Recently, a news of the indifference of her mother-in-law at the bride's wedding has once again attracted widespread attention from netizens. It is reported that the couple was preparing to carry out a traditional tea ceremony at the wedding, but the bride handed tea to her mother-in-law three times and was given a cold reception, and her husband was not afraid to ask for help. Subsequently, the unbearable bride directly poured the tea on her mother-in-law, which surprised everyone at the scene.
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After the incident, the news spread on the Internet, and a large number of netizens expressed their support and appreciation for the bride's behavior. They think it's too disrespectful for a bride to be indifferent to her mother-in-law at her most important wedding. And the husband, as the husband, turned a deaf ear, which eventually led to an emotional out-of-control. In real life, the bride's behavior may be too extreme, but on an emotional level, this rebellion is understandable.
And today we take a look at some of the reasons behind this incident:
First of all, the influence of the traditional Chinese idea of three obedience and four virtues is far-reaching, leading many people to mistakenly believe that a daughter-in-law must obey her mother-in-law in everything. However, the times are advancing, and now the new generation of young people is not only pursuing the traditional rules of daughter-in-law, but also hopes for equality and mutual love. The bride also asked her husband for help out of nervousness, but she was given a cold reception, which undoubtedly made her extremely disappointed.
Secondly, the indifference shown by the mother-in-law's perspective is also too mean. At an important wedding, as an elder, you should give the warmest wishes to the couple, rather than using eye signals to convey hostility. This has a great impact on the bride's spirit.
Moreover, as a husband, the husband should at least uphold justice and come forward to relieve the atmosphere before his emotions get out of control, rather than turning a blind eye. This does not provide support and care between partners.
Therefore, in general, it can be seen from this incident that there is still a certain gap between traditional Chinese concepts and real life. The new generation pursues not only etiquette, but more importantly, emotional communication.
As elders, you should not treat others with yourself, and you should also give sympathy and tolerance to newcomers on important occasions. As a partner, it is also important to protect and support each other. There are many lessons to be learned from this. In fact, with the progress of society, young people nowadays should not only pursue external forms, but more importantly, inner understanding and respect.
Therefore, we hope that the family of the future can be built on the basis of equality, mutual love and mutual understanding, with elders giving blessings and partners taking care of each other, so as to build a harmonious family. This incident may cause us to re-examine traditional ideas and promote the development of family relationships on a deeper level.