#精品长文创作季#
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Editor-in-charge|Xiang Wanwan
In the past few days, I have been swiped by Yu Hewei again.
It was a scene in a short video, where a mysterious woman suddenly appeared at the funeral, and she and Yu Hewei's ex-wife looked almost identical.
At that time, from the expression of "Uncle Liu Huang", you can not only see the surprise, but also see a trace of deep affection and longing that cannot be hidden.
This scene alone makes people curious about this show.
This may be Yu Hewei's strength, he only needs one look to attract everyone's attention.
And, once in his career, there were many such famous scenes.
"I've fought all my life, can't I enjoy it?"
"Glue Dance."
In the Three Kingdoms, the rebellious Uncle Liu.
In the rock-solid world, a smile can make people's hair stand up, and he is an incomparably gentle man for his daughter.
A boo action makes us all feel the love for our daughter off-screen, and the father, who doesn't want his daughter to be frightened, protects his daughter with the last dignity.
Every character is a real "square" of him. His twenty-year career as an actor makes us remember the name of each of his roles, but we don't remember his name.
01
In the spring of 1971, the permafrost in the north was just melting. In a poor family in Dongzhou District, Fushun City, Liaoning Province, a boy fell to the ground.
He is our Uncle Liu Huang Yu Hewei.
Yu Hewei's mother was 45 years old when he was born, and he was the youngest child in the family. There are also 8 older brothers and sisters on it. The old idea, many children and many blessings, and the people are prosperous.
He was born with several older siblings who were already able to live independently.
The eldest sister is 24 years older than him. At that time, my sister had already married a family, my mother was old and had no milk, and there were many children in the family and no money to buy milk powder, so milk powder at that time was already considered a luxury.
At that time, the eldest sister happened to be pregnant, and the eldest sister said, "I'll feed Xiaowei." ”
In this short sentence, Yu Hewei later heard from other brothers and sisters that his feelings for the eldest sister were that of the eldest sister and mother.
Besides, he is only one year older than his niece, and he always says that his brothers and sisters raised him, and without his eldest sister, there would be no him.
He didn't have much of an impression of his father, but he heard from his brothers and sisters that his father often came back from drinking too much.
His mother scolded him for coming back so late that he drank alcohol, and the children lay down to sleep.
But the father smiled silently, opened the bag containing the meat, carried the meat in one hand, patted the child's head with the other, and the child opened his eyes and mouths to feed them one by one. One row was fed, and the last one was the mother, who said "Get out." ”
Such a beautiful family scene no longer existed when he was three years old.
When he was three years old, his father died, and the breadwinner of the family was gone, which made the already not wealthy family even worse.
At a young age, Yu Hewei went to set up a stall with his mother to do business, and went home to pick up coal with his brothers at night.
is such a family environment, but there is such a national first-class actor.
Yu Hewei said, I want to play the scene of my father feeding meat into the play. It is said that a good actor is the most real, because he has experienced the most real suffering.
No matter how poor the family is, the child must study, and reading can change the status quo of the family. But Yu Hewei, who pinned the hopes of the whole family, on his studies, was not ideal.
Yu Hewei has loved literature and art since he was a child, and he is indispensable every time there is a literary and artistic activity in school.
So after graduating from junior high school, he entered the secondary school music class of Fushun Preschool Normal School.
Three years later, he was successfully admitted to the Fushun Repertory Theatre. met Song Wenjing in the repertory troupe, this is the most important woman in his life besides his mother and sisters.
02
Song Linjing is a dancer in the repertory troupe, and once co-starred Yu Hewei decided to pursue this girl at the first sight of Song Linjing.
When Yu Hewei ran directly to Song Linjing to introduce himself, Song Linjing was startled, thinking that there was nothing wrong with this person.
Later, he slowly followed Song Linjing in the car and sent her home, without speaking, just silently following.
After a long time, Song Linjing found that Yu Hewei didn't do anything excessive, and he didn't have any malicious intentions, just sent her home.
Slowly, the two began to chat, and during the chat, they found that Yu Hewei was still a very talented person, who liked acting and singing. The two people also have a lot of common language.
Later, Song Linjing's parents found out about their relationship and did not agree with the development of this relationship.
Although Song Linjing's family is not a wealthy family, who doesn't want their daughter to marry a family with better conditions?
Yu Hewei said to Song Linjing, "You wait for me, I must make a name for you and let the family recognize me." ”
In order to change all this, Yu Hewei resigned from his job at the Fushun Repertory Troupe and was resolutely admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy.
At that time, his family did not approve of his resignation, and a stable job was actually the best among many children.
But this job Yu Hewei can see the end at a glance, and he can see what kind of life he will live in the next 20 years and 30 years.
He likes acting and wants to make a name for himself as someone he likes.
At that time, his family did not have tuition fees that allowed him to go to Shanghai.
It was the young lady who sold the piano at home, the piano for her nephew to learn piano, a piano was more than 4,000 yuan at the time, in order to make up the tuition for the first year for Yu Hewei, my sister gave him 4,000 yuan to sell the piano to go to college. And tell him to study hard, and the tuition brothers and sisters will help you find a way.
In this way, Yu Hewei went to college with the support of his older brothers, sisters and girlfriends.
When I stepped on the southbound train, my family was outside.
As soon as the car moved, he couldn't hold back his tears, but the Northeast man had a good face, so he brought his sunglasses. But the tears still couldn't be stopped, and at that moment a seed was planted in his heart that he must learn to let his family live a good life.
03
The eating habits in the Northeast are different from those in Shanghai, and Yu Hewei is not used to eating them.
But gritting his teeth, he also persevered, and when he went to college, he went to school while working and studying to reduce the burden on his family.
Song Linjing's salary at that time was handed over to the family, leaving 30 yuan for himself, of which 20 yuan was given to Yu Hewei's mother to fulfill his filial piety for Yu Hewei.
Mother saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart. Every time Yu Hewei went home, Yu's mother nagged Song Linjing to be a good girl, don't treat Song Linjing badly.
Yu Hewei also kept it in mind.
It just so happened that year, the junior college class of the drama director table was enrolling, and it only took two years to study.
Yu Hewei asked Song Linjing to come to school too, thinking that he could graduate with him and end the long-distance relationship.
Song Linjing was afraid that she would not be able to pass the exam, so Yu Hewei helped her guide her every day. When I returned to school, I arranged Song Linjing's exam.
In the end, Song Linjing was admitted, so that the two ended their long-distance relationship. After graduation, the two were assigned to the Nanjing Repertory Theatre.
But after graduation, Yu Hewei's work was not so smooth, and he often played tricks. On the other hand, Song Linjing's work is getting better and better, constantly filming, and earning a lot.
At that time, it was clear that he wanted to give her a good future, but it turned out to be inferior to her.
Look at the debuts in the same period have begun to buy houses and cars. And he didn't have any, and he had to live on his girlfriend, and he was hit hard.
When it was the most difficult, Yu Hewei also thought about giving up the path of being an actor, and Song Linjing encouraged her: "Don't worry, opportunities are reserved for those who are prepared." ”
Yu Hewei still insists on one idea in his heart, no matter how hard he works, he must make a name for himself in the job he likes, so that his beloved family can live a good life.
Maybe only what you like can persevere.
04
The good days have not yet come, and my mother died during a filming trip to the south.
Not long after, the eldest sister was diagnosed with cancer and passed away.
These two nurturing women are gone, and it still hit him hard, and the death of these two people one after another made Yu Hewei hide in the bathroom on the set and cry fiercely.
Song Linjing comforted him by his side, birth, old age, sickness and death, human nature. He also has 7 older brothers and sisters, and he still has to live. The two also agreed to get married after he finished filming his first film.
At the age of 28, he finally got his first chance, and from then on he began to stand out in his own right.
Yu Hewei and Song Linjing also got married with 400 yuan after He Wei finished filming his first film. After getting married, with the support of his wife and family, the film appointments continued, and he began to become completely popular.
For a long time, everyone didn't know Yu Hewei, only the role he played. It's he who portrays the character too well, but it's different from the real him.
After Yu Hewei became famous, his wife took the initiative to buy a house and a car for his brothers and sisters.
When the key was handed over to the brothers and sisters, the brothers and sisters said: "It's good for Xiaowei, don't want anything, just want Xiaowei to be good." ”
Song Linjing knew that without these brothers and sisters, there would be no Yu Hewei today, and there would be no rich family like them.
During the Chinese New Year, Yu Hewei, who was already very famous at that time.
Early in the morning, I went back with Song Linjing to help my brother sell steamed buns, and everyone came to watch, knowing that he was an actor but still couldn't name him.
The elder brother said in disgust: "Hurry home and sleep, don't delay my business." He smiled and said to everyone: "This is my brother, everyone is here to buy more steamed buns to eat." ”
He knew that his brother was not afraid that he would delay his business, but that he felt that he finally had a vacation and felt sorry for him.
Another time he was filming in Hengdian, and in the video, he said to his sister that it was so hot that he turned on the air conditioner at home. In fact, my sister knew that he was on the set, so she rushed to see him on the set and brought him her favorite dumplings.
When he saw the dumplings brought by his sister, he didn't have time to take care of the image, so he grabbed the dumplings and ate them with his hands.
He has always felt that the dumplings made by his family are the best food.
Song Linjing has been with him since he was 18 years old, and she knows too well his feelings for his family and what he needs.
05
Because only such a simple family can raise such a simple actor, he came out of the black land with love and ideals.
His success is the support and growth of his family.
In an interview, Yu Hewei said that I am anxious after every act, is there a next scene?
The host said, "Do you regret quitting your job so steadily?"
He replied with a smile: I don't regret it, because I love acting.
Many actors will have scandals after becoming famous, and Mr. Yu Hewei also has scandals.
And the female celebrities who play with him are like clouds, among which there are the most scandals with Wang Likun. Because they've worked together five or six times.
But Song Linjing's understanding of He Wei allows him to easily solve the temptations and crises in the entertainment industry.
It is said that behind a successful man there is a woman who silently supports him.
Song Linjing is the woman behind Yu Hewei, the woman who did not give up when her life was at a low point, and the woman who did her filial piety for him unmarried.
Teacher Yu Hewei said that if one day he can be a director, he must make a movie that will not go out of style, and guess that this movie should be a movie that will pass on our love.
After all, there is a warm home, a wife who loves him, and shows him the way to the future.
No matter how hard the days are, as long as the love is still persistent, one day it will be successful.
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