Since ancient times, the mainland has been known in the world for the reputation of the state of etiquette, when it comes to gifts, we inevitably think of gifts, gifts and gifts with the cultural tradition of a thousand years of ancient trees, deep roots, many people are also very particular about giving gifts to relatives and friends, which can pull into the relationship with friends, and in this society full of human feelings, the exchanges between people are like a beautiful picture, not only to give gifts, but also with the gift of the saying.
Sui Li is like a bridge of friendship, connecting the hearts of people and narrowing the distance between each other, so there is a saying of "courtesy exchange", the concept of courtesy exchange, like a red line, runs through our blood. Usually we give gifts, with gifts, is also a kind of emotional expression, but also a manifestation of respect, it is like a spring breeze, warm people's hearts, like a drizzle, moisturizing people's hearts.
But do you know? On different occasions, in the face of different people, we have to give different gifts, and the gift is also an art, if the emotional intelligence is high, then the gift will be just right, as we grow older, we gradually understand that for the problem of the gift, can not follow the trend, there is a lot of knowledge and exquisiteness.
There is a good saying: "If you don't usually follow the three rituals, the family will be prosperous", is there any truth in this sentence of the ancestors?
1. Don't set up a name with the ceremony
In our life, there are some things that are very important, such as the union of marriage, the farewell of life, the birth of a new family, these are very important things, and secondly, the beginning of a career. In the past, the living conditions were not very good, and they may not be able to cope with too many major events, so a relationship of neighborly mutual assistance was formed, and finally it evolved into a casual gift, in general, the casual gift is an expression of the heart, but also a manifestation of unity.
Nowadays, the social atmosphere has changed, and some people will create all kinds of conditions for gifts, so as to receive some gifts, so what do you think is a bit false about receiving gifts? At this time, some friends mentioned "college banquet", "coming-of-age ceremony", "inaugural banquet" and so on, and we often hear these in our lives.
In other words, too many casual things may be a burden to others, and if you don't want to go to these occasions, then you can also not be polite.
2. Don't go with the gift of no return
What does it mean when we hear about the exchange of rites? "Rites and exchanges", a Chinese idiom that has been passed down through the ages, originated from Dai Sheng's "Book of Rites: Qu Lishang" in the Western Han Dynasty. Its meaning is related to etiquette, expressing that the interaction and feedback between each other should be like ripples, and the profound meaning can reflect the need for mutual respect, mutual care, and mutual help when interacting to build a beautiful interpersonal relationship together.
It is like a bridge that connects the hearts and minds of people, so that they can move forward hand in hand on the basis of mutual respect and understanding. It emphasizes paying attention to etiquette and etiquette in communication, respecting each other's feelings and needs, and highlighting personal cultivation and quality. As Confucius said, "Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you." "Courtesy exchanges" also emphasize the maintenance of an equal and reciprocal relationship in exchanges.
In life, while we enjoy the love given by others, we also actively give back to others, so that friendship, friendship or family affection can be better.
If you often go with the gift and don't go back, then be careful and don't follow it again.
3. Do not nod your head with the gift
The relationship between people is not all intimate, some people just know each other, that is, the so-called nodding friends, so they hurriedly send some invitations, let others give it a gift, which is obviously not appropriate, if there is very little communication on weekdays, then such a relationship is only a general friend, it is not recommended to follow the gift.
The above is the explanation of "usually do not follow the 3 rites, the family is prosperous", do you think this sentence of the ancestor is reasonable?