Text/Flying Fish
When a person reaches the age of 50, it is a watershed in life.
Before the age of fifty, maybe you didn't ask for help, and you didn't worry so much, just take care of yourself. Before the age of fifty, as I got older, my body also had some ailments, and there were many things I couldn't do, so I thought about asking others for help.
After the age of fifty, entering the second half of life, we should manage the relationship with the people around us well, don't lose our temper, let alone do whatever we want, selfish, but to understand others, but also to get along with others, talk well, and leave room for others, so that we are actually opening a window with ourselves, and others will help you when you need others.
After the age of fifty, no matter how capable you are, you must have a good relationship with these 3 types of people, this is a vision, not to mention that no one reminds you.
1. Kind and friendly neighbors
Distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors, and distant water cannot save near fire.
No matter what misunderstanding or encounter with your neighbors, you must learn to tolerate, learn to leave room for others, don't get along with your neighbors, don't worry so much about your neighbors.
When you meet kind and friendly neighbors, you should have good contacts and help each other, so that when you encounter something, the neighbors can quickly come to your house to help, and will not dislike you, nor will they hold a grudge against you, but when they hear that you are in trouble, they will take the initiative to lend a hand and give you some help and care.
After the age of 50, when the children are not at home, the two of them live at home, and when the family encounters an emergency, the relationship between neighbors can be improved, in fact, they can also get the warmth of the world.
If your popularity is good, then a kind neighbor will also give you some warmth and help in time, which is also a sophisticated human relationship and needs to be learned by yourself.
Second, the partner who accompanies you.
After the age of 50, the children leave home and go out to work, so the person who accompanies them is their partner, the person who knows your warmth and coldness, understands your joys and sorrows, and needs to treat their partner well and treat their partner well.
Life is impermanent, tomorrow and accidents don't know when it will come, if you have always been bad to your partner, or even insincere and unfaithful to your partner, then if you have an accident, your partner will not take you seriously, and even calculate you.
In "Ode to Joy 5", Li Qixing's father went to prison for committing a crime, and his mother began to control all his father's assets and then went abroad to live.
The reason why his mother treats his father like this is because his father has always been doing things that are sorry for her, messing around outside, having too many miscellaneous relationships, and is also very wary of her, never taking the initiative to give her money, and never letting her know how much property he has.
Knowing that something had happened to him, he wanted to hand over all his property to her for safekeeping, but his partner took the opportunity to turn all the assets into his own, and then went abroad, and after he was released from prison, he could never find her again.
Therefore, if a person usually treats his partner badly, the result is that his partner abandons him and will not wait for you in the same place.
3. Solidarity and brotherhood.
After the age of fifty, the parents may be very old, or they may no longer be there.
And siblings are actually the best gift left to us by our parents, our parents are gone, and our brothers and sisters have become relatives, but we can often communicate with each other, often contact, and we can also ask our brothers and sisters for help if there is anything, and our brothers and sisters will try their best to help you, so in fact, life is very blessed.
When a person reaches the age of 50, the family is happy, the family is harmonious, he gets along with his brothers and sisters, he can discuss anything, and he will often gather and disperse during the New Year's holidays.
When people are old, having good neighbors and good family members to help each other is a fortunate thing in life, and they can also make their old age happy and comfortable.
So, it's important to manage your relationships with the people around you, and it's important to keep in mind.
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