The survey found that the higher the education, the more likely the children are to be unfilial, and the truth is simply not too heart-wrenching
For parents, they hope that their children can grow up to become pillars of the country and make their own contributions to the development of the country. Even if they do not reach such a high level of ability, they hope that their children can stand on their shoulders and go further, and they will not hesitate to give all their energy, time, and money for this. However, while parents pay for their children, it is easy to ignore an important issue, that is, the issue of pension.
Since ancient times, the mainland has had the concept of raising children to prevent old age, and when parents have the ability, they will give the best to their children, but as they continue to grow older, parents will gradually grow old, and then they will change to their children to do their filial piety. Although this is the case, in real life, there are still many children who are unable to fulfill their filial piety in front of their parents for various reasons. According to research, the more educated the children, the more likely they are to be unfilial, and the truth is simply not too heart-wrenching.
It's hard to go back to your hometown.
It is said that people go to high places, and water flows to low places, and this is indeed the case. Everyone wants to have a better life, but the premise of having a good life is to have enough ability. For children with higher educational qualifications, their exposure to social level and education will be higher than that of ordinary people, and with the continuous development of society, the world they are exposed to will become larger and larger. When they have seen the prosperity outside, they are reluctant to return to their hometown to develop. It's not that they are not filial, but because of practical reasons, they have to stay outside.
Difficulty communicating.
As we all know, if a person wants to achieve good development, he must have a high level of cognition, but cognition is not immutable, but will gradually change with the accumulation of knowledge in the outside world. If a person's education is particularly high, then his cognition will also be improved, and when the cognition reaches a certain level, he is not willing to be compatible with those people with low cognition, which is why many highly educated people will have differences in thinking from their parents.
When there are differences in their thinking, communication will become particularly difficult, and they may even feel that their parents are unreasonable and difficult to accept some concepts and practices of their original family. As the conflict deepens, the relationship between children and their parents will also change, and even become strange and unapproachable. If it is allowed to develop, how can the children be filial?
Emotional dilution.
For those children with high education, they usually pay more attention to the development of their careers, and will regard their careers as their whole or even put all their energy into their careers. will even equate money with filial piety to parents, thinking that as long as the money is given to parents, it is filial piety. As everyone knows, what parents value is not money, but the company of their children.
After all, when people get older, they will inevitably have a variety of problems such as inner loneliness and crankiness, and they hope that their children can come to their side from time to time to fulfill their filial piety. If the children are not so good, it may be possible to do this, but for those whose children are too good, it is difficult to achieve. Because they have a lot to do, they can't spend their energy on spending time with their parents.