When we are young, we often put all our thoughts on our careers and families, especially our children, grandchildren, and granddaughters, and always hope to give them the best of everything, thinking that this will make them happy and happy. However, when you get old, you will find that no matter how good you pay before, it is useless, because true happiness and joy cannot be achieved by material and superficial care.
I remember when I was younger, I was always busy between work and family, and I took care of my children in the hope that they would become great talents. Whenever they have difficulties or need help, I always give them support and encouragement, thinking that this will set them on the road to success.
However, as the years passed, I gradually realized that even though I gave a lot, their happiness did not lie in the material support I gave, but in their own inner growth and awareness. Some children feel empty and lost even after they have received everything, while others become strong and mature despite hardship.
I used to put all my heart and soul into my children, thinking that this would make them happy, but I neglected their own inner growth and experience. It wasn't until one day, when I saw that they each had their own lives and goals, that I suddenly realized that happiness and happiness need to be pursued and achieved by ourselves, rather than relying on external material and care.
There have been conflicts and conflicts, frustrations and disappointments between me and my children. But over time, we all learn to mature and understand, and learn to accept each other's shortcomings and shortcomings. Now, our relationship is more harmonious and harmonious because we know how to respect and understand each other, no longer strive for perfection, but enjoy the joy and happiness of the moment.
I used to think that if I was good to my children, I would be able to make them happy, but when I got older, I realized that happiness does not lie in what I give, but in their own choices and experiences. I learned to let go of obsessions and tolerance, and let them grow freely, which is the real love and care.
Perhaps, life is a practice, and we need to constantly learn to let go and accept, and learn to face everything in life with tolerance and understanding. Even if the best efforts are not rewarded, there is no need to regret and feel guilty, because we did our best, and that is enough. Let's enjoy the process of aging together, because when we are old, we will understand that the most beautiful thing is not the external material, but the inner peace and contentment.