Ever since Chen Hao handed over his salary to his mother-in-law to manage, Lin Xiaoqi has felt like a marginalized outsider. She is busy every day, taking care of the children, taking care of the house, and arranging the family's expenses carefully. But her mother-in-law always took Chen Hao's salary and made irresponsible remarks, as if she was the mistress of this family. Lin Xiaoqi felt aggrieved, but she didn't dare to say it clearly, so she could only endure it silently.
On this day, Lin Xiaoqi saw a new children's nutrition product in the supermarket, and she thought to herself that the child needed to supplement nutrition when she was growing up. But when she picked up the bottle of supplements, looked at the price, and silently put it back. She calculated the family's expenses, and there was really no extra money to buy these "luxuries".
On the way home, Lin Xiaoqi's mood was extremely heavy. She remembered Chen Hao's excitement when he got his salary every month, but the money was never hot in her hands. She feels like a spinning top, spinning every day, but she can never turn out of the family's predicament.
Lin Xiaoqi knew that she couldn't go on like this. She had to find a way to change the situation and fight for a better future for herself and her children. But what should she do? Lin Xiaoqi pondered in her heart, and a bold plan slowly took shape in her mind.
Lin Xiaoqi decided to find a time to have a good talk with Chen Hao. She knew that this matter could not be delayed, and the more it was delayed, the bigger the problem. So, she picked a weekend night, and after the child fell asleep, she pulled Chen Hao to the living room.
Chen Hao looked at Lin Xiaoqi's serious face, and sighed in his heart, couldn't something be wrong? He sat down and asked softly, "Xiaoqi, what's wrong?" I see that your face is not very good. ”
Lin Xiaoqi took a deep breath and said straight to the point: "Chen Hao, I want to talk to you about salary." ”
When Chen Hao heard this, he suddenly understood a little in his heart. He touched his nose and said with some embarrassment: "I know this makes you feel uncomfortable, but I also want to be filial to my mother......"
"I know your filial piety, but we also have to plan for ourselves. Lin Xiaoqi interrupted Chen Hao's words, she didn't want to listen to those excuses, "You see, our mortgage hasn't been paid off yet, and our children's education also needs money, plus daily expenses, my salary is not enough at all." ”
Chen Hao sighed, he knew that Lin Xiaoqi was telling the truth. He thought for a moment and said, "Then you mean that we separate the salaries?"
"Yes, we can work together to create a family budget and plan our expenses for each month. Lin Xiaoqi said, took out a piece of paper and pen, and began to list the expenses in detail.
Chen Hao watched Lin Xiaoqi seriously plan the future of the family, and felt both moved and guilty. He knew that his previous approach was indeed a little inappropriate, and he didn't take Lin Xiaoqi's feelings into account. He held Lin Xiaoqi's hand and said firmly: "Xiaoqi, you are right, we should plan for our future. I'll talk to my mom about it. ”
In the next few days, Chen Hao found his mother-in-law and expressed his thoughts frankly. After hearing this, the mother-in-law was a little disappointed, but she also understood their decision. She said she would respect their choice and promised to help them in their time of need.
And Lin Xiaoqi also began to plan the family's finances. She learned about financial literacy, created a detailed budget, and found a part-time job in hopes of adding some extra income to her family. She found that she could be so strong and independent.
During this time, Lin Xiaoqi and Chen Hao's relationship has also become deeper. They face the difficulties of the family together, plan the future together, and work hard for the growth of their children together. They know that as long as their hearts are thinking in one place and working hard in one place, this family will get better and better.
Lin Xiaoqi and Chen Hao sat on the sofa in the living room, their expressions very serious. Chen Hao's hands were clenched together, as if he was looking for some kind of strength, while Lin Xiaoqi's eyes were firm, as if he had made a decision.
"Chen Hao, I know it's hard for you to speak, but we have to talk about this matter. Lin Xiaoqi was the first to break the silence, her voice soft but full of determination.
Chen Hao took a deep breath and nodded, "I know, Xiaoqi." Actually, I've thought about this too, but it's just ...... I never found the right opportunity to say. ”
"There's never been a better time to do that. Lin Xiaoqi looked directly into Chen Hao's eyes, and her tone revealed a trace of undoubted firmness, "We can't go on like this forever, we have to plan for our future." ”
Chen Hao was silent for a moment, and then slowly spoke: "I know you're right. But my mom she...... She may not be very receptive. ”
"We can try to communicate with her and make her understand what we are thinking. Lin Xiaoqi suggested, "After all, this is our home, our future, and we have the right to decide how to manage it." ”
Chen Hao nodded, he knew that Lin Xiaoqi had a point. He stood up, walked to the window, and looked at the night sky outside the window, his heart full of mixed emotions. He knows that this conversation may change the status quo of their family, but he also believes that it is for their better future.
"Okay, I'll go talk to my mom. Chen Hao turned around and looked at Lin Xiaoqi, his eyes flashing with determination, "Thank you, Xiaoqi." Thank you for your continued support and understanding. ”
Lin Xiaoqi smiled, she knew that her persistence was not in vain. She stood up, walked to Chen Hao's side, and gently shook his hand, "Let's work together, for our family, for our future." ”
The next night, Chen Hao plucked up the courage to find his mother-in-law. He sat down next to his mother-in-law, took a deep breath, and then began a difficult conversation. He expressed his thoughts frankly and hoped that his mother-in-law would understand their decision. The mother-in-law listened to Chen Hao's words, her expression changed from surprise to understanding, and finally turned into a deep sigh.
"I see, kid. The mother-in-law patted Chen Hao's hand gently, "You are all sensible children, I know you are doing this for the good of this family." I will respect your decision and will do my best to help you. ”
Chen Hao listened to his mother-in-law's words, and a warm current surged in his heart. He knew that this home, because of their joint efforts and understanding, would be even better.
And Lin Xiaoqi also felt unprecedented ease and joy at this moment. She knew that her "silent resistance" had finally succeeded. She and Chen Hao will work together to face the challenges of the future and create their own happiness.
As the days passed, Lin Xiaoqi and Chen Hao's family life gradually got on the right track. They began to manage the family finances together, creating a detailed budget each month and sticking to it. The mother-in-law also slowly accepted their decision, and occasionally gave them some advice on life.
One evening, the family sat around the dining table and enjoyed a rare time together. Lin Xiaoqi looked at the table full of food and said with emotion: "Life is really getting more and more flavorful now. ”
Chen Hao smiled and nodded: "Yes, thanks to your persistence and hard work." ”
The mother-in-law also smiled and said, "You two are really becoming more and more like a real couple, knowing how to understand and support each other." ”
Lin Xiaoqi listened, and her heart was warm. She knows that as long as the family works together, the future will definitely get better and better. She picked up her wine glass and said to Chen Hao and her mother-in-law: "Come, let's toast together, for our family, for our future!"
With the gentle collision of wine glasses, the laughter and blessings of the family echoed in the room, warm and happy.