Zeng Shiqiang: The fate of the second half of his life depends on whether he can understand these three points, and it is not too late to know
As the saying goes, nine times out of ten, life doesn't go as planned. In the first half of your life, maybe you have been chasing that perfect life and your own glory. Professor Zeng Shiqiang, a Chinese management master, believes that the fate of the second half of his life depends on whether or not he can understand these three points, and it is not too late to know.
You must know that everyone's life has the first half of life and the second half of life. In the first half of our lives, we may all be running for life, struggling for our careers, and paying for our families. And in the second half of our lives, when all this is stabilized, where should we go? Professor Zeng Shiqiang gave us the answer.
1. Let go of attachment and embrace change
Life is like a play, and drama is like life. In the first half of our lives, we were obsessed with our own little world and our own small goals. But in the second half of our lives, we need to learn to let go. Let go of those former attachments, let go of those former pursuits, and learn to embrace change.
Because in this ever-changing world, change is the norm, and change is the exception. If you don't learn to embrace change, then you're doomed to be left out of the world.
In the second half of your life, when you let go of your attachments and embrace change, you will find that there are so many possibilities in life. It turns out that those difficulties and setbacks in the past are just for you to better face the challenges of the future.
2. Cultivate your heart and pursue your true self
Professor Zeng Shiqiang once said: "Cultivating the mind is the most important practice in life. "In the first half of our lives, we may be in pursuit of external success and material satisfaction. But in the second half of our lives, we need to learn to cultivate our hearts and pursue our true selves.
Because external success and material satisfaction are only short-lived after all. Only inner peace and the pursuit of one's true self are eternal.
To cultivate one's heart is to learn to control one's emotions and learn to face one's own heart. Only when you are able to control your emotions and face your heart can you truly pursue your true self.
To pursue one's true self is to find one's true interests and find one's true value. Only when you find your interests and values can you truly live your life to the fullest.
3. Know how to be grateful and cherish the present
In the second half of our lives, we need to know how to be grateful and cherish the present. Because in the first half of our lives, we may all be running for life and struggling for our careers. But in the second half of our lives, we need to learn to be grateful and learn to cherish.
Be grateful to those who have helped us, and to those who have been with us. Because of their existence, our lives are more colorful.
To cherish the present moment is to cherish everything in front of you. Cherish the time spent with your family, cherish the moments with your friends. Because these are the most precious treasures in our lives.
Only when you know how to be grateful and cherish the present moment can you truly live the value of life and the meaning of life.
Maybe you thought that the second half of your life was still so confused and overwhelmed. But when you understand these three points, you will find that the fate of the second half of your life is actually in your own hands. As long as you are willing, you can live your own wonderful life and live your own value.
Together, let us let go of attachments, embrace change, cultivate our hearts, pursue our true selves, know how to be grateful, and cherish the present. Only in this way can we truly live the value of life and the meaning of life.
I hope that everyone who is reading can understand these three points as soon as possible and find the excitement and value of the second half of your life. Because the second half of our life is our real life and our true destination.