Text: Han Shi's words
Edited by Han Shi's words
Preface
"Sister is not in the rivers and lakes, but there has always been a legend of the sister in the rivers and lakes"
Anita Mui really interprets this sentence perfectly.
On the road of music, she went smoothly;
The road of an actor, she has made steady progress;
On the road of feelings, she mistakenly loves a scumbag, and she takes a wrong step;
21 years after her death, she is still the "cinnabar mole" in the hearts of fans.
How popular was she back then?
For many people now, although it is a thing of the past, she is still a legend.
But everyone has seen the scenery in front of her, but few people know the sadness behind her.
On December 30, 2003, Anita Mui died of cervical cancer, and that goodbye became never seen again!
At that time, everyone at the funeral was very sad and sad, and her mother was not only very calm at the funeral, but even a little happy.
Because she inherited a small part of Anita Mui's inheritance, but this so-called small part is as high as 184 million yuan.
But she should be the saddest mother when she is supposed to be, but she only cares about the inheritance she gets.
even filed a lawsuit because of dissatisfaction with the distribution of the estate, and after years of disputes, the Hong Kong court finally insisted on the legality of Anita Mui's will.
Such a result caused Anita Mui's mother to be strongly dissatisfied, and even made a big fuss with Anita Mui's brother.
This mother really sucked the last drop of blood from her only daughter!
In an early video, Anita Mui said: "The period from what age to teenagers can be called purgatory on earth!"
At the age of 4, he had to perform on stage to make money, and when he went home, he had to be abused by his stepfather without complaint!
She was also called a "little monster" at school, and no one wanted to play with her.
Every time she recalls her childhood, Anita Mui feels very sad!
And this tragic experience finally came to an end in 1982!
Anita Mui won the first rookie competition with "The Season of the Wind", and every update she has made since then will lead the Hong Kong craze.
and her subsequent 28 concerts and 5 consecutive years of the most popular female singer and other achievements, which made her quickly become a new generation of divas.
What everyone can't imagine is that the emotional road of this superstar, who shows his beauty on the stage and fascinates thousands of fans, is extremely bumpy!
Until the last moment of her life, no one fulfilled her wish to get married at the age of 28!
But Zeng Zhiwei said that Anita Mui was too attentive, so she couldn't get married!
After all, there are indeed many relationships that she has publicly admitted or been reported by the media, which can be said to be seamless.
had a relationship with Miao Qiaowei in 1984, but later broke up for various reasons, and the outside world speculated at the time that the relationship ended because of Qi Meizhen's intervention.
A year after breaking up with Miao Qiaowei, Anita Mui and Zou Shilong fell in love, and their relationship went through several twists and turns, and there was news of a reunion, but in the end it failed to achieve a positive result.
In the same year after the breakup, as a well-known Japanese artist, Masahiko Kondo became Anita Mui's boyfriend.
And Kondo Masahiko is a scumbag who is spurned whenever he is mentioned by netizens, and he also provoked Anita Mui during his relationship with Akina Nakamori.
And Anita Mui was deceived by his rhetoric and lost her mind, and she was willing to become his "little three".
And went to Japan many times to take care of him, but I got a sentence that I can still take good care of myself if you leave, but Akina Nakamori can't.
It is said that the best way to forget a relationship is a new love, probably to let yourself quickly forget that unbearable relationship.
In 1988, Anita Mui met and fell in love with model Liu Migao, perhaps because there was a big gap between the two in status.
Therefore, they couldn't withstand the pressure of public opinion, and the two finally broke up, but they still maintained a friendly relationship after the breakup.
Later, Anita Mui had a relationship with a college student named Paul, and even rumored to be married, but eventually broke up for various reasons.
After the breakup, Anita Mui did not give up the pursuit of love, and in 1991, Anita Mui and actor Lin Guobin fell in love again.
However, due to the discord between the two parties and the pressure from the outside world, the relationship lasted for two years and then ended.
The last one to focus on is Zhao Wenzhuo, it is said that Anita Mui has not been in love for 8 years after breaking up with Zhao Wenzhuo!
Anita Mui and Zhao Wenzhuo had a deep emotional experience.
The two of them met in 1995, when they were introduced by Leslie Cheung and developed into a couple.
Although Anita Mui was already an influential "big sister" in the Hong Kong music and film industry at that time, and Zhao Wenzhuo was only a little transparent, the gap in age and popularity did not stop the development of their relationship.
During their relationship, the two were very affectionate, but unfortunately, due to some misunderstandings or other undisclosed reasons, they chose to break up in 1996.
Although after the breakup, Anita Mui has said on different occasions that Zhao Wenzhuo is the person she has the most regrets in her life, and the object she wants to spend her life with.
She once regretted not resolving the misunderstanding that led to their separation, and said that if she had made it clear at the time, she would have been Mrs. Zhao now.
And Zhao Wenzhuo also cherishes this relationship, even after Anita Mui's death, he still expresses his love!
Although their relationship was short-lived, it became a beautiful and sad memory in the hearts of both parties and many fans.
Talking about her relationship, I have to say that another important person is Andy Lau, Anita Mui once gave Andy Lau a score of 100 in public.
and said that if you marry someone, you should marry Andy Lau, but Andy Lau gave Anita Mui a score of 59 on the grounds that Andy Lau doesn't like girls who go to song halls.
And since Andy Lau said that sentence, Anita Mui has almost never been there, so their relationship is more complicated and delicate.
They have maintained close cooperation and deep friendship since their debut, and have collaborated on many classic films such as "Rich Corps", "Ninety-one Condor Heroes", etc., as well as musical cooperation, and are known as the "Golden Boy and Jade Girl" on the screen.
The media and viewers were keen to put them together, but both sides always insisted that they were best friends.
But Andy Lau has done a lot of care and support for Anita Mui beyond friends!
Since Anita Mui's illness, Andy Lau has given a lot of support and encouragement.
and Anita Mui's last concert - Andy Lau appeared as a guest, and the eye contact and affectionate dialogue between the two when they sang together also touched countless audiences.
Even after Anita Mui's death, Andy Lau also remembered this old friend on many occasions.
Although Anita Mui has never entered the palace of marriage, each relationship has brought her different life experiences and insights.
It is probably this kind of emotional experience that made Anita Mui take into account her care and love for everyone when she was dying to do the distribution of inheritance!
She gifted two precious properties in Hong Kong to Lau Pui-kei, a renowned image designer with whom she had a deep friendship, as a deep gratitude and lasting remembrance of her dear friend.
Anita Mui also cares about her family, especially her nephews and nieces.
She has set up an education fund to ensure that these children can receive adequate financial support for their future education, which fully reflects her responsibility and expectations as an elder.
Anita Mui set up regular living expenses for her mother Qin Meijin to ensure that her mother has no worries in her later years.
Although the relationship between mother and daughter was tense and controversial, Anita Mui still fulfilled her obligation to support her children.
Most importantly, Anita Mui decided to entrust the majority of her estate to a trust and donate all the remaining estate to the Mystic Realm Buddhist Society after her mother's death.
This move is not only her adherence to the Buddhist faith, but also her selfless dedication to social welfare undertakings, reflecting her desire to use her influence to contribute to the society.
Her legacy, like her life, is both a shining star and a deep sense of human fireworks.
In her 40 years of life, 36 years have been on stage, 20 years have been in the industry, and 12 years have been running for charity.
At the age of 25, she rose to the top of the queen song, talented, noble, and made extraordinary contributions to the industry and society.
He even dedicated his life to influencing generations of people with his precious spirit of personality.
Throughout the history of the entire industry, such a person is extremely rare.
After eating the hardships of other people's lives and using this half of his life to break out, it doesn't matter whether he is great or not, he can only say that he has worked hard!
epilogue
Anita Mui said she wanted to have her own family and her own children at the age of 32.
But in the end, there was nothing, and it was empty to pounce on it.
The affection and love she longs for is not something we usually ignore?
When we envy the glamorous beauty of others, perhaps some people are also envious of the ordinary life of our family sitting around.
Cherish every minute and every second now, don't let the person you love wait too long, love well, don't leave regrets!