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Maybe you will feel that the relationship with your in-laws is good, in fact, it is a good thing, if you need help at home, you can find your in-laws, and if you have difficulties, you can also find your in-laws.
The so-called pro-plus pro-pro has always been convinced.
But don't forget one thing, after the children get married, they form a new family, have their own life, have their own world.
The relationship between the in-laws is good, if they are close, they can take care of each other, but if they are not close, they have to get together for three days, which is actually quite tiring.
In addition, everyone longs for their own private space, where they can enjoy their own time quietly.
Do not chat with your in-laws and talk about the following three sentences, do not be sure of your son-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't talk about your in-laws' family affairs, and don't interfere in the life of your son-in-law and daughter-in-law.
No matter how good the relationship with your in-laws is, if you don't say these three words, your children will be happier, don't believe it.
1. If you have an opinion about your son-in-law and daughter-in-law, don't say it in front of your in-laws.
No matter how good the relationship with your in-laws is, don't count his children in front of your in-laws.
Children are the pride of their parents, and children are the hearts of parents, in fact, no one wants others to blame their children, let alone their in-laws.
No matter how many opinions you have in your heart, don't be stupid to say it in front of your in-laws.
One is to embarrass the in-laws, feel that they have not raised their children well, feel very defeated, and have a disgraceful face.
One is also saying that he is not, if it is such a son-in-law, then why should your daughter marry him?
In fact, to put it bluntly, it is counting the other party's children, in fact, it is counting your own children.
After the child becomes a family, he is a grasshopper on a rope and a person on a boat.
Say more good things about your child, so that your child will be close to you, so that your in-laws will have a light on your face, and you will also have a light on your own face.
Of course, in this way, the children's life path will be smoother, and the children's married life will be happier if they accumulate more virtue.
Second, the family affairs of the in-laws, if you can help, you will help, and if you can't help, you will not add to the chaos.
Don't feel that the relationship with your in-laws is good, some favors can't help, and they add to the chaos.
Don't say anything more if you're discouraged, and it's useless to say too much.
It will only make the in-laws more and more preoccupied, make the in-laws more and more sad, and there will be problems with each other.
Let him handle the family affairs of his in-laws, and if the other party needs our help, he will naturally bring it up to us.
If the other party doesn't need our help, then he must have other plans in mind, and we should do our best and not help or make trouble.
In this way, it is actually to ease the relationship between the in-laws.
Children will not be embarrassed when they are caught in the middle, but live happily.
In fact, the purpose of being together is to make the children's lives better and happier, and each other's original intentions are the same.
Don't forget the original intention, you have to always.
Don't talk about the family affairs of your in-laws, know how to understand, and empathize, in fact, you are working for the benefit of your children.
3. Facing the life of the children in the face of the in-laws, pointing fingers.
I have a good relationship with my in-laws, so do you often get together and dictate your children's lives?
Always meddle in the lives of their children.
In fact, as a parent, there are more or less shortcomings, as parents, they want their children to be able to live happily and live happily.
You have your own freedom, you can eat what you want, you can buy what you want, and you have your own choice.
If you are stupid to restrict your children at this time, if you don't do this or that, you will often put yourself in a bad situation.
As a parent, when you see so many things going on in your in-laws, you often feel sad for your children, and you often feel unworthy for your children.
When you are in your own home, you are the most beloved and feel that everything is right, but after you marry your children, you are not recognized.
Slowly have opinions about your children, which is not conducive to the happiness of your children at all.
Conclusion: All in all, if you have an opinion on your daughter-in-law and son-in-law, don't say it in front of your in-laws, don't talk about your in-laws' family affairs, and don't interfere in the lives of your daughter-in-law and son-in-law.
In fact, to put it bluntly, no matter how good the relationship with your in-laws is, you must also know how to be measured, and you must also know how to have a bottom line and principles.
Don't be open-mouthed just because you have a good relationship, so you can completely ignore the feelings of others.
It's all about the happiness of their children, but what parent doesn't think so?
Say more and do more things that are good for your children, and say less and do less things that are not good for your children.
In fact, as a parent, you can only accompany your children for a ride, and you must leave some good memories for your children.
In-laws, in-laws, in-laws, courtesy to each other, do not forget the courtesy, do not transgress the rules, the children are happier, and they are all happy.
May all parents in the world be safe and happy!
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