I don't know if you've ever had such an experience:
When I got up in the morning, I wanted to wear Meimeida to work, but I was looking for my favorite clothes, but I didn't find it for half an hour, so I went out in a panic, and I was still late to the company, and I was scolded by my boss.
When I got home, I wanted to read a book and do a sport to improve myself, but when I looked at the messy desk, bed, and clothes, I suddenly didn't want to do anything, so I wanted to lie on the bed and brush my phone.
On the weekend, I wanted to cook a meal with my husband for a romantic weekend, but because no one wanted to clean up the messy kitchen, I had a big fight, and the relationship between the two people was exhausted little by little in the trivial mess.
Yes, you will find that when your home is in a mess, it seems that you can't do anything well! Because it invisibly accumulates negative emotions and constantly consumes your career, life, and marriage.
How much does the environment affect people?
Successful people with a high sense of happiness tend to have a clean and tidy home environment, while unfortunate people usually live in a messy and dirty environment.
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In his 30s, a messy life
Many girls will face such an encounter after getting married, especially after giving birth to a baby: they are only in their 30s, but they are sloppy, sallow, and bloated, and they are like the previous school goddess.
For working mothers, they will also experience tiring work in the company during the day, and go home at night to cook and laundry and take care of their children.
So often:
The wardrobe is always messy and there is simply no time to clean up;
Things are scattered everywhere, always angry because they can't be found;
I often lose things at work and cause a lot of trouble.
A young mother once suffered from this and told her story: Once, because she went out, she rummaged through the messy closet for a long time, and she couldn't find the right clothes, so she just put on a dress and went to work.
In a hurry, I even forgot the documents I had made all night in the stacks of books.
On the same day, an important customer came to visit, looked sloppy and forgot to bring information, and before the meeting, she said that she was not professional enough.
The negotiation failed, and the boss casually found a reason to fire her, saying: I was tired of seeing her lose a long time ago.
A mother in her 30s, who took out a loan but suddenly lost her job;
In his 30s, he has a bloated figure and wrinkled face;
In her 30s, she is left with a messy home and a messy life......
This kind of life will make people lose their fighting spirit in life, and she will be confused all day long, and she wants to lie in bed and play with her mobile phone.
Until a friend comes to see her and sees her decadent state and messy room: you are in a pigsty-like room, and of course you just want to be a lying pig!
This unemployed young mother suddenly realized: is it a bad environment that has made herself want to fall again and again!
She began to frantically tidy up her home, throwing things, folding clothes, using all kinds of methods, and within two days the house became cluttered again.
She didn't believe in evil and studied the underlying logic of organizing and storage, but she didn't expect that in less than a month, not only did her home become clean, but even her life changed dramatically.
Every day when I go home and do yoga in the empty and clean living room, my figure slowly improves. There was more sweetness in my husband's eyes when he looked at him.
Cooking dinner in a clean and bright kitchen will gradually calm and happy.
Sitting in a neat and fresh study, I read a lot of books unconsciously, and the whole person is getting better and better.
I took the initiative to improve myself and actively obtained the organizer.
A clean home is the magnetic field that makes you excellent!