In the later years of life, longing for the love and companionship of children is one of the deepest wishes of many elderly people. However, it is not easy to want your children to take the initiative to be close to themselves and be good to themselves. In this story, we will follow the experience of an elderly man in his later years and explore how he managed to gain the care and affection of his children by doing three things well.
The protagonist of the story is a septuagenarian named Grandpa Wang. Grandpa Wang has two sons, one who works in the city and the other who works as a farmer in the countryside. Although the elderly Grandpa Wang is in good health, he often feels depressed because of loneliness. He wants to be able to communicate and interact more with his children, but often feels neglected and forgotten.
Grandpa Wang knows that if you want to get the love and concern of your children, the first thing you need to do is to communicate and understand each other. So, he began to take the initiative to contact his children, calling them every day to ask them about their living conditions and share his feelings and experiences. Although sometimes the children are unable to answer the phone due to their busy work, Grandpa Wang does not give up, but persistently keeps in touch with them so that the children can feel cared for and cared for.
In addition to communication, Grandpa Wang also knows that in order for his children to be good to him, he must build trust and understanding with each other. Therefore, he began to listen to his children's ideas and suggestions, respecting their opinions and no longer imposing his own ideas and opinions. He learned to be tolerant and understanding, and his relationship with his children gradually became harmonious and harmonious.
The most important point is that Grandpa Wang clearly understands that in order to get the care and love of his children, he must first treat them well. So, he began to care about his children's life and work, and did his best to solve their problems. He does not hesitate to lend a helping hand when his son is in trouble, and he is always the first to stand up when his daughter-in-law needs help. He used his actions to tell his children that no matter what difficulties and setbacks they encounter, they can rely on themselves, because their parents will always be their strongest backing.
As time went on, Grandpa Wang's efforts finally paid off. The children began to take the initiative to care for him, often visiting him, taking him out for walks, and chatting with him. They also have more respect and understanding for Grandpa Wang, and their relationship with him has become closer and more harmonious. Grandpa Wang finally felt the love and concern of his children, and the loneliness in his heart was also alleviated.
Through this story, it is not difficult for us to see that it is not difficult to achieve if you want your children to take the initiative to be close to themselves and be good to themselves. The key is to do three things well: communication, understanding and caring. Only through sincere communication and understanding between each other can a good parent-child relationship be established and the emotional bond between parents and children can be strengthened.