The summer midday sun pours into the courtyard, and the golden light intertwines with the green leaves, forming a dappled light and shadow. Ah Xing sat at the stone table, with sumptuous dishes in front of him, but his face did not have the joy of being treated, but looked a little anxious.
"Ah Xing, what's wrong with you? The guest, Xiao Li, asked curiously as he sat down.
Ah Xing sighed, barely squeezing out a smile: "It's nothing, I'm just a little worried about whether this treat will go wrong." ”
Xiao Li couldn't help laughing out loud after hearing this: "It's just a treat, what's wrong? Unless you put the salt as sugar, or invite someone you don't like." ”
Ah Xing shook his head and frowned: "No, it's a lot more elaborate on treats." Did you know that there are several mistakes that must not be made when inviting someone to dinner, otherwise it will not only make the guests uncomfortable, but it may also affect the relationship between the two parties. ”
Xiao Li's curiosity was stimulated: "Oh? Then tell me about the mistakes that you can't make?"
Ah Xing took a deep breath and began to speak: "First of all, you can't ignore the eating habits and tastes of the guests. For example, some people don't eat spicy food, and some people are allergic to seafood, which need to be understood in advance. Otherwise, wouldn't it be embarrassing if you order a table of Sichuan food or seafood, but the guests can't eat a bite?"
Xiao Li nodded and agreed: "Indeed, this is very important. And what else?"
"Second, don't be too extravagant. Ah Xing continued, "Dinner is to enhance relationships, not to show off financial resources. If you order an expensive dish and you can't finish it, not only will you waste food, but it will also make the customer feel that you are showing off your wealth instead of treating you sincerely. ”
Xiao Li nodded thoughtfully: "This also makes sense." Is there anything else?"
Ah Xing continued: "Also, table manners cannot be ignored. For example, you can't make loud noises, you can't point at others with chopsticks, and you can't interrupt others' speeches by interjecting at will. These seemingly insignificant details can reflect a person's upbringing and quality. ”
After hearing this, Xiao Li couldn't help but sigh: "It turns out that there are so many things to pay attention to when inviting guests to dinner! I have never paid attention to these before." ”
Ah Xing smiled and continued, "Actually, it's more than that. For example, the identity and status of the guest cannot be ignored. If you invite elders or leaders, then you should take the initiative to pull chairs and pour tea for them, showing respect and respect. If you're inviting a friend or colleague, create a relaxed atmosphere where people can talk freely. ”
Xiao Li listened with relish, and couldn't help but look at Ah Xing with admiration: "Ah Xing, you are really a careful and thoughtful person. How come I didn't notice you know how to be hospitable?"
Ah Xing waved his hand modestly: "Where, I also learned it recently." In fact, having a meal is not only a social activity, but also an art. Only by doing it with your heart can you make your guests feel your sincerity and enthusiasm. ”
While tasting the food, the two continued to chat about the topic of treats. Ah Xing reminded Xiao Li to pay attention to some details from time to time, and Xiao Li also accepted and studied with an open mind.
As time passes, the sunlight in the courtyard softens and the breeze blows, bringing a hint of coolness. Ah Xing and Xiao Li's chat also became deeper and deeper, as if their hearts and minds had also been communicated and exchanged.
In the end, the treat ended in a harmonious and pleasant atmosphere. Ah Xing felt very satisfied and relieved, because he knew that he had not made any mistakes in entertaining, and it had also given Xiao Li a deeper knowledge and understanding of the way of hospitality.
On the way home, Ah Xing's heart was full of emotion. He realized that having a meal is not only a simple social activity, but also an art that needs to be done with heart, continuous learning and improvement. Only when you really master the way of hospitality can you be comfortable and handy in social situations.
At the same time, he also learned that whether it is a dinner or other social activities, it should be based on sincerity and respect. Only by treating others with sincerity can we win the respect and trust of others. And this respect and trust is the key to building good relationships.
In the days to come, Ah Xing decided to continue to study and practice hospitality in depth to further improve his social skills. He believes that as long as he puts his heart into it, he will be able to become a sociable and popular person.
And this experience of hospitality has also become an unforgettable memory in his life. Whenever he recalls the scene of talking about hospitality with Xiao Li in the courtyard at noon on that summer day, a warm current will surge in his heart, as if he has returned to that beautiful moment.
Although the story is over, Ah Xing's path of learning and growth continues. He used his own experience to tell us that inviting guests to dinner is not only a social activity, but also an art that needs to be done with heart, continuous learning and improvement. Only by truly mastering this art can we be comfortable and handy in social situations, and add more color and possibilities to our lives.