I am 52 years old, I don't want to remarry after my husband dies, and I usually use "small toys" to solve practical problems
In this fast-paced society, everyone is looking for their own happiness and fulfillment. Some people find sustenance through love, some people find a sense of accomplishment through their careers, and I, a 52-year-old middle-aged woman, chose a different way to deal with the loneliness and loneliness of life after the death of my husband - that is, to use "small toys" to solve practical problems.
My story may be a little different, but I believe that everyone's choices deserve respect and understanding. After my husband died, I fell into deep grief. We have been through ups and downs together and have created many wonderful memories together. However, the impermanence of life separates us from yin and yang, leaving me alone in this world.
In addition to my grief, I also began to think about my future. I don't want to remarry because I feel like marriage isn't the whole of life and the only way to solve all problems. I prefer to be independent and free and enjoy life in my own way.
However, life is always full of challenges. As I grew older, I gradually felt changes and needs in my body. I began to look for a way to meet my own needs without burdening others. So, I discovered "Little Toys".
These "little toys" are not mysterious things, but some common sex products on the market. They are safe and convenient, able to meet my physical needs, and at the same time make me feel more free and happy than I have ever been. I started experimenting with them and gradually found that it was a perfect fit for me.
Of course, I also understand that some people may not understand or even criticize my choice. But I believe that everyone has the right to choose their own way of life and how to meet their needs. Instead of judging other people's choices through the lens of tradition, we should respect and understand each other's differences.
Using "little toys" is not a one-and-done solution. I also know that the meaning of life is not just about physical satisfaction. I still actively participate in various activities, get together with friends, and enjoy life. These "little toys" are just a part of my life, they help me solve practical problems and allow me to face life's challenges more calmly.
At the same time, I also began to pay attention to my inner world. I started learning meditation and yoga to adjust my mindset and emotions in these ways. I have found that when my heart becomes calmer and stronger, I am better able to cope with the various changes and challenges in my life.
In the process, I also gradually understood the true meaning of life. Life is not all smooth sailing, it is full of ups and downs and changes. We need to learn to adapt and adjust, to face and solve problems in our own way. My choice is to use "little toys" to solve practical problems, while maintaining inner independence and freedom.
Now, I've lived alone for a few years. Although I feel lonely and lonely at times, overall, I live my life to the fullest and happier. I am grateful to those "little toys" that have accompanied me through many difficult times, and I am also grateful for the courage to choose my own lifestyle.
In closing, I would like to say that no matter what lifestyle we choose, we should respect our feelings and needs. We should be brave enough to pursue our own happiness and contentment, and not be bound by the eyes and judgments of the outside world. Because life is our own, we have the right to choose and create our own happiness.