Zhao Benshan, this master in the comedy world!
If you carefully trace his family life, you will find that his life was actually full of twists and turns, full of bitterness and helplessness.
Zhao Benshan's two marriages and four children are ridiculous like an absurd drama. Have you ever wondered why a person who is regarded as a "lucky person" would fall into such a quagmire of family conflicts?
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What did Zhao Benshan experience that shattered his love life with his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen? And how will the pair of dragon and phoenix fetal daughters born to his current wife Ma Lijuan inherit Zhao Benshan's billions of family properties?
In fact, the first half of Zhao Benshan's life was bumpy. Born in a poor rural family, he has had to work outside the home to earn a living since he was a child. At the age of 17, in order to make a living, he had to work part-time and study carpentry in school.
Later, he resolutely gave up the path of a craftsman and turned to the performance career of cross talk sketches. However, the beginning stage was not smooth, and he was once reduced to a street artist and a poor scholar.
In this difficult environment, Zhao Benshan married Ge Shuzhen, who was also from a poor family. The two started a life of dependence on each other together. Due to his poor family background, Zhao Benshan had to travel outside for a long time, performing for his wife and children and making money to support his family. Ge Shuzhen silently took care of the housework at home and took care of the two children.
In this way, the couple spent several years in hardship. But I never expected that there would be unforeseen circumstances in the sky, and people would have good and bad luck. In 1982, the second son Zhao Tiedan was born with a variety of congenital diseases, not only deaf and dumb, but also heart disease, emphysema, etc. This bad news was like a blow to the head, which woke up the poor couple.
"Oh my God, we are so hard, why are our children so sick?" Ge Shuzhen cried bitterly, and Zhao Benshan was also sad and indignant. The doctors advised them to give up treatment, but the two insisted on saving the poor child. As a result, Zhao Benshan sweated even more desperately and performed tirelessly everywhere, just to raise money for his son's treatment.
Whenever there is money to be made, Zhao Benshan will send the money home as soon as possible. And Ge Shuzhen also took on the responsibility of taking care of the child, staying in front of the hospital bed day and night, looking at the thin body, praying for a miracle to come. But fate makes people, just 12 years later, Zhao Tiedan still can't resist the illness and leaves this world.
Zhao Benshan was very sad, but there was no other way. And in this year, he met his second wife, Ma Lijuan. Since then, the relationship between the two has been like a crazy horse, rushing towards the abyss of cheating and divorce. Finally in 1994, Zhao Benshan and Ge Shuzhen divorced by agreement, and Ma Lijuan became his new wife.
In this way, the marriage between Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife Ge Shuzhen came to a complete end. If you want to talk about heartache, Ge Shuzhen naturally has a deep understanding. She raised her two children alone, but fortunately, her eldest daughter Zhao Yufang was very sensible. And Zhao Benshan embarked on a new life path, and soon had a dragon and phoenix fetus with Ma Lijuan.
Once the wind and clouds rose, ten thousand trees hit its cover. With the take-off of Zhao Benshan's career, the children born to him and Ma Lijuan have gradually stepped into the spotlight. Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan are undoubtedly children who grew up in the palm of their hands, and their parents' doting is tantamount to adding insult to injury, fueling their arrogance.
Especially Zhao Yinan, he belongs to a typical "rich second generation". He relied on his father's hard-earned money and lived a drunken life. has been exposed by the media, his monthly living expenses are as high as one million, and his savings are hundreds of millions. Some netizens complained about him: I bought a pipe made of pure gold worth more than 20 million, and the shipping cost of a pet dog alone cost more than 600,000 yuan!
Zhao Yinan turned a deaf ear to his father's teachings, he didn't want to forge ahead, and he was idle all day long, for fear of suffering. once opened a gym, and when the business was cold, he invited someone to "pretend" as a customer, so he made mistakes again and again, and finally lost more than one billion yuan in entrepreneurial funds given by his father. In the face of such a loser son, Zhao Benshan was also helpless.
As for Zhao Yihan's little daughter, her style is really not much better. After she went abroad to study, she spent all day idle, and she didn't make any progress in her studies. After returning to China, he entered the live broadcast industry, and like his brother, he loves to show off his wealth, and he has famous bags and luxury goods at hand. Once, during the live broadcast, he also took out a luxury car worth tens of millions to show the audience.
Facing the audience's doubts, Zhao Yihan was straightforward and said unashamedly: "I am the child of a rich family, my father loves me very much, are you jealous?" Seeing such arrogant and arrogant behavior, netizens all denounced her as an uneducated "rich second generation".
Seeing that these two sisters are becoming more and more lawless, netizens can't help but slander: These two "young masters" rely on their parents' money to be arrogant and lascivious, and they are really noble sons from poor families and rich and ruined families! No wonder there is an old saying that "the children and grandchildren of the poor seek more survival, but the rich clans have few hearts."
Zhao Benshan was self-made back then, and he relied on his own artistic creativity to achieve today's achievements. However, today's arrogant children make people wonder if they will cherish their father's legacy and inherit his career?
Zhao Benshan's life can be described as earning both yin and yang. On the one hand, he was artistically successful and became a leading figure in the world of comedy; On the other hand, his family life was quite difficult, first his son died of a serious illness, and then the children of his current wife were arrogant and lascivious.
Looking at Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan's extravagant style of life, people can't help but sigh: Can money make people want to move? Of course, money can give people comfort, but being too arrogant and lascivious can also make people degenerate. When Zhao Benshan worked hard to start a business, was it just to let his children be such a loser?
Heaven has blessed man, and man should be self-respecting and self-disciplined. At Zhao Benshan's age, he naturally doesn't want to see his children's playthings lose his mind. But after all, he can't control the lives of his children, so he can only leave them to fend for themselves. It is a cruel fact that wealthy families often decay in the hands of their children and grandchildren.
To a certain extent, Zhao Yufang, the eldest daughter born to Zhao Benshan and his ex-wife, is more outstanding and stable. She has been sensible since she was a child, worked diligently, and supported her mother and herself on her own. In the end, with his own efforts, he was admitted to the public security establishment and married his beloved. Along the way, although he lived a lonely life, he was never burdened by money and power.
Thinking about it, Zhao Benshan also admires and loves this daughter very much. It's a pity that the family conflict back then made Zhao Yufang drift away from his father since he was a child, how much regret does he have about this? But even so, Zhao Yufang is obviously more qualified to inherit Zhao Benshan's family property and career than the pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses.
After all, real blood is more valuable than money. Although Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan are favored by their parents, they only know how to save their family wealth and have never done their part for their father's career. In contrast, although Zhao Yufang came from a humble background, she has noble morals and can bear hardships and stand hard work, which is more in line with Zhao Benshan's original intention of "starting from scratch".
If Zhao Benshan really wants to inherit his comedy career, maybe Zhao Yufang is the best candidate? She retains Zhao Benshan's simple family background, and has a down-to-earth life experience, which will definitely win the audience's approval.
However, judging from the current situation, Zhao Benshan is still more partial to his pair of dragon and phoenix children. After all, in order to give the two of them a good education, he spent a lot of money and used hundreds of millions of funds for them to study. It seems that Zhao Benshan loves and hates these two children in his heart, loves their innocent and lively side, but hates their arrogant and lascivious style.
Such ambivalence is destined to make it difficult for Zhao Benshan to find a way out of his children. Even the distribution of hundreds of millions of family assets will make him feel a dilemma. If it is inherited by Zhao Yufang, I am afraid that she will not be able to control it; If it is inherited by Zhao Yinan and Zhao Yihan, they are worried that they will ruin the family business.
This is like a seemingly optimistic and positive person, but his heart is tormented by contradictions. On the surface, Zhao Benshan is a successful person and is highly respected; In private, he is a heartbroken father, watching his children lose, but he can't do anything about it.
The meaning of life lies not only in how much achievements have been made, but also in how to adjust the various states of life. Zhao Benshan can become a master of comedy, of course, at a great price. However, as a father, he does not seem to have stepped out of the dark side of life. Is this the so-called "comedy crying"?
Therefore, it is not difficult for us to understand why Zhao Benshan always has that exaggerated comedy image on the Spring Festival Gala and TV. It turned out that it was just a role for him to make a living on the stage, covering up his inner troubles and sorrows. And what the audience saw was just Zhao Benshan's superb acting skills on stage.
Life is like this, full of irony and helplessness. Money status is important, but it is more important to face the hardships of life with wisdom and courage.
So, have you ever been troubled by your children's behavior?
How do you cope?