Text: Jing Ma
After three years of high school, many children began to let go of themselves when they arrived in college, and there was an important credit in college that students needed to take, that is, love credits.
So there are a lot of students who are in love in college, after all, the study pressure in college is not so great, and college happens to be the period of adolescence, and the period of hormone secretion is more, and it is also a very normal thing to have a good impression of the opposite sex.
But as the parents of girls, when their daughters go to college, they still have to do some sexual education, otherwise girls may be miserable by boys if they don't pay attention.
Xiao Xing is a sophomore, and in high school, there were actually boys chasing her, but her parents were stricter, so there was no way to fall in love at that time. When she went to college and was far away from home, she began to live a rich college life, and at the same time made a boyfriend, who is a senior brother and is ready for an internship.
Because both of them are college students and don't have much money, when the two of them are always impulsive together, the boyfriend often takes advantage of the roommate's absence, secretly pulls his girlfriend back to the dormitory, pulls up the bed curtain and starts to make love to his girlfriend in bed, but someone in the dormitory will come at any time, Xiao Xing is very nervous.
The boyfriend drew a big pie with Xiao Xing: Now that the two of us are together, my money is also your money, now we save the money to open a house, and I can rent a better house when I go out in the future, and we can live together in the future, and we can cook by ourselves......
And my boyfriend doesn't even like to wear condoms, he said that this thing costs money, and it's uncomfortable, either it's a safe period, or it's to buy a morning-after pill for Xiao Xing.
After three months of sneaking around like this, Xiao Xing suddenly found that her stomach hurt so much when she had her menstruation this time, and when she went to the toilet, she fainted in the toilet because of too much bleeding, and her roommate quickly sent her to the hospital. As a result, the doctor found that it was an ectopic pregnancy, and at this time it was already bleeding profusely, and the doctor quickly performed surgery to cut off one of the fallopian tubes.
Fortunately, the doctor was experienced and rescued Xiao Xing, and the doctor was also very panicked, saying that if you send it for another 10 minutes, the child will probably not be saved, because the ectopic pregnancy ruptured and hemorrhaged, and the difficulty of rescue is also very high.
The doctor also thought it was very strange, after all, Xiao Xing was so young, there should be no ectopic pregnancy under normal circumstances, and after learning about Xiao Xing's usual relationship with her boyfriend, she learned that Xiao Xing's boyfriend often made out with Xiao Xing in the dormitory in order to save money, and also gave Xiao Xing the morning-after pill.
The doctor listened and said: Your boyfriend is too selfish, too ignorant, this morning-after pill is eaten, if the contraception fails, it will be easier to get an ectopic pregnancy, and there are roommates in the dormitory at any time, very nervous, and when you are nervous, it is easy to have tubal spasm, and at this time it is also easy to have ectopic pregnancy, so the selfish boyfriend should not ask for it, break up quickly......
And Xiao Xing asked her boyfriend for money during this operation, and her boyfriend only gave her the surgery fee, not even the nutrition fee, saying that he had no money, Xiao Xing felt that this man was too selfish.
As a parent with a daughter, you must do these two things well when your child is in love
Number one: give your child enough money
When your daughter falls in love, you have to give her more love funds, after all, you can't always take advantage of others when you fall in love, if you always spend money when you fall in love, when boys make all kinds of unreasonable requests, it is difficult for girls to refuse, after all, they eat people softly, and they take people short.
Therefore, parents give their children love funds so that girls can be in an equal position in front of boys and avoid suffering losses because of unequality.
The second point: educate girls to learn to protect themselves
The so-called protection of yourself is to be with your boyfriend, you must do a good job of safety measures, condoms are the safest, because not only can you prevent contraception, but also prevent various infectious diseases, and you must teach your daughter to use condoms correctly. Learn to protect yourself so that you can have fewer regrets in the future.
For example, if this college student is sent a little later, he may lose his life, even if it is not sent very late, but one of the fallopian tubes has been cut off, and the probability of pregnancy in the future will be greatly reduced, because a love will delay his life, which is really not worth it. #春日生活打卡季#
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