It wasn't until I saw a girl in Tianjin who was anxiously waiting for her boyfriend who had just undergone surgery, but was told by her mother-in-law to get out, that I knew how arrogant and unreasonable some mothers-in-law were!
It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a problem that every married couple has to consider, because the two generations of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have different ways of thinking and living habits, and it is likely that they cannot reach an agreement on some issues, resulting in conflicts. But in any case, no matter how much conflict there is, we must pay attention to basic proportions, and we must not chill the other party's heart.
However, recently, a woman in Tianjin deliberately went to the hospital bed to guard for several days because her boyfriend had surgery. As a result, her mother-in-law came, and as soon as they met, she asked her to get out. The reason behind this made the woman feel even more chilling, and netizens also persuaded her to run quickly.
kindly took care of her boyfriend for several days, but her mother-in-law asked the woman to get out in person
On April 9, a woman in Tianjin complained on the Internet that she had encountered her mother-in-law's brutal treatment.
According to the woman, her boyfriend was sick and had to have surgery a few days ago, and his parents may have been unable to leave for a while, so the woman took care of him.
Anyway, after all, this is his boyfriend who loves each other, and there is a deep emotional foundation between the two. So the woman also put down what she was busy with and came to the hospital to take care of her boyfriend.
But taking care of her boyfriend is obviously not an easy task, and it takes a period of preparation before the operation, and it is all up to the woman to be busy alone. And after the operation, the man's physical condition needs to be closely observed, and the woman should not be too lax at this time, after all, if something else suddenly happens to the man's body, it will be troublesome.
Not long after the man's operation, his mother-in-law rushed to the hospital. But in the face of his girlfriend who worked hard and served her son, her mother-in-law did not give her a good look. The woman also felt that more things were better than less, and besides, she was busy for 4 days, and she probably didn't have the heart to quarrel with her mother-in-law.
The result may be that the woman didn't take care of herself, and her mother-in-law took the initiative to make trouble, saying that the woman had a bad attitude towards herself, and began to scold her. Good guy, your mother-in-law really doesn't talk about any favors, no matter what the woman says, she has been with your son in the hospital for 4 days, even if there is no credit, there is hard work!
Obviously, the son could not understand how his mother could say such chilling words. So just after the operation, my son, who was still relatively weak, also held up his spirit and said to his mother: I am so sick, I am dying. The implication is that I am a patient, can you give me some face, don't pick this time to find fault.
But this mother-in-law is obviously arrogant at home, even if her son is weak and still comes to intercede, she does not give her son a little thin face, but still has a tough attitude and asks the woman to get out! There are so many people in the ward, and the mother-in-law just asks the woman to get out, how embarrassed should she feel at that time? The hard work of 4 days was only exchanged for a sentence of getting out of the house by the mother-in-law, let alone her, I am also cold when I encounter this!
The angry woman recorded this incident and posted it on the Internet, hoping to get a little comfort from netizens.
Netizen: Silly kid run
Normally, when I encounter this situation, I may break up directly, and it will not be easy to have such a mother-in-law in the future. But the woman may have too deep a relationship with her boyfriend, so she was reluctant to break up, so many netizens also persuaded her.
"Then don't you leave, what do you want?"
"Come back and say, let her settle the 4-day salary!"
"Let's go, you remember, what kind of family and what kind of child, after marriage, your husband is more and more like his family. ”
"The blessed do not enter the house of the unblessed!"
"If my son's future girlfriend is really considerate and takes care of my son for 4 consecutive days, even if she beats me in the future, I think she is both civil and military!"
Indeed, no matter how deep the relationship between a woman and her boyfriend is, it is necessary to think about this matter. After all, marriage is not just a matter of two people, unless the boyfriend can make up his mind and break off with the arrogant mother from now on, otherwise the woman can bear it!
From this incident alone, it can be seen that this mother-in-law is completely unreasonable. Whether her attitude towards others is good or not depends entirely on how she feels, not at all on whether the other party is wrong! For example, in this case, the woman takes care of her boyfriend intimately, is it possible to take care of the wrong person?
But the mother-in-law made it difficult on the grounds of a bad attitude, and she couldn't let a person who was tired for 4 days have to always be full of spring breeze, and she would like to extend her cordial greetings when she saw her mother-in-law, right?
In short, such a mother-in-law, don't do it!
What do you think?
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