All encounters in the world are reunions after a long absence.
"Zhou Yi" has a cloud: "One yin and one yang is the Tao".
Everything in the world is the way of yin and yang, and yin and yang are rooted in each other and complement each other.
Everything in the world is inseparable from the changes of yin and yang, and it is inseparable from interdependence.
People are the same, all encounters are fate, and all getting along is mutual fulfillment.
The kind of people you are will attract you, and the scenery will be different depending on where you are.
If you want to see a person clearly, you must see his true appearance.
When you really see a person, you will find that the most difficult person in the world is yourself.
- Look at his language
Language is an art, being able to speak a good language is an ability, and being able to speak a bad language is a state of mind.
There is a cloud in the "Book of Songs": "Vote for me with a peach, and repay it with Qiong Yao." ”
Your language is your character, your language is your cultivation, and your language is your pattern.
In life, we always like to associate with some people who spit lotus flowers and have clever tongues.
As everyone knows, these people often only talk flatteringly and talk like a river, but once they encounter something, they will only shirk and shirk responsibility.
After spending a long time with such people, you will find:
They like to talk about other people's rights and wrongs, they like to talk about other people's privacy, and they like to expose other people's shortcomings.
Over time, you will unknowingly become an unreliable and unreliable person.
A person who is truly cultivated, wise, and patterned will never make irresponsible remarks about anyone around him.
Because they understand that relationships without a sense of boundaries and proportions are often the most dangerous relationships.
- Look at his behavior
Man's behavior exposes his true nature and also shows his character.
The people who are really worth associating with are often people who are very decent in words and deeds.
They know how to respect others, know how to empathize, and will not easily embarrass others;
When they get along with others, they will take into account the feelings of others and will not bring their emotions to others.
They are sincere, reliable, grateful, and respectful, and you will feel at ease with such people.
"The Mean" has a cloud: "Isn't it also a gentleman?"
The person who is truly worthy of associating must be a person of noble character and cultivation.
They are kind and sincere, and never embarrass others in their daily lives.
They are true to their word, down-to-earth, and never superficial;
They are kind, loving, and kind to others, and never do anything that harms others and benefits themselves.
You will feel at ease with such people, and you will feel happy and comfortable with such people.
In this journey of life, who do you want to walk with, who do you want to walk with? You must have a scale in your heart.
You can look at what he says and does, you can look at his inner world, but in the end, it depends on what he really does for you.
- Look at his attitude
Someone said: "The biggest attraction between people is not your wealth or your talent, but the warmth and steadfastness you pass on to each other, and the positive energy you pass on to each other." ”
Attitude is the most important thing in interpersonal interactions.
When you don't have an attitude towards someone, you lose the meaning of continuing to get along.
People with a good attitude tend to bring good luck to others, while people with a bad attitude can bring bad luck to others.
There's a good saying: "When you're complaining about not having shoes to wear, you find that someone else doesn't have feet." ”
Whether a person can reap happiness or not is actually in their own hands.
If you are always complaining to yourself about life dissatisfaction, then life will make you more and more unhappy, and if you are always hopeful about life, then life will bring you good luck.
Therefore, if you want to live happily, you must learn to change your attitude.