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Today's topic: How to view the theory of parental unkindness?
Whether parents are kind or not is not something they say, they usually do it. No matter how noble you say about yourself, everything you do is selfish, and you can't make your child feel cared for at all, how can your child think that you are gracious?
It depends on what is the understanding of the theory of parental unkindness, my parents are very good, I think they raised me to be kind to me, because they not only met my material needs but also met my emotional needs to the greatest extent, but I think that their act of giving birth to me itself is ungraceful, that is, "born without grace, rough and bad parenting without grace, but excellent parenting with grace"
If you feel that you are kind to your children, you are giving away family loan sharks, and all the love of your children will become taken for granted. No one wants to take their efforts for granted.
Compulsory education, freedom of marriage and love, personal freedom is not allowed to be bought and sold... These ancestors worked hard to win the sovereignty of women and children, and the mountain of my father was tightly blocked
Children are not fools. But the kindness he can feel is not necessarily the so-called "far-reaching" and "great love". They feel more about the little things in life. There are often many small things that make up life, and big things that are few and long-lasting.
The child is not a white-eyed wolf. The kindness and affection he felt in many small things, he would give his own return. Many times, the "kindness" that his parents boast of is not felt from his point of view.
Love is mutual. The more you give, the more you will love him. The more he loves you.
Kindness never depends on whether you are willing or not, kindness exists from the second someone helps you.
And repaying your kindness always depends on whether you are willing or not, but the second you don't repay your kindness, you will be spurned by society.
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