Some time ago, the South Korean Blue Dragon TV Drama Awards were announced, and Song Hye Kyo won the Blue Dragon Award again with "Dark Glory".
That's the top prize!
With Song Hye Kyo's marriage ending for 4 years, her career has also achieved a lot of achievements, and her ex-husband Song Joong Ki has now solved the mystery of the divorce that year.
Many netizens still can't get out of the fact that Shuangsong is married and divorced.
Song Joong Ki's baby face looks gentle and considerate, like a good family man.
People can't look good, in fact, under this gentle face, there is an old traditional feudal thought.
Marriage is for the sake of inheritance, it will be concluded when it is said to be over, and it will be divorced when it is said, it is really daring to say and do, and it is so simply without shame.
Such a male representative intuitively reflects the status and situation of women.
Back then, "Descendants of the Sun" was popular in the entire entertainment industry, and the pictures, music, and scenes seemed to be as familiar as they had just seen yesterday.
Yoo Si-jin and Kang Twi-yan are ideals that shine into reality, while Song Joong Ki and Song Hye Kyo are smashing reality hard, leaving only a piece of scum.
When "Descendants of the Sun" was broadcast, Shuangsong was rumored to be doing a fake show.
Eat barbecue together in a yakiniku restaurant.
Holding hands and pressing the road together.
At that time, it was revealed that the love was really hammered, and it was when the two of them were traveling in Tokyo, in the corner of an alley.
The relationship between the two has developed very rapidly, "Descendants of the Sun" was broadcast in 2016, and the two held a wedding in October 2017.
At that time, Zhang Ziyi and Su Mang crossed the ocean to witness the happy moment of the couple.
Unexpectedly, the married life only lasted for two years, and in June 2019, the divorce was announced.
In addition to blessing Shuangsong, Zhang Niangniang also blessed Cecilia Cheung, Zhang Liangying, and Dong Xuan, all of whom were also divorced.
I don't know if Zhang Niangniang's fortune telling is too accurate, or the divorce rate is getting higher and higher.
The shelf life of marriage is getting shorter and shorter, and the candy has not been fully digested before it is fully digested, which has already expired.
The former Shuangsong, whether in or out of the play, has created a new type of love model for people.
In the play, the identities of doctors and soldiers, family and country feelings and children coexist, and there is an inexplicable sweetness in love in the workplace.
In life, the combination of my sister and Xiao Xianrou went straight to the marriage hall with affection.
Although they are divorced, looking at the past, the two of them really loved each other.
The sweetness of love made the two people get married without any scruples, and without planning for the future.
It only took two years to get married and divorced, and the development was too rapid, and the heroine Song Hye Kyo herself was confused.
Song Joong Ki chose to strike first, and when he was still in the divorce mediation period, he announced the fact of divorce, which made Song Hye Kyo a passive party.
This makes many people speculate about the reasons for the divorce of the two, the man cheats, the woman cheats, is adopted, and the relationship with the chaebol is unclear......
In the end, it was the brokerage companies of both parties that made a decent reason: the two parties failed to overcome the differences between the two and finally had to make such a decision.
In January this year, Song Joong Ki announced his remarriage, and the woman was British actor Katie.
The two were photographed at the airport appearing together, the woman's pregnancy was full, and her lower abdomen was obviously bulging.
In May, Song Joong Ki said at the Cannes Festival that childbirth is the most important thing in his life, and he is very happy to be a father.
He said that he dreamed of being a good father like his father since he was a child, and his father had a deep influence on him, and his strengths were inherited from his father.
On June 14, a baby's little hand was posted on social platforms, and a small article was published.
Today I have a dream news that I want to tell you first.
I met my child in Italy, in my wife's hometown of Rome, and he was a healthy son, and he was safe.
Building a happy family is my biggest dream in life, and it is the most precious gift for us as a couple.
It's a good thing to have a precious son, and it's normal to send out a dynamic to get everyone's blessings, but it has been mentioned many times that having a child is my life dream, which makes people feel a little uncomfortable listening to it.
In this showbiz, becoming a father, having a baby, and marrying a wife looks like you will lose a lot of job opportunities, but family is always more important than career.
What this passage said made many people hear the subtext.
Many netizens are not calm, and there are many such messages under Song Joong Ki's comments, "Are you pregnant in person?", "Do you want to breastfeed or confinement?"
If a man says he has lost a lot, then his wife has lost everything.
Male stars who take the route of appearance will indeed affect the commercial value of their careers to some extent.
After Hyun Bin got married, the perfume spokesperson of a big brand was changed.
But in the field of childbearing, men's efforts and sacrifices are not comparable to women's.
After all, less than a week after her wife gave birth, Song Joong Ki participated in the LV show. Although he looked haggard and was ridiculed for feeding night milk?
Which female star can go to the catwalk after giving birth to a child for 6 days?
Song Joong Ki's operation, without affecting the principle of confidentiality, finally made the reason for Shuang Song's divorce clear as he wished.
I want a family, but you're a legend, I want children, you just want to be beautiful.
Standing under the old-fashioned and traditional male thinking like Song Joong Ki, the wife is unwilling or unable to have children, thinking that divorce is normal and not at fault.
Therefore, the grievances at the time of divorce are all corrected and whitewashed for themselves when they are married for the second time and have children.
Love should be based on the premise of having children, and only choose to get married after the woman's pregnancy is stable, showing that she attaches great importance to her family and putting her family first, implying that her ex-wife is unwilling to have children and will only put her career first.
It is not wrong to say that he is right, and it is not wrong to say that he is wrong.
Differences in gender will lead to different thoughts, different perspectives, and different conclusions of things considered.
Everyone chooses marriage for different purposes, and they have the right to get the results they want, and if they can't get it, they give up, which can only be said to be too realistic.
Marriage is about taking what you need, and separating if it is not suitable.
Song Joong Ki has found a new partner who is willing to have children for herself, Song Hye Kyo has found a new direction that can make her shine in her career, and her life has reached a new height.
Those who know Song Hye Kyo will understand the choices Song Hye Kyo makes.
Song Hye Kyo's childhood was not very happy.
Her mother gave birth to her when she was 19 years old, and her father was also an unreliable man who left the family alone when she was 8 years old.
Song Hye Kyo and her mother depend on each other, and their living conditions are very poor, so they have to give up their studies and move towards the showbiz where they can make money.
Career can bring Song Hye Kyo a sense of security, but marriage and family are a strange and unknown territory for her, she needs a lot of time to adapt, and she needs someone to warm her insecure heart.
But Song Joong Ki, who met him, was too eager to give birth, so he couldn't give Song Hye Kyo time to adapt.
There is no absolute equality between men and women, and the impact of childbirth on men is short-lived, but the impact on women can be as short as four or five years or longer.
You can't have both fish and bear's paws, choose fish and give up bear's paws, choose bear's paws and discard fish. This is not only a problem faced by Song Hye Kyo, but also the current situation faced by more women.
Marriage often allows men to get everything they want, and women can sacrifice and lose everything.
In a family with children, there will be a lot of subtle changes in the relationship between husband and wife, the man gets the child he wants, but loses his once girly wife, leaving behind a milk-stained, unkempt and sloppy child.
Ideals also have positive and negative sides, and if you want to obtain an ideal, you must not only accept its positives, but also accept the negatives it brings.
Song Hye Kyo is sober, she chooses to hold on to her card, although it is not the most perfect, but it is something that she really likes and can bring her value.
After 4 years of divorce, Song Joong Ki told the truth about the divorce, and he was glad that Song Hye Kyo chose to be different.
If the marriage is all about blindly tolerating and taking, without thinking about the other party, it is better to break up early and stop the loss in time.
Marriage is not a woman's ultimate destination and life goal, women should be self-reliant and self-reliant, find their own way to live their lives, better than unhappy marriages.