Recently, an 86-year-old uncle's marriage to Bai Yueguang attracted the attention of netizens, and he rushed directly to the hot search.
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You said he didn't want to attract too much attention, this ceremony was very grand, there were lion dances, wedding cars, fireworks, etc., very atmosphere, very well prepared. It is understood that the old man and his first girlfriend used to be lovers of Peking University, and they were also classmates, and the two failed to get married because of family opposition, and now the groom is a retired principal, who is eighty-six years old, and still has a soft spot for his first love, presumably the bride must be very good.
Both of them are in their eighties, full of the precipitation of time and the imprint of wisdom, and their eyes are full of warmth and kindness. Their minds are still agile, and their words are full of wisdom and insight. But we must know that both sides have lived most of their lives, and they have children and grandchildren and their families, and they are together, not their own consent, and when we see the couplets and ceremonies at the door, we know that they must have passed the support of their families.
Some netizens said that the original match of the two people became a joke, and asked these two people, they didn't love each other, why did they get married before? According to the age of the two, it is not difficult for us to find that their marriages at that time should have been mostly arranged, and there was no freedom at all, they were all victims of the times, and they should be treated inclusively.
Moreover, the vast majority of people are at the age of marriage, the conditions of the two parties match, they have a good impression of each other, and they feel that they have good character, so they get married together, and very few people are fortunate enough to get married because of love. The death of the original partner is freed, the other half is also responsible for his own life, and the old man who has lost his independence also has the right to love again. The two old men agreed, and the children of both sides had no opinions, but netizens were talking about it, which was embarrassing.
In my opinion, the old man decided to marry Bai Yueguang back then, and he also made a lot of determination and courage, and he also knew that he had little time left, which could be regarded as making up for his regrets and not letting himself regret it. I heard that love is nine times sad, many times, we can't forget a person, not because we love too much, but because time will hit us in reality with thousands of holes, not the same, but the memory of her polished round, radiating light. Everyone is like a passenger on the bus, and the terminal is different, some get off early and some get off late, just to accompany each other for a ride. For the partner, the one who leaves first must hope that those who stay can enjoy life and love life.
Bai Yueguang is very lethal, what is Bai Yueguang? When I met her when I was in my youth, I got a full score in my heart, and since then I have trapped me, and I easily won everyone, which is the bravest and most failed page in the chapter of youth. She appeared in my dreams countless times, in my imagination of the future, but for various reasons, in the end, we couldn't come together, and we couldn't work together.
With the increase of life experience, everyone will have some changes in love, and will look down on many things, and if you really love someone, no matter how many times you persuade yourself to let go, you still want to have it at a glance. Each of us has our own opinions about love, but there is no standard answer to love, and you are free to play with it.
The old man is eighty years old, and his first love may have occupied a place in his heart, and everyone has not been shaken, until today, the opportunity to come together is God's favor, and it is his own compensation for his youth. Netizens' comments about him are nothing more than the opinions of the original partner, but the original partner has left, and what he cares about is slightly redundant, besides, it is impossible to have this wedding and continuation when the original partner is still there.
Now that they have chosen to get married, and the two families are still informed and agreed, as long as it is not cheating in marriage, there is nothing to say, we should bless it, get rid of the shackles of thought, maybe most people can't accept that he marries his first love, and there will be no such big opposition for the rest of his life with a stranger.