——Excellent Essay Exhibition of "I Grow Together with My Children" Family Education Story (Family Style) of the Affiliated Primary School of Hai'an Teacher Development Center, Jiangsu Province (4)
"Family is the first classroom of life, and parents are the first teachers of children. Children begin to receive tutors from the time they learn to speak, and there are people who have a tutor. The vast number of families should emphasize their words and teaching, teach knowledge, cultivate morality, practice what they preach, and help their children buckle the first button in life and take the first step in life. ”
In order to further promote the traditional family virtues of the Chinese nation and advocate the construction of good family style and family education, the school has launched the "I Grow Together with My Children" (Family Style) family education story collection activity. Parents told touching stories of tutoring around the formation of good habits, the cultivation of good qualities, and the inheritance of good family style. Here are some of the best works to share with you the wisdom of education.
Inherit virtue, heirloom
China is a country of etiquette, and 5,000 years of good morals have been passed down to this day. Since the three migrations of Meng's mother in ancient times, it has been told that a good family style is essential. It subtly influences the child's mind and shapes the child's personality. What kind of family style there is, what kind of children there are.
Love to learn
Which child is not born like an angel? Orange is born in Huainan is orange, orange is born in Huaibei, and orange is born in Huaibei, don't always blame the child, first of all, we have to see whether we are "Huainan" or "Huaibei". Instead of training children thousands of times, it is better to give children a good family atmosphere and participate in experiential actions together. My husband and I have been working hard for it and have experienced it firsthand.
Parents should pursue noble spiritual tastes and take the lead in making the spiritual life at home elegant and rich. Every weekend, we accompany our children to read books, enjoy flowers, listen to music, and pay attention to current affairs. Children are immersed in the scene and must be influenced by aesthetic taste. In the book, the child understands the hardships of labor of "hoeing the day of the harvest, sweat dropping the soil". Love food, cherish food, CD-ROM action, start from me; In the book, the child understands the teaching of "don't take evil as a small thing, don't take good as a small thing", in the community, she always cares for the elderly, helps stray cats and dogs; As the saying goes, "there is poetry and books in the belly", advocating knowledge and loving learning, children become open-minded, benevolent, humble and polite under the influence of this environment.
Filial piety comes first
A good family style is not a textbook, nor is it a parent's constant ear and face, let alone a wielding stick, it is like spring rain moisturizing things silently.
There is a Xinning nursing home next to our house. When my child was very young, I used to take her for walks. Every time I walk to the gate of the nursing home, I will see the old people in twos and threes, some of them sitting alone in the sun and pretending to sleep, some of them have empty eyes, quietly looking outside, looking sad about the world, and occasionally the more enthusiastic grandmother will lean against the door and wave to the girl. Seeing the child's sympathetic and reluctant eyes, I went back to discuss with my husband to buy some fruits, milk, and bread to visit these old people.
When I arrived at the nursing home, the children performed allegro, sang and played the violin for the elderly, I cut the nails and cut the hair of the elderly, and the husband accompanied the elderly to play chess and chatter, and everything seemed so beautiful. We care about them as if they were our own relatives, and they treat the girl as if they were their granddaughter. On the eve of the Chinese New Year, we will more or less prepare some pork, shoes and hats, small gifts to visit the elderly, and the girl does not hesitate to take out her New Year's money and divide it into small red envelopes to express her little care, adding a touch of light and expectation to the life of the elderly. Through these small things within my ability, I told my children that "if you are poor, you will be good to yourself, and if you are good, you will be good to the world", and you must study hard to maximize your return to the society in the future. Children have always used love and warmth to infect everyone around them.
Thrift
From a small person, a family, to a large country, the survival and development of the entire human race is inseparable from thrift and thrift.
In our family, we can't spend less money than we should, and we can't spend more than we shouldn't. People are accustomed to saving water when the lights are off. When the child goes out, he always fills the house with water by himself. She said that as long as we buy one less bottle of water and a packet of instant noodles to help the children in the poor mountainous areas, we can let them have enough food and warm clothes. Faced with the dazzling array of snacks outside, the children prefer to go home and make them with me. Now, she has learned how to roll out dumpling wrappers, make dumplings, and bake delicious pastries of all shapes. But for the child's school supplies and extracurricular books, we always give her enough money to let the child choose his favorite books. The books she has read can also be rafted to other children in need.
Family style is a clear spring in the dry desert, and family style is a bright light on the road of children's life. We are willing to interpret with action and feel with sincerity, so as to create a beautiful personality for children and make them become the pillars of the country!
Photo: Yuan Yaqin, Xu Jing, Sun Qichun, Liu Qing's parents, Ju Tongmei, Xu Jing, Sui Jun
Editor-in-charge: Wang Wei