When people reach middle age, when they meet these kinds of people, they don't want to contact them anymore, so that they won't consume themselves
When people reach middle age, they have a trip to the mountains and a trip to the water, facing the wind and the rain, and have walked one journey after another; right and wrong, wrong and wrong, right and right, have experienced wave after wave; they have a deep understanding of the taste of meeting and parting, and they have a deep understanding of the warmth and coldness of human feelings.
At this stage, when the acquaintance reaches middle age, these kinds of people should not be contacted again, so as not to consume themselves, and they should be more cautious.
Because of you, who are middle-aged, time and energy are extremely precious.
Carefully polish a piece of text to let you know that the following kinds of people should not be contacted again.
One, consume your people
The people who consume you, like greedy leeches, mercilessly suck your time, your energy and emotions, making you extremely tired, like a flower that has been drained of its vitality, gradually withering.
Xiao Li has a friend who never seems to have anything of his own to do.
Whenever Xiao Li focuses on work, messages from friends keep coming like snowflakes.
The content is either inconsequential chit-chatter or questions that don't need to be answered right away.
At first, Xiao Li would try his best to reply, but it also affected his work efficiency, causing him to have to work overtime often. In the long run, Xiao Li felt exhausted, and the quality of work and life both declined. Later, I realized that this kind of relationship, this way of connection, is not real friendship, but self-consumption, so he chose not to reply in seconds, but only in his free time.
Two, it's those who look down on you.
The eyes of those who look down on you are full of contempt, just like a cold and piercing sword, mercilessly stabbing at your self-esteem and making your heart ache.
Xiao Zhang meets an old classmate at a party. At first, Xiao Zhang was also excited about this reunion. When he talked to his old classmates, he felt the contempt and disdain in the other party's eyes, and even showed obvious disdain for his work and life, and his words were full of sarcasm and ridicule. This made Xiao Zhang's heart feel like falling into an ice cellar, painful, and the originally pleasant party atmosphere disappeared without a trace.
Three, those who only reap and are unwilling to give.
Among those who only reap and are unwilling to give, they are the embodiment of Pixiu, who only know how to take greedily, but have no willingness to give.
Xiao Wang and his friends participate in a project together. In the process of cooperation, the performance of friends disappointed Xiao Wang. Whenever he has to put in the effort for his work, his friends always look for all kinds of excuses to shirk it, and when the project comes to fruition, he actively wants to share the credit.
Xiao Wang felt that his efforts had not been properly recognized, and his heart was full of grievances and dissatisfaction.
Fourth, those who only win and do not lose!
Those who are calculating and only winning and not losing, their hearts are like a narrow funnel, and everything has to be carefully calculated, which makes people feel more narrow and boring.
Xiao Zhao has a colleague who is extremely concerned about "gains and losses" at work. Whether it is the assignment of tasks or the attribution of credit, he must calculate it clearly and never suffer a loss.
This overly calculating attitude made the atmosphere of the whole team tense and depressing, and everyone complained or disgusted with his behavior.
Five, and the person who is in front of one and behind the other!
Those who do one thing in front of them and one thing behind their backs, like chameleons, are unpredictable and unpredictable, and they are always worried that they will be betrayed.
Xiao Liu has a close relationship with a friend on weekdays, and he regards the other party as a confidant.
However, by chance, Xiao Liu found out that this friend said bad things about him in front of others and used his privacy as a talking point. This discovery shocked and disappointed Xiao Liu, he never thought that his friends would hurt him like this behind his back.
Middle-aged people's lives are already very busy, and there is really no need to entangle with these people.
We should cherish those who truly care for and support us, and spend the good times of our lives with them.
In this complex world, we need to learn to protect ourselves from those who may cause us harm. Spend time with people who are truly worth associating, share each other's joys, sorrows, and sorrows, and face the ups and downs and challenges of life together.
I hope that each of us can stick to the principles of our hearts, feel the people around us with our hearts, and draw our own beautiful picture of life.
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