When people reach middle age, standing in the middle of the long road of life, they look forward and back. At first, they were worried about their aging parents, and then they were worried about their minor children.
Middle-aged you really appreciate the taste of the old and the young, and the middle-aged you really feel the weight of the rope on your shoulders.
Middle-aged you must move forward, middle-aged you are very important in the hearts of your relatives, they need you to rely on you, you are their pillar and day, no matter how hard and tired you are, you can not fall and never escape.
The old age of the elderly, the future of the children, the responsibilities of the family, and the middle-aged you must pick up all the wind and rain on your shoulders.
"Middle-aged people listen to the rain in the passenger boat, the river is wide and the clouds are low, and the broken geese are called the west wind. That is the poetry of idlers, ordinary people living at the bottom do not have this mood and leisure.
Their middle-aged life is only busy with family affairs and endless hearts, only endless sorrows and worries, only non-stop running and tiredness.
Your elderly parents are getting worse and worse, and you have to go back to the hospital again and again to take care of their old days. Although I was tired, I didn't complain.
However, the repression of the mind is difficult to remove, because you know that the end result will come suddenly one day, and you will lose the most important part of your life, but you cannot stop it.
Every time you think of this, your heart hurts like a pinprick, you try your best to avoid thinking about it, try your best to smile and pretend not to know, but every time the phone suddenly rings in the middle of the night, your heart will be shocked.
Looking at the kind eyes of your parents, looking at your parents' wrinkles and snow-like white hair, you only have one impulse, you just want to embrace them in your arms and love them like children.
It is when our parents are old that we really understand what filial piety is, or when people reach middle age, it is life that teaches us to understand the hardships of our parents' lives.
You remember how many things they did for you when you grew up, when they could do it for you, your mother cooked for you, and your father picked up your children for you.
Under the care of your parents, you think you are still a child, you think your parents are still young and strong. Finally, one day you found the slow pace of your parents, the rickety back.
From then on, you have a feeling of distress, and you realize your responsibility. You find that you are no longer young, that you are middle-aged.
The children around you are growing up day by day but the future is uncertain, and the fierce competition in the society makes you worry.
You put down all your dignity, for the sake of your child's future, you do your best, you beg people to look at your face, in order to let your child enter a good school, a good class, for a good job, you nod your head and say all the good things.
You find yourself limited in your abilities, and you strongly want to be rich and powerful, not for yourself but for them, and you really want to have a pair of big wings to protect them all in your arms.
But you can't give it, parents will grow old one day, and children will one day be pushed on their own path by fate. You can only tell your parents to take good care of them, but your parents still say that they are good and reassure you.
You say to your child to let him study hard, and the child nods. And you feel that your words are so empty and powerless, you even hate your own incompetence, why can't you give your parents a better old age, why can't you give your children more help.
Every day you go to work as usual, working in a position that you love and hate, coping with countless assessments and exams, and dealing with the pickiness of your boss.
You're in control, and you've found that it's easy to do somewhere, and you're never going to do it for the sake of that indispensable salary to support your family.
You know that when you reach middle age, you no longer have the capital and energy to start a new business. This job is extremely important to you, you are diligent and meticulous, even if you are angry, you only quietly scold "grandma's" when no one is around.
Seeing the happy smiling faces of young people, you will also show a knowing smile, and you will not be without envy to think about a happy age without worries, and you can't help but remember that you have been so carefree.
And now after work, you will go straight home, your own home, your parents' home, the elderly's business, the children's business, a whole lot of things are waiting for you.
There are also brothers and sisters, weddings and funerals, with the right gifts, remember to pay back the love owed to others at the right time, and ask others to give a generous gift at the right time that is not embarrassing or embarrassing.
All of these things are part of life, and everything needs to be taken care of.
Middle-aged life is to carry a heavy burden forward, is to pull a heavy car to climb, you only think about what you should do, running around tired footsteps, you have no time to think about yourself anymore, you are busy at all costs, life is only tired and hard.
Maybe in an occasional leisure, after a glass of wine, you will be full of sadness and tears will flow out of your eyes.
It's not tired, it's not bitter, it's not wrong, it's a kind of tragedy and pride that arises spontaneously.
You are insignificant to society, but to your home and your loved ones, you are so important that you are by no means dispensable, you are their heaven and hope, you are their whole world.
Without you, the sky will fall, and you will feel more glory than ever before, and you will feel like a tall mountain in the wine.
You won't let alcohol paralyze you anymore like you did when you were younger, you won't get drunk anymore, and you can't get drunk anymore. A drunken party rest is the leisure of idlers.
For middle-aged you, how many pairs of eyes are looking at you with anticipation and trust, so you reorganize your clothes, wipe away your tears, and appear in front of your relatives with a mountain-like calmness, letting them know that they don't have to worry about anything if you are there.
In middle age, you will always hide your inner anxiety, fear, boredom and inability to attack from time to time, although life is like a mess, you will still use courage and patience to straighten them out one by one.
Middle-aged you have become patient and kind, no matter how tedious things will not easily make you angry, all things over and over again you are still calm and patient, and your anger has dissipated unconsciously.
You are no longer tired of your parents' nagging, you no longer care about your children's occasional confrontations, and you don't care about the random accusations of your boss, you can understand and accept everything.
Because it is these little bits and pieces of triviality that let you know that life has not changed, and it runs normally day after day. You know that's what you want.
"Young people don't know the taste of sorrow", thinking about how romantic and beautiful the sorrow of that youth was. The sorrow and worry in middle age is heavy, it is a heavy responsibility in the heart, only when people reach middle age can they feel the taste of wanting to talk about it.
It is a kind of tragedy and emotion that no matter how hard and tired it is, it is the health and longevity of the parents, the safe growth of the children, and the harmony and happiness of the family.
Who said that this is not a success in life, who said that it is not a glory in middle age. As a middle-aged person, no matter how humble and ordinary you are, as long as you pick up a burden of responsibility with your own shoulders and your own heart, you are a mountain, an admirable mountain.