Obey nature, and the original intention is that God is helping you.

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In fact, our whole life is like a play, this play is made up by ourselves, and it is up to us to decide who is the good guy and who is the bad guy in the play. Later, after a long time, it doesn't matter. When the play is over and the curtain is over, we can walk out of the theater.

——Lai Shengchuan, "Dream Like a Dream"

Now I like to find various bases for life from nature, so that my decisions can be more in line with nature. Obey nature, and the original intention is that God is helping you.

——Hanyama Bunshu

What kind of group, whose group, who to be in the group, in the world of ugly ducklings, swans are also guilty, you don't need to be gregarious, it's good to be yourself.

- Schopenhauer

There is a difference between a person hurting you because they made a mistake and someone hurting you because they perpetuate a pattern.

Mistakes are forgivable.

But if the damage pattern is repeated over and over again, it will take courage to break it.

I have lived to this age, and I think of many bad things in the past, and at that time, I felt that things were quite big and couldn't stand it, but now that I think about it, it's all.

——Liu Zhenyun "One Day and Three Autumns"

This is an impetuous era, people's hearts are impetuous, and information is more impetuous. The latter is both a cause and a consequence of the former. And it won't stop, it will only get faster and faster, and the information becomes the information flow, which used to be selected first and then read, and now the information is picked up from the information flow at will, and then the choice is to throw it away or stay. More and more people are becoming less and less patient and have the time to make choices, and they have taken the initiative to become the target of big data.

- The Weaver Girl

There is no life that is a pity, and there is no life that is not worth it, all lives are full of wealth, it just depends on whether you mine or not.

- "No Life is a Pity"

Or will Yu Hua write-

As time went on, the anger in me subsided, and I began to realize that what a true writer was looking for was truth, a truth that rejected moral judgment.

This is an era of conflict, with different perspectives, opposing positions, and reversals. Where do we go from here? But there are still some basic points: no matter what kind of immortal you are or what doctrine you believe, don't spread rumors, don't rectify people, and don't go to extremes.

——Yan Feng, Fudan University

recognize the extent of your ignorance,

A considerable degree of knowledge is required.

— Thomas Sowell

We don't quite know at what point in our lives a particular experience will amplify our feelings. Perhaps to others, the green of the grass is meaningless, but for this person, the green of the grass is the color of the dress of the girl he once fell in love with. Zhu Guangqian also believes that the meaning of aesthetic expansion lies here—it is not the persistence of a special experience, but the expansion of the meaning of a special experience in the time and space of life after it is remembered.

- Jiang Xun speaks Song Ci

The essence of healing is to clean and unload.

Clean up useless material grasping and social relationships, make room for the body and mind, unload the brain's excessive programs and ingenuity, and leave the mind refreshed and light.

Healing is the return of everything to its essence, eating, sleeping, playing, working, loving and being loved, and living a life like this.

- Liu Chenxi

In life, don't expect others to prioritize your own interests.

You should find a way to defend or fight for your own affairs or your own interests.

Always relying on teachers, leaders, and society to be responsible for themselves, but they don't put their mentality right, and in the end, it is easy to become complaining.

- Liu Xiaobo

Every time I read that kind of good book, I feel the infinity of the universe or the vastness of the thinking territory, I feel that if I can't make money, I can't make it, and if I can't solve the little problems in life, I can't solve them. We all come from mountains, rivers, lakes and seas, so why bother with day and night, kitchen and love, right?

——Honkei

Never blame anyone in your life, good people give you happiness, scumbags give you experiences, the worst people give you lessons, and the best people give you memories.

Now and in the future, I think it's important to keep the language accurate. The purpose of this is to allow you to express yourself as fully and accurately as possible, and to maintain your own balance. Because the accumulation of inexplicable and unclear things will eventually lead to neurosis.

Every day, people's psychology changes a lot, but the way people express themselves is often the same. The ability to express lags behind the experience. This can have a bad effect on the psyche. Those nameless feelings, feelings, thoughts, and impressions are not expressed, do not obtain general satisfaction, they are constantly suppressed within an individual, and eventually lead to a psychological explosion or psychological breakdown.

——布罗茨基《悲伤与理智》

In fact, whether children have self-motivation or not, the most important thing is "self-identity positioning".

Properly study in advance and establish advantageous subjects, he (she) has a "I am very good" identity positioning, and he or she is naturally very proactive.

Most babies are ordinary at first, even disadvantaged, and parents should help their children shape the identity of "I am the challenger". This positioning is in many Hollywood movies and Japanese shonen comics, ordinary teenagers and girls pass the test, step by step, overcome many difficulties, and become kings.

A lot of people think that self-motivation is completely innate, but I don't think so, for myself and the people around me, the power to change identity is enormous.

The author of Atomic Habits also mentions this at the beginning. It's not about changing habits and becoming a great person, it's about "I'm a great person, so I have these habits."

- Wind Daddy Parenting

Eventually, people must learn to define their own identity inwardly, such as: self-satisfied, energetic, physically and mentally healthy, growing, calm and comfortable, focused, and aware......

All outward, identities defined by others and society usually come with a bit of anxiety. For example: presidents, writers, celebrities, successful people, fathers, mothers, men, women, bosses, migrant workers, city people, country people......

These are what psychology calls identity anxiety. Forcibly put other people's opinions and evaluations of themselves into their own inner world.

People really need to live a little: "What you think of me, it's my business." After all, these things are useless when you are alone with yourself.

The identity that can truly provide for one's own enjoyment, and how oneself perceives oneself, is the source of happiness and happiness.

——《Hanzan Bunshu》

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