Should today's girls marry while they are young or work hard for their careers first? I believe that there is no absolute answer to this question, because it involves everyone's values and many other aspects
First of all, it is important to know that marrying and working hard are not mutually exclusive choices. Of course, getting married requires meeting a partner with the same values, so that women can have a happy marriage and be successful in their careers.
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Recently, a woman released a video in Zhejiang, which quickly attracted the attention of netizens!
The information that can be learned from the woman's own oral statement is: the woman is 38 years old, the age of the fourth is about to run, the education is as high as a master's degree, that is, the upper level of the bachelor's degree, the appearance is quite beautiful, originally wanted to find a man who is also old and excellent, but no, now downgraded to choose a rural person
Of course, as a man, many times he will choose the important link of "giving birth", although this woman is demoted to choose a rural man
But if a woman chooses to get pregnant, then it is destined to be an advanced maternal age, and the difficulty of facing it is conceivable, of course, there are also men who choose not to have children, but after all, it is a minority
The woman's sentence "Now I can only marry and live in the countryside", although she expressed her helplessness, but also inadvertently offended a lot of men, making men feel offended
First of all, whether you live in the city or in the countryside, there is no absolute superiority or inferiority. Rural life also has unique advantages, and secondly, the current countryside is not bad. Therefore, rural life should not be seen simply as a "downgrade" or "helpless" option.
This phrase may also be interpreted as demeaning or discriminatory against rural men. In fact, rural men also have their own merits and values
The woman's words also warn everyone to try to avoid using words that may cause misunderstanding or offend others when expressing their opinions and feelings.
Marriage is a mutual choice and decision of two people, and the important thing is the feelings of both parties, no matter who they choose to marry or where they live, they should be based on their true feelings and needs, not out of helplessness or compromise.
One thing is not clear: high-quality women, is it a little inappropriate to say this
Just like this netizen left a message, in fact, real life is still more realistic, the same excellent man, Duojin, why not choose a beautiful and young body and a hot body?
Women may be immersed in fantasy and do not take into account the real life part, and many times the relationship between men and women is complementary, not equal
There is also a netizen who left a message like this, and he can understand what it means to choose something lower than himself, so of course there will be no trouble about not finding the object, because the range of such choices will be relatively wider.
Of course, the process of choosing a partner is seen as a trade-off of "downgrading" or "upgrading", and more attention should be paid to the quality of the relationship and the compatibility of both parties. This is a prerequisite for "bread"
Maybe I've been busy working my career and studies, and I need to satisfy my freedom, maybe I'll be old in a flash!
Epilogue:
Girls are chosen based on their circumstances and values. If you are looking forward to marriage and also have the opportunity to meet the right partner, then marrying someone while you are young may be a good choice. If you value your career and studies more, then it's perfectly okay to work hard for your career first.