What kind of hatred is hidden behind the extreme behavior of a suspected woman who splashes boiling water on a man because of a conflict over trivial matters?
Recently, a video of a woman who had a conflict with her husband over trivial matters and poured hot water directly on the man sitting next to her was posted on the Internet, causing heated discussions, and netizens accused: The woman is too ruthless!
The interaction between the two people is seen in the video, the man looks at the woman and nags, and the woman happens to be standing next to the kettle, when the man twists his head to the other side.
The woman suddenly picked up the white kettle and poured hot water on the man, who could be heard howling through the screen.
The woman didn't mean to stay here, so she took a few looks and ran out.
The importance of speaking well in marriage!
Through this incident, we also need to get reflection from it, marriage management is not easy, often encounter various contradictions and frictions, how to resolve these contradictions by speaking well, but we must learn a lesson.
When the conflict between husband and wife escalates and the spark of emotion is flying, remember that at no time can anger be used as fuel to pour hot water on each other.
This is not only a disregard for the physical safety of others, but also a blatant provocation to the law. In the face of such conflicts, we should first suppress the anger in our hearts and let the light of reason re-illuminate our hearts.
If it's really hard to calm down, then retreat temporarily and give yourself and the other party a buffer space. Remember, impulsiveness is the devil, don't let anger get carried away and do things that hurt others and regret them.
To avoid such tragedies, we need to learn to speak well and try to communicate calmly and communicatively.
First, learn to listen to each other's opinions and ideas and respect each other's feelings.
Second, use a calm tone and attitude to express your opinions, and avoid using offensive language and emotional expressions.
Third, try to think from the other person's perspective and understand the other party's position and feelings.
Fourth, when the two sides are emotional, try not to reply to each other, follow each other's words, and do not further intensify the contradiction and cause irreparable consequences. Only in this way can we establish a good communication mechanism in marriage, resolve conflicts and enhance feelings.