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The passage of the regulations on the protection of women's rights and interests in a certain place has aroused heated discussions among netizens. But there is one thing that puzzles me very much, for a family, the wife and husband are family members, and they are relatives. For the other half of your life, shouldn't you let the other party know your financial situation?
Why are so many people objecting to the fact that a wife can check her husband's property?
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The wife and husband are members of the same family, and the two of them should work together to work together for the small family, instead of each having their own thoughts and going to AA to live.
Although the AA system is more popular for some young people, they also accept it from the heart. But marriage is not such a clear rule, marriage is a natural flow of feelings, focusing on love, not money.
What's more, when a wife and her husband get married, the relationship between the two is guaranteed by law, and the income of both people is also joint property within the marriage. If it's common, why can't one party view it?
I don't understand why, more and more men are concerned about women's rights and interests, and men's spirit of comity seems to have disappeared in front of interests. But if this is facing strangers and unfamiliar people, then it is still a measured way to advance and retreat, facing your other half, and you are still thinking about your own rights and interests, why is this?
Is it because people have become selfish, or do they have no faith in marriage and humanity from the bottom of their hearts? In fact, if you don't have confidence in marriage, you don't have to be busy delivering tasks until you find someone who really wants to spend the rest of your life with her, and then you can enter into a marriage relationship.
If you are afraid of your parents' worries because you can't bear the pressure of the world, then you also have to pay for your own choice, and you are the one who makes the decision, so you have to use courage to take the risks that come with it.
Feelings are to consider each other for each other, rather than only looking at problems from their own perspective, a person who is always worried that he will suffer, will definitely suffer?
But a person who is unwilling to trust the other party and refuses to tell the other party clearly about his property will also worry that his private money will be discovered by the other half.
But it is reasonable, since you are married, you have half of the other half's money, whether you tell it or not, whether you admit it or not, this is allowed by the law, and this is also reasonable.
It seems to me that those who oppose their wives' ability to check their property are not because they have a lot of property, but because they don't have a lot of property, so they are so worried that the money they earn will be discovered by others, even if this other person is their wife, the mother of their children, the one with whom they want to spend the rest of their lives.
It is precisely because they don't have much money that they regard the economy so important and want to hold the economic power tightly. However, in a family, whether it is a man in charge of money or a woman in charge of money, as long as the money is used well and there is no waste, openness and transparency is the attitude it should have.
Men who question whether their wives should check their finances are, in the final analysis, simply do not understand the nature of marriage, or perhaps, they are the selfish generation instilled by the love of their parents, and do not understand the give-and-take in a relationship.
The joint property in marriage cannot be one person, but the illegitimate child can inherit his father's property, but it has not been discussed by so many men, just because this point did not prick their hearts and did not damage their interests. Everyone speaks from their own point of view, but sometimes, the problem lies with the person himself.