situation, such a girl is really not very good, it may be a problem with cognition, too high regard for herself, too much to take your contribution for granted, may really just want to make some money from you, but unwilling to promise anything.
Such a person, even if you pay a lot, I am afraid that it will not be of any use, I will not know how to respect you, will not recognize your efforts, and I will probably not understand you in the future, I just want to be held.
If you don't have a very thick foundation and are not willing, stop in time, and don't have to spend all the time, that's not a good choice.
It's not necessary to keep hurting you when you're in love.
You spend money for a woman, and your generosity may also make a woman choose you.
It's just that after you fall in love, on the basis that you are already quite willing to the other party, the other party always thinks what you want to do and how your family is, and keeps asking you for money, very often, and a lot.
In getting along, only when you give money, the other party will have a good face, and at other times they are just very indifferent. No matter how much you give, the other person thinks you should, and they don't think about giving you anything back emotionally or financially.
Anyway, every time, if you don't give it, if you don't give it well, the other party will be angry with you, and will make trouble with you in various ways, and even feel that even if you want to separate, then it doesn't matter.
There is no warmth at all, between you, it is as if you are spending money to buy your relationship, you can always spend money, the love is still there, if you stop, the love will also stop.
In fact, when a woman treats you like this, she will always be kind to you when she always gets money, and she doesn't take you seriously at any other time, and one day you run out of money, your love will really only come to an end, and there will be no future.
It's really that this love is only based on money, and the other party will only think that you should keep giving money, and you should give more and more, not less than before, otherwise you don't pay attention to her.
Similar to this kind of love, when you give with your heart and soul and still don't get a little love, you don't have to keep going. When you still have some money, it's time to stop.
Don't let yourself really empty everything, in the end, people and money will be empty, the money will be spent, and there will be no feelings left at all. Be good to your girlfriend, but that doesn't mean to satisfy the other person's desires unconditionally, and to exceed your own ability.
The more you are willing to spend money for women, the more you should find someone who knows how to cherish your goodness, will be good to you, and will feel sorry for your money. That kind of relationship will be meaningful, and it will really be relatively long-term and happy.
If you're super rich and willing to spend money, it doesn't matter if the other person loves you or not, and you don't care if it will end well.
In that case, you can squander your money as you like.
When you are just an ordinary person, money is hard to come by, like a person, want to develop, really in love, you should not be too picky, you must be willing to spend money, but you don't have to be treated as a wronged leader, just as an ATM.
It's not a boyfriend or girlfriend yet, so you can't afford all kinds of wants.
After confirming the relationship, I always don't care about your strength, and what I ask for will not be a good person.
Seeing that reality clearly, it is better not to continue, otherwise, it is likely that the people will be gone and the money will be gone.
Ordinary people, don't go to the extreme, don't go to the extreme of being stingy, and don't go to the extreme of being squeezed.
Text / Tan Meng
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