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Title: The woman and her boyfriend live in the AA system, live together but sleep in separate rooms: The boyfriend has to pay her 5,000 yuan per month
Love is love, marriage is calculation.
With the development of the times, the simple concept of marriage and love is being eroded by the self-interested concept of marriage and love, which also leads to more and more people becoming more and more afraid of marriage.
They are worried that once they are cheated, their hard-earned savings will be washed, cheated, and divided.
After all, the divorce rate is so high today, these are all high probability events.
More and more people are realizing that falling in love with the brain will only make themselves bruised.
In Guangdong, a woman and her boyfriend live in the AA system, live together but sleep in separate rooms: we are only in love and not married.
Once upon a time, there was a saying that love that is not aimed at marriage is a hooligan.
But nowadays, more and more people are starting to "play hooligan".
The woman shared her happy life with her boyfriend on her social platform.
In her opinion, their "happiness" comes from their "only love and not marriage" mode of getting along.
According to the woman, she is 38 years old this year, a native of Guangxi, an e-commerce operator, and usually shoots short videos. My boyfriend is 34 years old, from Hubei, and he does decoration.
The reason why the boyfriend can maintain the state of "only falling in love and not getting married" is because both of them are in the state of "divorced with a baby".
The woman has an 8-year-old daughter who lives in Guangzhou with her ex-husband, and the woman will pick up and stay for two days on weekends.
My boyfriend has a son who is in junior high school in his hometown.
Because both of them have children, they have no associations for having children, and their families will not urge marriage or anything because of this, so they are very laissez-faire.
What's more, because they each have children, in order to avoid unnecessary property disputes and disputes in the future, the two feel that it is good not to get a license.
The two lived a love life like this, after all, love is the sweetest in the love stage.
The woman said that although the two lived together, all expenses were AA system, including rent, because the house belonged to the woman, so her boyfriend had to pay her rent every month.
When the woman divorced, she left the house and bought the current house after 4 years of hard work, and she had to repay the mortgage of 8,000 yuan every month, which was not a small pressure.
The boyfriend originally rented near the woman's house, and after falling in love, he simply moved in with him, but because it was an AA system, he had to give the woman 5,000 yuan in rent every month.
In addition, the boyfriend gives the woman 1,000 yuan a month for living expenses, and the woman is responsible for buying vegetables and fruits, and then the man goes home to cook after work.
Because it is an AA system, the woman is responsible for the fixed expenses such as the utility bill of the property.
In addition, the cost of daily necessities, both of them will buy, a little more and a little less, it is not so clear.
Therefore, in terms of money, neither of them cares about anything, and after they said it at the beginning, they can implement it according to the agreement, and there is no contradiction.
Because it is completely AA system, the room of the two is still sleeping in separate rooms, the woman usually sleeps in the master bedroom with the master bathroom, and the boyfriend sleeps in the guest bedroom with the guest bathroom.
The woman's statement is: This is also so that both of them can rest well and not disturb each other's rest.
Because the two are not husband and wife, to put it bluntly, they don't need to endure each other's bad habits, and if they don't like it, they can change it at any time, and the sense of distance is the secret of the relationship between the two.
According to the woman's description, the relationship between the two is more like a shared roommate with a relationship between a man and a woman.
In this way, you can enjoy the sweetness of love without worrying about what the other party takes from you.
However, some netizens said: The man actually suffers a loss, after all, is the 5,000 yuan counted as rent, or is it considered to repay the loan? If the rent is calculated, 20 years later, the woman got a suite, but the man has nothing.
Some netizens said: The woman has taken advantage of everything, the man is a big wrongdoer, and the worst thing is the boy in his hometown, he is the one whose rights and interests have been encroached upon the most.
But I am happy to buy it, as long as the person concerned doesn't feel anything, outsiders have nothing to say.
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