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As the old saying goes, "All evil and fornication are the first." ”
When it comes to the word "lewdness", the first thing that comes to many people's minds may be the emotional entanglement between men and women.
And the "lewdness" here is to describe the state of excessive greed and uncontrol.
People who have excessive desires are insatiable, have evil intentions, and often seek to harm others and benefit themselves.
If you have too much desire and too much greed, you often show the following three signs, and you must be vigilant!
1
Lack of self-control and go with the flow
People with heavy "lust" often lack self-control, they are unable to resist the temptation of the outside world, and they are easy to fall into various bad habits.
Mozi once said: "Those who are not strong in their will will not reach wisdom, and those who do not believe in their words will not be able to achieve results." ”
If a person does not have a firm will and self-control, it will be difficult for him to achieve something in wisdom and achieve good results in words and deeds.
I often hear the term "ape and horse" to describe those who are uncertain and have difficulty controlling themselves.
They leap like apes, are as untamable as horses, and are always drawn by external desires and unable to do so.
Such people are often easy to drift with the tide, be swept up by the tide of society, and lose their direction and judgment.
In modern society, it is not uncommon for people to lack self-control.
They may be addicted to vices such as online games and gambling, and they may not be able to extricate themselves;
It is also possible to blindly pursue material comforts, do not hesitate to borrow and consume, and eventually fall into the quagmire of debt.
If you have a deep relationship with such people, you will be negatively influenced by them and even be involved in their bad behavior.
Always be vigilant and avoid getting too deep into people who lack self-control.
2
Loss of empathy, profit first
As the old saying goes, "The desire for profit consumes the heart, regardless of the words of others." ”
People who are "lustful" often lose empathy, only care about their own interests, and are indifferent to the feelings and needs of others.
Unscrupulous means for their own benefit, even to the point of harming others.
They are like cold machines, blind to the suffering and plight of others.
In Buddhism, this behavior is called "ego," which is an overemphasis on the self and neglect the existence of others.
They only focus on their own gains and losses, and do not care about the interests of others.
In the Sutra of Amitayus, it says: "I am slow and self-conscious, and my heart is not pure. ”
People who have too much desire, are arrogant, full of pride and prejudice in their hearts, and cannot truly understand and care about others.
Such people often do not hesitate to hurt others or even betray friends and family in the process of pursuing profits.
If you have a deep friendship with such a person, you are likely to become the object of their exploitation and even be hurt by their indifference and ruthlessness.
Between people, knowing how to empathize is the best way to get along.
3
There is no gratitude and reverence
俗话说：“滴水之恩，当涌泉相报。 ”
Lustful people tend to turn a blind eye to the help of others and have no gratitude in their hearts.
They are like a bottomless pit, no matter how much others give, they cannot fill the greed in their hearts.
Gratitude is a practice that cherishes and rewards all the good karma in life.
But the lustful people forget this, and they focus only on their own desires, without reverence or gratitude.
Reckless, reckless, and self-centered.
Buddhism says, "Without reverence, there is no foundation for morality." ”
A person who lacks reverence cannot establish true morality.
Only with gratitude and reverence can we stay away from calamity.
In life, you often meet such people.
They always complain about the unfairness of life and never think to thank those who have helped them.
If you have a deep friendship with such a person, you will only fall into endless troubles and pain.
When encountering people who are ungrateful and have no reverence, one should be vigilant and avoid deep friendships with them.
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Woe to too much sexual immorality, and woe to too much desire.
We must know how to put moderation first, too much, and easy to provoke.
Constantly improve their self-cultivation and quality, know how to be satisfied, have good intentions, relax their mentality, and live a natural life;
Stay away from those who are too lustful, and your life will naturally go well.
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