The 86-year-old actor Yu Mulian's life in the nursing home is very public, and she wants to go home very much: she lives here like a year

The 86-year-old "fish hair" Yu Mulian has starred in many works such as "Tricky Expert", "Dragon Babu", "Best Partner", etc., and is a gold medal green leaf in Hong Kong film and television dramas.

Four years ago, Yu began to suffer from otolithiasis and pulmonary fibrosis, and was diagnosed with haematitis, a rare condition, and was hospitalized in the intensive care unit.

Yu Mulian was admitted to the hospital for nearly half a year, and finally could go home to recuperate quietly.

After being discharged from the hospital, she asked Huang Tinghuan, vice president of a weekly magazine, to write her first autobiography "I Am a Bean", telling the joys and sorrows of life, hoping to affect life with life.

All proceeds from the books will be donated to the Children's Cancer Fund without deducting the cost.

Yu Mulian, who had to go to the emergency department for treatment because of the fish bone, turned out that her Indian maid was going back to her hometown to visit relatives for a month, and many of Yu Mulian's friends were very anxious after knowing it, worried that if she lived alone in this month, she would not be able to take care of herself, and she was afraid that an accident would happen, so in a short period of time, she found a new nursing home that had been open for half a year, and quickly arranged for Yu Mulian to live temporarily.

However, in an interview with the media a few days ago, Yu Mulian said: "I'm not used to it! I want to go home soon!"

A few days ago, the media visited Yu Mulian in person at the nursing home, and saw that the facilities of the nursing home were new and perfect, the environment was good, and the staff took good care of the old friends with a friendly and cordial attitude.

In the double room where she lives alone, although Yu Mulian is full of praise for the nursing home, she still can't help but have a bitter face, saying that she is not suitable for the life of the nursing home, and from her words, she fully feels her lack of security.

Yu Mulian said: "I understand that nursing homes have their own rules and schedules, but every day I have to have breakfast early, dinner at 5 o'clock, and go to bed at 8:30 o'clock. I can go for a walk in the park downstairs to breathe fresh air, move my hands and feet, stretch my muscles, chat with the neighbors, and watch TV at any time at night!"

"But living in a nursing home, although there are residents to play mahjong with me, but I can never go out casually, the life and rest time is different, and I can't see those neighbors, I really don't get used to it, it's boring, and the days are like years! I look at the calendar every day, counting the days one by one, waiting for the Indian commission to return to Hong Kong, and I will move home immediately! I really want to go home soon, I really want to see Liu Songren's "Matteo Ricci". ”

In the room where Yu Mulian lives, there are a lot of daily necessities, as well as a calendar book full of friends' phone numbers.

Since she didn't know how to use a smartphone and couldn't store her friends' contact numbers in her phone, these calendar books became her most important treasure and a pillar of her soul.

Especially in the days of the nursing home, when she stayed at home and felt depressed, Yu Mulian flipped through the calendar book, looked at it and looked at it, and called relatives and friends to chat to pass the time.

Although it was only a little more than two weeks after living in the nursing home, friends in the circle, including Wu Lizhu, Anderson and the volunteer team of Youjian Charity Foundation, all visited the nursing home in person.

An Dezun, who took time out of his busy schedule a few days ago, stayed for 3 hours to accompany Yu Mulian to chat and relieve boredom.

As for the Indian maid in her hometown, when she was enjoying the family fun, she was still concerned about Yu Mulian who was far away, and on the day of the media interview, Yu Mulian received a call from the Indian maid, warmly reminding her to go to the hospital on time for follow-up, which shows that their relationship has surpassed the relationship between master and servant, and the love is deep and meaningful.

Although the purpose of living in a nursing home is to provide more comprehensive care for the elderly, it does take time for the elderly to adapt, which often causes emotional ups and downs and produces different ideas.

Lack of security and fear are inevitable, leaving the familiar environment and turning to living in an unfamiliar environment, living in a group, new people and things, may not be unbearable for the elderly, and there will even be a sense of loneliness of abandonment.

The support and concern of family and friends are the motivation of the elderly to integrate into the new environment. If you are surrounded by elderly people in nursing homes, remember to visit them as well.