"Wang Xiu'e is ruined on her mouth. ”
Lao Ding's first wife, Wang Xiu'e, is a typical rural woman, she is uneducated and full of swearing, which also makes Lao Ding very disgusted.
In Lao Ding's heart, a woman like An Jie is his ideal type, educated, beautiful, and hurtful, who doesn't like it.
What makes people wonder is why Lao Ding finally married Jiang Dehua, who is also a rural woman? Even after getting married, he lived a happy life.
Could it be that Lao Ding simply has an opinion on Wang Xiu'e?
Lao Ding's envy of Jiang Defu
When Jiang Defu and An Jie got married, everyone supported them, especially An Jie's brother and sister-in-law and their matchmaker.
And when it comes to the most uncomfortable, it may be Lao Ding's comrade-in-arms for many years.
Lao Ding's wife is a rural woman, and they are all victims of arranged marriages, so they accept that they are not very satisfied with their marriage.
In fact, Lao Ding dislikes Wang Xiu'e very much, she speaks rudely, has no culture, no appearance, and the only advantage that she can do it should be her ability.
Especially after seeing his comrade-in-arms Jiang Defu marry such a beautiful wife, his heart was even more unbalanced.
It's obviously the same dormitory, why is there such a big gap?
Maybe since that time, Lao Ding has had some good feelings for An Jie, but his friend's wife can't be bullied, and Lao Ding will never do such a thing, so he only silently envy Jiang Defu in his heart.
After Wang Xiu'e came to the city as a family member to live with Lao Ding, An Jie's family saw Wang Xiu'e's "awesomeness".
But although Wang Xiu'e is a rough person, An Jie is very disgusted and never eats her cooking, but Wang Xiu'e is a kind person in her bones, she just talks but doesn't have brains, but she is actually a very good person.
An Jie can change her opinion of her, and it is precisely because of Wang Xiu'e's kindness.
At that time, An Jie was pregnant with her second child, and she happened to give birth on the night of Jiang Defu's dormitory.
After this incident, An Jie successfully had a different view of Wang Xiu'e.
In fact, in the final analysis, Wang Xiu'e was defeated by her mouth, and she said everything without holding back, which is also what Lao Ding hates about her.
Although Lao Ding dislikes Wang Xiu'e, he is an upright person, coupled with his identity, there is an organization in charge of him, and he doesn't dare to do anything out of the ordinary.
The two of them made do with it like this, until Wang Xiu'e gave birth to four things and left in childbirth.
In the play, Wang Xiu'e's death is also a passing one, after learning the news from Lao Ding's mouth, everyone can't believe it, a person who can say like that in the past is gone.
It was at this time that Jiang Dehua began to take care of Lao Ding......
Lao Ding's love life
We all know that Lao Ding has always had "ghost thoughts" about An Jie, and he thinks that he can marry such a woman as his wife like Jiang Defu.
So after Wang Xiu'e died, Lao Ding, who was single again, began to look for his "love".
Not long after Lao Ding first landed on the island, it was rumored that he and Ge Meixia were in love, and I have to say that Lao Ding was really fast.
Ge Meixia and An Jie are very similar, they are both people with special identities, and they are both beautiful and educated, it can be said that they are the "low-profile version" of An Jie, maybe Lao Ding is the object that An Jie is looking for.
Ge Meixia also seized this opportunity tightly, because of her identity, as the daughter of a fishing tyrant, no one on the island dared to marry her, so that in her thirties, she was still alone.
So now that someone is finally willing to ask for her, and she is also an officer, how could she miss it?
And just when Ge Meixia thought she was going to marry Lao Ding, she didn't expect Lao Ding to let go first.
At that time, the two were about to talk about marriage, but after submitting a report to the organization, they were ruthlessly beaten back, because of Ge Meixia's special identity, the identity gap between the two was not suitable.
In this way, Lao Ding and Ge Meixia blew it.
In the final analysis, Lao Ding is too cowardly, he doesn't have the courage of Jiang Defu, he doesn't dare to resist for love, he only knows how to blindly retreat.
In fact, it is also because Lao Ding has no confidence, let alone the ability of Jiang Defu.
Later, Lao Ding fell in love with Wu Yizhu from the health center, but because Wu Yizhu concealed the fact that he was married, the two failed to make it.
After two failed relationships, Lao Ding was disheartened.
But in the face of Lao Ding's encounter, there is one person who is very happy, and that is Jiang Dehua.
Since Lao Ding went to the island, Jiang Dehua seems to have moved, he always can't see her in Jiang's house, and he runs to Lao Ding's house at every turn, washing clothes for others, and cooking for others, which is interesting to Lao Ding at first glance.
But what Lao Ding likes is a cultured and beautiful woman, and an uneducated woman like Jiang Dehua is a woman from the countryside, how can Lao Ding repeat the mistakes of the past?
So during this period, Lao Ding can be said to have never looked at Dehua squarely, and even annoyed Dehua's daily "interruption".
Unexpectedly, Lao Ding finally married this woman who was from the same rural area as Wang Xiu'e.
Lao Ding's compromise
Perhaps out of being moved by Dehua, or perhaps compromising after experiencing two failed relationships, Lao Ding said to Dehua: "You marry me, the two of us live together, and I will marry you." ”
At this moment, Dehua finally came out, she gave so much, and finally moved Lao Ding, she was both happy and sad, and immediately ran home crying and laughing.
Regarding Lao Ding's words, many people thought that Lao Ding was compromised, but in fact, he didn't love Deshua, just out of helplessness.
But is that really the case?
In fact, Dehua and Wang Xiu'e are not the same, although they are both from the countryside, Dehua is careful and capable, and more importantly, her brother and sister-in-law are all promising people.
It can be said that Dehua's mother's family is too powerful, just a commander brother has raised her value a lot, and Lao Ding is really high.
As for Dehua, in addition to being uneducated, she is indeed a good woman, capable, and can take care of people, and has such a strong family background, Lao Ding does not suffer at all when he is with her.
Dehua is really a very good person, she has been giving all her life, before coming to her brother's house, she was called like a donkey at her ex-in-law's house.
After coming to her brother's house, she began to take care of the children for a long time, and An Jie and Jiang Defu's children were all raised by her alone.
Everyone also saw Dehua's dedication in this life, so after Ding Xiaoyan was born, he was loved by everyone and grew up happily surrounded by love.
Therefore, Lao Ding did not suffer at all when he married Dehua, but picked up a treasure.