Text: Marriage counselor Liu Jie
Sometimes the feelings between people are like a drizzle, quietly growing, and sometimes they are like old wine, which becomes more mellow over time.
Between the opposite sex, getting along for a long time, it is easy to inadvertently spark love. This kind of beauty of long-lasting love can be seen everywhere in our lives.
So, what are the different manifestations of the relationship between the opposite sex?
01
Frequent communication
When the opposite sex begins to communicate frequently, whether it is at work or in life, they are willing to share with each other, which is often the beginning of emotional breeding.
There is an endless amount of things to say about each other. From morning to night, whether it is joy, anger and sorrow, or the little secret in my heart, I am willing to tell each other.
This kind of intimate communication is a clear sign of the warming of feelings.
As the ancients said: "There is no distance between each other, and thousands of miles are still neighbors." ”
Although this sentence was originally used to describe friendship, it is also applicable between people of the opposite sex who have been in love for a long time. Frequent communication and exchanges have gradually brought the hearts of both parties closer and become "close neighbors" in each other's lives.
02
Meticulous care
In the process of long-term love, both parties will unconsciously begin to care about each other's every move.
This concern is reflected in all aspects of daily life: a greeting of "good morning" or "good night", a reminder to bring an umbrella on a rainy day, and a reminder to add clothes when the weather turns cooler.
These seemingly insignificant details contain deep care and love.
When the opposite sex begins to think about each other, care about each other's mood, and even change their habits and preferences for each other, this intimate relationship has gone beyond the boundaries of ordinary friends.
As Shakespeare said, "True love cannot be expressed in words, but best illustrated by deeds." ”
Moreover, a special bond will form between two people.
For example, having a little secret that only each other knows, or sharing some special memories. These unique experiences and emotions bind them together with an indescribable tacit understanding.
This tacit understanding can be seen everywhere in their words and deeds, a look, a smile, can make the other party understand.
03
Support and dependence on each other
When the opposite sex begins to support each other and face the ups and downs of life together, this intimate relationship is no longer just a friend.
They will lend a helping hand to the other person when they are in trouble, and give them support and encouragement. They will also share joy and pride with them when they are successful.
This kind of mutual support and dependence is actually a long-term relationship, and their relationship will be closer.
Moreover, between the opposite sex who have been in love for a long time, as the relationship deepens, there will be a kind of exclusivity and exclusivity.
For example, they don't want the other person to have too much contact with other members of the opposite sex, and they may even be jealous and uneasy because of this. This kind of emotion, although it sometimes causes some small friction, also just shows that you have fallen in love with each other.
As Shakespeare wrote in Romeo and Juliet, "My generosity is as vast as the sea, my love is as deep as the sea, and the more I give you, the richer I myself become, for there is no end to both." ”
It is precisely because of the long-term love that both parties want to be the only one in each other's lives, so there will be those jealousies and insecurity.
The long-term love between the opposite sex has always been the beginning of a beautiful love. I hope to cherish each other and reap the sweetness and happiness that belongs to you.