Text/Xia Mo
01, frontispiece
Most people in life wear a mask and don't show their true heart easily.
Some men, on the surface, show favor to you, solve problems for you, and give you praise, not entirely sincerely, but with dark purposes.
When a woman gets along with a married man, she must know how to maintain boundaries and be wary of men approaching him with bad intentions.
Married men like to take these women as the target of extramarital "love", don't take the bait easily.
02, the woman who is ambiguous with him
If you can't get along with a married man, if you can't grasp the right proportions, it is easy to have ambiguity and become a dangerous game.
A man will regard the woman he is having an affair with as an extramarital target to satisfy his desire to indulge.
He thinks from the bottom of his heart that the woman who takes the initiative is very casual and does not need him to be responsible.
From the beginning of the woman's ambiguity with him, he will intentionally or unintentionally test the woman's bottom line and test her attitude towards feelings.
If a woman knows that a man has a family and has not kept her distance from him, but continues to make ambiguous jokes, the man will be more sure of his judgment.
He will feel that a woman who takes the initiative like this only needs a little simple means to develop a relationship with her and get the freshness he wants.
He does not hesitate to abandon a woman when he is tired of it, or when a woman may threaten his marriage and interests.
Moreover, there will be no guilt in my heart, and there will be no trace of uneasiness.
A man will not treat the woman who is ambiguous with him with his sincerity, he just wants to treat her as the goal of extramarital love, and after satisfying his inner desire to conquer, he will leave resolutely.
03. A woman in urgent need of help
Song Siming in "Snail House" has a family, and he relied on his father-in-law's connections to sit in his current position, but his heart began to become restless.
After seeing Guo Haizao, he couldn't let go of her.
Later, he tried every means to find an opportunity to get in touch with her, give her gifts, and gain favor.
Later, Guo Haizao's sister was still 60,000 yuan short of buying a house, and he didn't say a word after knowing it, so he gave her this money.
And his purpose is also obvious, to let Seaweed be his lover outside of marriage.
He used his financial strength to help Seaweed solve the problem, and in this way, in exchange for her trust, she gave up her bottom line and became a canary in captivity by him.
When a woman is in dire need of help, she has a weakness and is easily taken advantage of by married men.
Men will help women, exchange favors for women's trust, and let women fall little by little.
Married men will also constantly weigh and calculate when choosing extramarital goals. If you give a woman proper help, you can get her sincerity, and he thinks it's a good deal.
In the name of love, he will not give women sincerity, but satisfy his greed and make up for the emptiness in his heart.
04, a woman alone in a foreign land
There is a rented girl Zhao Qi in our community, who works alone in a big city thousands of miles away from home.
She didn't have any friends around her, and she often felt lonely and depressed.
A man from another department in the company would often order her afternoon tea. Seeing her working overtime alone, he would stay and chat with her.
The man knew that the house she rented was far away from the company, and he would find an excuse to drop her home every day when he got off work.
With him by her side, Zhao Qi felt that the days of working alone were not so bitter.
The two often talk and eat together, and she will take the initiative to discuss with a man when she encounters anything.
The contact between the two became more and more frequent, and the rumors in the company also reached Zhao Qi's ears, and she knew that a man was a person with a family, and she was not the first ambiguous object of a man.
A woman, working alone in a foreign land, carrying huge pressure and loneliness, will be fragile and easily impressed.
A married man will regard such a woman as the target of extramarital love, and knock on the door of her heart with care and help.
A woman who is alone in a foreign land will often feel lonely and feel that there is no one to rely on.
Therefore, it is easy to get lost in the courtship and companionship of a married man, and thus fall into an immoral relationship.
05. Summary
Mr. Yang Jiang said: "Don't touch a married woman, she is a man's face, don't touch a married man, he is a woman's life for the rest of her life." ”
No matter how good a married man is and how much he shows affection for you, don't ignore the boundaries between them.
When he vacillates outside of marriage, he is destined not to give his heart to anyone, and he will not be truly responsible for women.
Women should stay away from married men, don't give up their bottom line, and don't let themselves be hurt.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the whole network, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotion, sexes, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.