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Text: Zhi'an
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"This family can't have one more sick number!"
Because of the sentence "I hold the whole scene" became popular all over the Internet, she was nicknamed "Hold Sister" by netizens.
and quickly got out of the circle because of the crazy image in the movie "Little Times".
However, what everyone didn't expect was that the person who has always brought happiness to the audience "disappeared" for three years without saying a word.
On the surface, he is grinning and smiling, and his emotional value is full.
In private, he is the "pillar" of the whole family, supporting a piece of the family.
The husband's muscles are weak and the mother's mental disorder is abnormal, and the monthly living expenses dare not exceed 2,500 yuan.
A series of blows in life made Xie Yilin dare not get sick.
What did Xie Yilin go through? It made a celebrity embarrassed because of money.
"The world kisses me with pain"
In 1990, Xie Yilin was born in an inconspicuous ordinary family in Taiwan.
But after seeing the family situation, she felt that God seemed to be a little "harsh" to her.
In a variety show, Xie Yilin smiled at the camera and told his brave "deeds" as a child.
"Since I was a child, I have developed the kung fu of taking on a white blade with one hand empty-handed. ”
But if you continue to listen, you will know that behind such empty-handed white blades is endless panic.
Her seemingly relaxed language is actually telling her helplessness.
If the family is just a family economic situation, forget it, and as a result, she also has a mother with mental illness.
This undoubtedly made it even more difficult for her family.
In the face of a mental patient, Xie Yilin has never been innocent of a little girl since she was a child.
In addition to taking care of the mother's emotions, it is also necessary to find ways to "escape".
Just because her mother is often swayed by emotions, bipolar disorder and depression make it impossible for her to distinguish whether she is close to people around her.
For Xie Yilin, how to dodge the knife in her mother's hand is a "compulsory course" in her life.
According to her recollection, her mother would often slash her father with a knife, and even swing the knife at her if she met her.
Perhaps because of the mental pressure, her mother even tried many ways to try to end her life.
On one occasion, her mother lit charcoal while everyone was not looking.
If they hadn't found out in time, I'm afraid their family would have lived in pain forever.
When the mother was sober, she would say to Xie Yilin: "I hope my child will always be happy." ”
But in the face of such a childhood, it is really difficult for Xie Yilin to be happy.
Fortunately, Xie Yilin has always been accompanied by someone.
This person is his friend Green who has known him for 15 years.
In 2018, Xie Yilin announced his marriage on social platforms without warning on his birthday.
And with the text: "I'm married, congratulations and bless me!"
Through the screen, you can feel Xie Yilin's happiness that is difficult to hide.
However, just when Xie Yilin was immersed in the joy of marriage, an inspection report fell on her head like a thunderbolt from the blue.
Her husband, Green, was suffering from severe muscle weakness.
起初只是因为眼皮耷拉着，无精打采。
Later, it has evolved into not being able to breathe on its own.
At this time, she had just given birth to her second child, and thought that everything was going in a good direction.
Even if I take care of the children myself, I am very happy to take care of my mother at the same time.
But now her husband's diagnosis has made her whole body collapse.
After calming down, Xie Yilin had to say goodbye to his career for a short time and concentrate on taking care of his family.
A thin shoulder supported the burden of the family in this way.
Without financial resources, Xie Yilin had to try to save money on himself.
The family's monthly living expenses do not dare to exceed 2,500 yuan.
She didn't dare to have a little love for beauty, and even her underwear only had two sets of clothes to change back and forth.
Under such high-intensity pressure, Xie Yilin's tense nerves suddenly collapsed.
One day, she suddenly found that her spirit had begun to blur.
After the examination, I found out that I was also suffering from depression.
But when she learned about her condition, her first reaction was not how to treat the disease.
Instead, I subconsciously thought, "I can't add another sick number to my family." ”
Fortunately, after the husband's condition went through surgery and recurrent seizures.
Finally, it reached a stable state last year through drug control.
God played such a big joke on Xie Yilin, but Xie Yilin never gave up hope.
Even if the world gives her all pain, she can give back with kindness and seriousness.
"But I Repay It with a Song"
In November 2018, Xie Yilin gave birth to her first child after marriage.
Originally, celebrities getting married and having children have become sparse and commonplace, but Xie Yilin broke the convention.
She bravely tried and chose to give birth in water.
At that time, the technique of water birth still needed to be improved, and it was undoubtedly an unknown challenge.
With adequate preparation and the help of doctors, Xie Yilin successfully gave birth to a daughter.
When she heard her child's first cry, she felt that she was the happiest woman in the world.
In March 2020, Xie Yilin also welcomed his second child.
If it weren't for her husband's diagnosis later, Xie Yilin would probably have been happy forever.
Unhappy childhood, stressful middle age.
No matter how heavy the burden Xie Yilin has, she will not bring negative emotions to the audience.
In 2011, Xie Yilin was in his debut variety show "College Students".
Through extremely exaggerated styling and makeup, with humorous and witty language, the happiness is conveyed to every audience.
At that time, she didn't feel any idol baggage, she just felt that she was happy.
also because of the sentence "I hold the whole scene", she is affectionately called "Hold Sister" by the audience.
After coming to the mainland to develop, Xie Yilin went further and further on the road of comedian.
I don't know how many viewers stay in front of the TV every day, just to watch her cross talk program "Tonight's Post-80s Say Cross Talk".
At that time, although it was not a hit, it was constantly outputting happiness for the audience.
In 2013, Xie Yilin's wonderful performance in "Little Times" finally made everyone remember her name.
Although the character design is a bit exaggerated, I am afraid that I can't really play that effect if I change my interpretation.
When the movie was broadcast at that time, many netizens ridiculed Xie Yilin's appearance.
In the end, it all reached Xie Yilin, and she just laughed it off.
Even if he is limited by his appearance, Xie Yilin has never given up on himself.
On the contrary, it is like a strong grass, which grows vigorously at the slightest opportunity.
Even if he experienced so many ups and downs along the way, he did not hesitate to "disappear" for three years for the sake of his family.
When it reappeared, it was still full of enthusiasm.
In 2023, after her husband's condition stabilized, Xie Yilin also gradually resumed her work.
Under the leadership of her good friend Yang Mi, she also participated in the recording of the variety show "Escape Room".
Although she is full of smiles when she faces the camera, who can know the bitterness behind her.
In this show, she is delicate, gentle and patient.
During the interview, he also thanked Yang Mi more than once, and did not hide his gratitude at all.
On March 8 this year, Xie Yilin also participated in the popular variety show "All Acceleration".
In the show, she contracted almost all the laughs, shaking off the burden one after another.
In addition to being conscientious and responsible for her work, she also takes extra care of her juniors, and her jokes are also very modest.
When the show was about to be broadcast, Xie Yilin also joked: "The hunter has to train hard, and he can't catch up with me." ”
It can be seen from her tone that her mental state has gradually developed for the better.
All the suffering of the past will eventually pass.
Now she is still the pillar of the family, but she also has her own life.
In her spare time, she will try to take her mother out to see and fight the disease with her love.
epilogue
Xie Yilin's life is very suitable to be described in one sentence.
"The world kisses me with pain, but I repay it with a song. ”
In the face of the past suffering, Xie Yilin can always smile and talk about them.
As she said, "It may be annoying to be alive, but to be alive is to be lucky." ”