With the development of society, it has become commonplace for older men and women to be left behind us.
The reason for this is mainly because of two things, the older leftover men are mainly because of "no money";
And the older leftover women, mainly because they want to "marry into a wealthy family", in layman's terms, is to find a rich man and struggle for many years.
In this way, it comes down to money that is the reason for the current situation.
Recently, a 38-year-old master's beauty in Hangzhou complained on the Internet a few days ago:
When he was old, the older leftover men in the city couldn't look down on him, so he could only marry a bachelor in the countryside, which caused a controversy.
And in the video that caused controversy, the woman just confided her heart, and I personally think there is nothing wrong with it.
In the video, the woman only complained about the older leftover women, and now they are really worthless.
originally thought that with his master's degree and beautiful face, he could find a high-quality older leftover man in Hangzhou.
But the result surprised her, because the older man with good conditions in the city didn't want to find a 38-year-old woman as a wife at all.
Confused, she consulted a marriage counselor, who helped her analyze the main reasons:
It's an older woman, who is no longer good for marriage, just like a poor man.
The woman looked back again, and it was true, and now the suitors around her are only bachelors in the countryside.
But now I can see it, as long as I can get married, living in the countryside is not necessarily a happy thing.
Unexpectedly, the woman's complaining video was unexpectedly on the hot search, and then many people chased after the woman's account and abused and attacked her.
The reasons for this are mainly focused on two points:
First, the female master said that at present, she can only marry a bachelor from a rural area. This offended rural netizens and thought it was discriminatory against rural areas.
There are rural natives in Zhejiang, so they show their family background and prove to the female master that rural people are no worse than urban people.
Some people even claim to be rural aborigines in Zhejiang, with several houses, an average of 3 million sets.
Second, the female master emphasized in the video that she was a "high-quality older leftover woman", and many netizens expressed doubts.
thinks that the word "high-quality" should be removed, and he has not married at the age of 38, so he is no longer worthy of the word "high-quality".
Some netizens poked the woman's back directly, saying: A man who can impress an older leftover woman, his conditions can also impress an 18-year-old girl.
The implication is that men like to be small, and since there are conditions, why don't they choose the small ones and choose the older ones?
Some netizens even made an analogy: Only Wahaha Princess Zong Fuli is a real high-quality older leftover girl, and other older women are not worthy?
There is another piece of news on the Internet today, that is, the famous calligrapher and painter art master Fan Zeng, at the age of 86, actually caused 26-year-old Xu Meng.
This news also quickly became a hot search.
Some netizens suggested that this 38-year-old female master's degree should learn from Xu Meng and marry an older, rich and statusy person?
As the woman said, the phenomenon of older men and women is now common in both urban and rural areas.
In my opinion, this is caused by many factors in society.
Relatively speaking, men are not so picky, as long as the object in reality can reach 60% of their ideals, they should be able to accept it.
On the contrary, older women, they are more likely to think that "they would rather lack than abuse", and even if they are getting older, they are not willing to lower the standard of mate selection.
Especially the so-called "high-quality" leftover women who are highly educated, good-looking, and have a good family background, their requirements are generally very demanding.
For example, the other party is required to be more than 1.80 meters tall, handsome, good family conditions, and be able to do housework and have a very good job.
Men who can meet the above conditions are in the minority after all. Then again, with the above conditions, the first choice is young women, and of course they will not look at older women.
In addition, for older women over the age of 35, giving birth to children has become a problem.
Some netizens said that there are many 36-year-old women who have gone through menopause, and the man's parents spend a lot of money to marry a daughter-in-law, and they must all want to hold their grandchildren.
This corresponds to the ancient poem: Flowers can be folded straight and must be folded, don't wait for no flowers to break the branches.