Oh mom, how bizarre do you think this thing must be? Those old men who have been tempered by the years to become "old rivers and lakes" actually have a day when "the evening festival is not guaranteed"!
No, just a few days ago, in a community in Yangzhou, a farce of "Sunset Red Hunter" was staged, which really made people laugh and cry.
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On that day, the sun was just right, the breeze was not dry, and a young girl was sitting on a bench in the community enjoying the afternoon. At this moment, an old man with white hair and a hobbling gait walked over and said to her with a "kind" face: "Beauty, do you want to come and sit on my bed?"
As soon as these words came out, the girl's face turned red, and she muttered in her heart: "This old man, why is he so improper?" Although the girl muttered in her heart, she still remained polite on the surface, she politely refused the old man's invitation, and reminded him to pay attention to his words and deeds.
Who knows, the old man didn't seem to take the girl's words to heart at all, and said proudly: "Evening? I don't want it for a long time!" As soon as these words came out, the girl was completely speechless, so she could only quickly take out her mobile phone, record this embarrassing scene, and then leave in a hurry.
This matter spread ten, ten, hundreds, and soon became a hot topic in the community. Everyone said that this old man is really going back more and more, and he doesn't know how to respect others when he is old. Some netizens ridiculed: "Does this old man feel that he has rejuvenated, and even the way he picks up is so 'trendy'?"
This phenomenon of "old and improper" is not uncommon. With the development of society and the deepening of the aging of the population, more and more elderly people have begun to pursue the freedom and passion of their youth, which is understandable. It is unacceptable that some older people turn this pursuit into harassment and aggression against others.
In my opinion, it is okay for older people to pursue freedom and passion, but only if they respect others and abide by social morals. Everyone has their own way of life and values, and we shouldn't judge others by our own standards.
If seniors really want to regain the feeling they felt when they were younger, they can choose some healthier and more active methods, such as participating in interest groups, community activities or fitness exercises, so that they can exercise and make new friends, so why not?
In addition to the need for reflection and adjustment by the elderly themselves, society should also give them more attention and help. The elderly are a valuable asset to society, and they have experienced ups and downs and accumulated rich life experiences. We should respect their choices and rights, and at the same time, we should guide them to establish correct values and behavioral norms.
Speaking of this, I can't help but think of a sentence: "Time is a knife to kill pigs, and knives urge people to grow old." "However, we can't become indulgent and unscrupulous just because we are old. On the contrary, we should face life with a more mature and rational attitude, respect others, and maintain social harmony and stability.
I want to say to those "old and improper" old people: "Uncles and aunts, we are all so old, don't toss anymore." Enjoy your old age and respect others as well as yourself. After all, it's not a glorious thing to have a bad night!"
This phenomenon also reflects the lack of attention in our society to the psychological needs of the elderly. They may be lonely, bored, or for a variety of other reasons, choosing this inappropriate way to seek attention and stimulation. As a member of society, we should pay more attention to the mental health of the elderly and provide them with more care and support.
We should also strengthen education and guidance for the elderly, so that they understand what is appropriate and what is not. By holding some lectures and activities for the elderly, or setting up some psychological counseling hotlines, etc., to help them establish correct values and behavioral norms.
We should also give adequate support and protection to those who are harassed. Let them know that they have the right to refuse any inappropriate behaviour and that they can defend their rights and interests through legal means.
The author's concept
Older people are also an important part of society, and we should respect their choices and rights, and at the same time, we should guide them to establish correct values and behavioral norms. Only in this way can we build a harmonious and beautiful society together.
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