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1. It is difficult to determine right and wrong in housework, and I personally feel that the biggest problem in this matter lies with your husband, who has not appeased you, let alone done a good job of the bond between you and your in-laws!2. Regarding each local custom, people know that this is superstition, but it is difficult for you to change the minds of the older generation, not to mention that they are your elders, so you can only change yourself, or discuss with your husband whether you can change the way and remember the deceased together!
