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My name is Li Na and I am an ordinary working woman. My husband Zhang Ming and I have been married for ten years, and we get along well and have loved each other for many years. We have a lovely son, Zhang Xiaolong, who is the greatest source of happiness in our lives.
I remember that back then, we had just gotten married, and we couldn't wait to have a baby. During pregnancy, I experienced a lot of discomfort, but the moment I saw the baby dragon was born, all the hard work was worth the ecstasy of that moment. Xiaolong is a well-behaved and sensible child, and he has been very likable since he was a child. Zhang Ming and I both doted on him very much and gave him the best of everything without hesitation.
Although our family of three will encounter some minor problems in our life, they can all be resolved in time. Sometimes Zhang Ming is too busy with work to accompany him for a long time, and I will secretly complain that he is not responsible, but I am still grateful for his support. We would often joke and say, "If you just get divorced, you won't have to worry about these things." ”
One day, Xiaolong unfortunately fell ill and was hospitalized, and I took care of him day and night, worrying about his condition. I looked at the little dragon lying on the hospital bed, and I was very anxious in my heart, and I wanted to make him better right away. During this period, Zhang Ming has been busy with work outside, and although he comes to visit Xiaolong in the hospital every day, I still can't help but complain to him: "If you don't just divorce, you don't have to worry about these things." ”
When I said this, it was just an unintentional joke, but I didn't expect it to lead to such huge consequences. I saw that Zhang Ming was stunned for a moment, and realized that his joke might have hurt him, and quickly explained: "I'm just joking, how can we get divorced? You are my dearest person, we must be together forever!"
But Zhang Ming seemed to mind this sentence very much, and was silent for a long time, and I was very worried that there would be a contradiction. Finally, Zhang Ming said: "If you really want to divorce, I also respect your decision." "I immediately realized that things might have developed to the point of no return, and hurriedly explained that I was just talking in a moment, but Zhang Ming seemed to have made up his mind to divorce.
We had a heated argument over the specifics of the divorce, and issues such as child custody and property division caused more conflicts. The families of both sides also intervened to mediate, but the differences grew and our emotions grew. In the end, in a fierce quarrel, Zhang Ming decided to file for divorce directly, and I cried and begged Zhang Ming to give me a chance to save this marriage, but he refused.
I was in great pain and helplessness, and I was thinking about what had caused this situation. I realized that it was one of my jokes that hurt Zhang Ming and caused all this, and the self-blame and guilt made me feel painful. I decided to take the initiative to give up custody and let Zhang Ming raise Zhang Xiaolong independently, while I stayed away from the family, hoping to make up for my mistakes.
Zhang Ming was surprised by my decision, but agreed anyway. After the divorce, we maintained a good relationship and cared about Zhang Xiaolong's growth together. I rediscovered myself, started to focus on my work, tried to improve myself, and gradually got out of the trauma. I realized that marriage is not the whole story of life, and that self-actualization is just as important, and I am determined to become an independent and self-reliant woman.
After the divorce, Zhang Ming and I still maintain a good relationship and care about Zhang Xiaolong's growth together. I rediscovered myself, started to focus on my work, tried to improve myself, and gradually got out of the trauma.
So I started to put my heart and soul into my work. I hope to fill the void in my heart through my work to prove that I am still a worthy person. I worked overtime and worked hard to complete every task and strive for promotions and raises. Gradually, work became the whole of my life, and I hardly had any other hobbies or interests. Sometimes, I would think of Xiaolong and miss his smiling face and mischievous appearance, but I quickly suppressed those thoughts because I was afraid that it would soften my resolve.
In this way, day after day, I searched for meaning in my work. I watched myself grow little by little, from an ordinary clerk to a department manager, which made me proud and satisfied. I also began to earn the respect and trust of my colleagues and gained a certain status in the company. Sometimes, I think that if I hadn't been divorced, maybe I would be just an ordinary housewife now, with no chance to realize my dreams. Although it was painful, these difficult experiences also made me stronger and more independent.
At this moment, I suddenly received a call from Zhang Ming. He told me that Xiaolong had grown up, and he was grateful for my decision and hoped that I would be able to start my life again. I was surprised, I didn't expect time to pass so quickly, and the little dragon was already so big. I felt a wave of nostalgia in my heart, but then I felt relieved. I realized that the decision was difficult, but in the end, everyone was happy.
We made an appointment to meet and had a long talk in a café. We lamented the turmoil of that year, and also thanked each other for our mutual understanding and support over the years. I would like to express my sincere gratitude to Zhang Ming for his tolerance and for my decision, all of which made me grow into a more independent and self-reliant woman.
"You know how painful and tormented I was when I made that decision. But in retrospect, I think it was the best choice I ever made. I looked at Zhang Ming and said sincerely.
"yes, I was shocked and couldn't believe you would make such a decision. But now that I think about it, your courage and determination are indeed worthy of respect. Zhang Ming nodded, his eyes full of gratitude.
"I am grateful for your tolerance and understanding at the time. If it weren't for your tolerance, I'm afraid I'm still struggling in pain. Looking back now, those days were an important turning point for me, allowing me to rediscover myself and become more independent and stronger. ”
"That's great. I always want you to live a happy and fulfilling life. Xiaolong has also been missing you a lot, and he said that he hopes to have a good talk with you one day. ”
"Yes, that's great, and I miss him too. We must contact more so that I can also learn about Xiaolong's current situation. I said with relief.
"That's great. Let's go see Xiaolong together, I'm sure he'll be happy to meet you. ”
Hearing this, a warm current welled up in my heart. Zhang Ming and I went to visit Xiaolong together, and seeing that he had grown up, my heart was full of joy and emotion. The three of us chatted for a long time, looking back on that difficult experience and looking forward to the future together. I feel very happy that we have finally found our own happiness.
Reuniting with Zhang Ming and Xiaolong filled my heart with joy and emotion. The three of us chatted for a long time, looking back on that difficult experience and looking forward to the future together. I feel very happy that we have finally found our own happiness.
I've been trying to achieve self-fulfillment for years, but I still don't feel a sense of belonging. This reunion with Zhang Ming and Xiaolong made me realize that although my life has changed dramatically, I still have my own family and loved ones. Although we are no longer a complete family, the bond between us has never been broken.
During this conversation, I carefully recalled the process of divorce in the first place. Those were undoubtedly the hardest times of my life, but looking back now, I feel like those experiences were the stuff for my growth.
"When I made the decision to divorce, I was really miserable. I was afraid that I would become a failed woman, afraid of being discriminated against and ridiculed. But now it seems that that decision not only saved my marriage, but also allowed me to find my own path in life. I said to Zhang Ming sincerely.
"yes, I was shocked and couldn't believe you would make such a decision. But now that I think about it, your courage and determination are indeed worthy of respect. Know that not everyone can make such difficult choices like you. Zhang Ming nodded, his eyes full of gratitude.
"I am very grateful for your tolerance and understanding at that time. If it weren't for your tolerance, I'm afraid I'm still struggling in pain. Those days were an important turning point for me, allowing me to rediscover myself and become more independent and stronger. I say from the bottom of my heart.
"It's wonderful. I always want you to live a happy and fulfilling life. Xiaolong has also been missing you a lot, and he said that he hopes to have a good talk with you one day. Zhang Ming said gently.
Hearing this, I couldn't help but feel a warm current in my heart. Although I have been striving for self-fulfillment all these years, I still lack a sense of belonging in my heart. Now, I have finally found my own happiness.
We went to visit Xiaolong together, and seeing how he had grown up, my heart was filled with joy and emotion. The three of us chatted for a long time, reminiscing about that difficult experience and looking forward to the future together.
"Xiaolong, how are you doing now? I heard Zhang Ming say that you have grown up, you must be very good. I asked softly.
"Mom, I'm doing well, my work is going well, and my life is very fulfilling. I've been missing you and hope to have a good chat with you one day. Xiaolong said kindly.
"Yes, your mother has indeed gone through a lot of ups and downs over the years, but now she has found her happiness. Zhang Ming added on the side.
"I really appreciate that you were able to understand and accommodate my decision in the first place. Those days were an important turning point in my life and allowed me to find my own path in life. I'm doing well now, and I hope you can be happy too. I say it sincerely.
Hearing my words, Xiaolong's eyes couldn't help but moisten. He hugged me tightly, tears streaming down my shoulders. I felt the longing in his heart, and I also felt the lingering affection between us.
"Mom, I really miss you. I understand your decision and hope you are happy. As a family, we must contact more in the future and have a good chat. Xiaolong said in a choked voice.
The three of us hugged each other, and a sense of warmth and intimacy that we hadn't felt in a long time filled the space. I realized that while we were no longer a full family, the bond between us was never broken. We're still a family, we're the closest people to each other.
This reunion made me feel the meaning of life. Instead of dwelling on the mistakes of the past, I began to look to the future and cherish what I have now. I believe that Zhang Ming and I, as well as our children, will be able to find our own happiness together.
This reunion with Zhang Ming and Xiaolong filled my heart with warmth and hope. The three of us hugged each other, and the sense of intimacy that I hadn't felt for a long time made me feel the meaning of life.
Instead of dwelling on the mistakes of the past, I began to look to the future and cherish what I have now. I believe that Zhang Ming and I, as well as our children, will be able to find our own happiness together.
After leaving the party, I felt like a seed that had been dormant for a long time finally broke through the ground and began to bloom again under the sun. I am full of anticipation and yearning for the future, and I am determined to live a more exciting life.
I started thinking about my next steps. I've achieved a lot in my career, but I'm not satisfied with that, I want to keep working hard and strive for a higher position and a better income. In life, I also want to try some new things, travel, learn some art hobbies, and enrich my life.
I started by planning my career goals. With the experience and expertise I have gained over the years, I am determined to fight for a promotion within the company and become the next Vice President. To this end, I have formulated a detailed work plan, including improving my management skills, learning more professional skills, and actively seeking new development opportunities.
I found that these new attempts not only made my life more colorful, but also gave me a new way of thinking and attitude towards life. When I immerse myself in painting or traveling, my heart seems to become calmer and no longer bothered by the worries of work and life. I began to slowly learn to appreciate the little things in life and enjoy the good times in the moment.
Sometimes, I also think of Xiaolong and wonder how he is doing now. I will take the initiative to contact Zhang Ming to find out about Xiaolong's current situation. We will talk a lot about the past and also talk about the future development of Xiaolong. I've found that our relationship has become more rapid, and we're able to share our opinions and ideas openly and honestly.
"Xiaolong is living a fulfilling life in school now, and he likes the books and stationery that you and I have given him. He's been learning basketball lately, and he seems to have a lot of talent. Zhang Ming told me on the phone.
"That's great! I hope he can learn and live well. We must care more about him in the future, and give him support and help. I say from the bottom of my heart.
"You're right. Although we are no longer a complete family, we are still the most important people in Xiaolong. We must work together to make him grow up healthy and happy. Zhang Ming said seriously.
We had an in-depth discussion about the future of Xiaolong and also talked about our own living situation. During these exchanges, I felt Zhang Ming's sincerity and friendship, as well as the closeness that was rebuilt between us. We are no longer the same-for-tat as we were back then, but we have truly become close friends with each other.
I also shared my recent life and plans with Zhang Ming. I told him that I was working hard for a promotion while also learning new skills to enrich my life.
"That's great! I'm so happy for you. It must have been hard for you all these years, but I'm glad to see that you're now out of the gloom and embracing a new life. Zhang Ming said sincerely.
"Yes, if it weren't for your understanding and tolerance, I might still be struggling now. I would like to thank you from the bottom of my heart, and thank you for your continued care for me and Xiaolong. I said gratefully.
"You're welcome, it's all as it should be. We are a family and it is natural to support each other. I believe that as long as we work together, we will be able to create a better future. Zhang Ming said firmly.
Hearing his words, I felt a warmth in my heart. Although we are no longer husband and wife, we have rebuilt a strong bond of kinship. We will always be each other's closest people, witnessing and participating in each other's lives.